IKrisimesi inezinto ezintle kakhulu kodwa into yokufumana izipho yinto ehlala iphawulwe ubomi bakhe nawuphi na umntu. Kwimeko yabantwana, ukukwazi ukuvuka ekuseni ngeKrisimesi okanye uSuku lweeKumkani ezintathu kwaye banandiphe zonke iithoyi abazicelileyo, Yinto eyodwa, enomlingo kwaye emangalisayo. Ingxaki ivela xa uluhlu lweminqweno lungenasiphelo kwaye amathoyizi afunyenweyo maninzi kakhulu. Kwimeko enjalo, into eyaziwa ngokuba sisityebi kid syndrome kwenzeka.
Ngelishwa, le syndrome iye yanda ngokuhamba kweminyaka ngenxa yabathengi kunye nokuthanda izinto eziphathekayo kuluntu. Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha ngolu hlobo lwe-syndrome kunye Yintoni abafanele bayenze abazali ukuze bayiphephe?
Yintoni i-rich kid syndrome?
Olu hlobo lwe-syndrome lwenzeka kubantwana abafumana yonke into abayifunayo kubazali babo nakwizalamane. Aba ngabantwana abakruqukileyo ngalo lonke ixesha, abangenavelwano kwaye banenqanaba eliphezulu lokudandatheka. Ngexesha leKrisimesi, i-syndrome iyanda kubantwana abaninzi, ekhokelela ekukhuleni kwesimo sengqondo esinyanzelisayo kunye nokuzingca. Awukwazi ukuvumela olu hlobo lwe-syndrome kwaye uthintele umntwana ukuba abe nayo yonke into ayifunayo okanye ayinqwenelayo.
Indlela yokuphepha i-syndrome yabantwana abatyebileyo ngexesha leKrisimesi
Ngokufika kweeholide zeKrisimesi kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuyiqwalasela i-syndrome yomfana osisityebi kwinani elikhulu leentsapho zaseSpain. Ukunika oku kunye nokunqanda oku, kulungile ukuba abazali balandele uluhlu lwezikhokelo okanye iingcebiso:
- Kuhle ukuba abancinci bazi ukuba ixabiso lokubulela libandakanya ntoni. Ikwenza ukwazi ukuba nombulelo ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye wonwabe ngento onayo. Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bayazi indlela yokuwuxabisa umgudu owenziwa ngabazali ngezi ntsuku.
- Abazali kufuneka bagxininise kubantwana ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala ukuba yonke into ebomini ifezekiswa ngomsebenzi kunye nomzamo. Akuyomfuneko ukubhekisela kuphela kwimali nakwizinto eziphathekayo kodwa kwimisebenzi yasekhaya yabazali yemihla ngemihla.
- Akulunganga ukuvuza abantwana ngezinto eziphathekayo. Abantwana bamele baqonde ukuba njengalo naliphi na ilungu lekhaya banothotho lweembopheleleko abamele bazenze. Yinto ethathwa njengendawo kwaye ngenxa yoko akufuneki bafumane amabhaso ngayo.
- Abazali bafanele bakuphephe ukuhamba phezu kwamanzi ngamaxesha onke xa bephisa ngezinto zokudlala. Abantwana abafuni izixa ezikhulu zezinto zokudlala xa kufikelelwa kulonwabo. Izinto eziphathekayo aziniki ulonwabo kwaye kunokubakho izinto ezithile ezingezizo izinto eziphathekayo enokunika ulwaneliseko olungakumbi kunezinye izinto zokudlala eziphathekayo.
- Namhlanje uninzi lwabantwana lugxininisa ngakumbi ekwamkeleni kunokupha. Into ebalulekileyo kukuphumeza umlinganiselo othile kwaye abantwana bafunde ukuba ukunikela okanye ukunikela kubalulekile xa kuziwa ekuphuhliseni ubuntu obukhulu. Ngoko ke, musa ukuthandabuza ukubethelela ebantwaneni bakho isibakala sokunikela ngezinto zokudlala ezithile okanye ukuthenga into yokudlala ngemali yakho uze uyise esibhedlele ukuze uyinike abantwana abayifuna ngokwenene.
Ngamafutshane, kwiimeko ezininzi, isifo somntwana osisityebi sibangelwa kukungakhuliswa kakuhle kwabantwana kubantwana babo. Uluntu luhamba kwizinto eziphathekayo kunye Le yinto efundwa ngabancinci endlwini. Kule mihla, abantwana bacela kwaye babuze ngaphandle komda kwaye abazali benza impazamo enkulu ukwanelisa umnqweno onjalo wokuba nawo. Kuhle ukukuphepha oku, ukuba abantwana bakhule bethathela ingqalelo imilinganiselo ethile enjengombulelo okanye uvelwano kwaye bayazi ukuba kukho ubomi obungaphaya kokuthanda izinto eziphathekayo.