Ukuphulukana nomntu omthandayo yenye yezinto ezimbi ezenzeka emntwini.. Inkqubo yokuba buhlungu inzima kakhulu kwaye ukuba nomntu osondeleyo wokukunceda ukuba udlule kwelo xesha linzima kubaluleke kakhulu. Kwintlungu inkalo yeemvakalelo ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba umntu obandezelekileyo azive enomsindo, enomsindo okanye engenakuzinceda.
Njengoko bekulindelekile, Ezo mvakalelo zinempembelelo embi kwikamva elihle lesi sibini. Yiyo loo nto esi sibini sinendima ebalulekileyo ekuncedeni omnye umntu oyise ixesha lentlungu.
Izikhokelo ekufuneka zilandelwe ukunceda isibini soyise intlungu
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo xa kufikwa ekuncedeni isibini soyise ingxaki enzima njengokusweleka komntu esimthandayo, Kukuba novelwano kunye nokubabonisa yonke inkxaso enokwenzeka. Ukusuka apha kuyacetyiswa ukuba ulandele uluhlu lwezikhokelo okanye iingcebiso:
- Ukukhanyela lixesha elinzima athi nabani na osentlungwini adlule kulo. Umsebenzi wesibini kufuneka ube kukuzama ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntu uyakwazi ukwamkela ilahleko kunye ukushiya ecaleni ukukhanyela kuyo yonke into.
- Kumaxesha anzima ngolo hlobo, umntu oye walahlekelwa yintlungu akafanele azive elilolo. Ngumsebenzi wesibini ukumxhasa kuyo yonke into efunekayo kwaye menze abone ukuba akayedwanga. Ukuwola nje ngokulula okanye ukuba nencoko kunokwanela ukukunceda uhlangabezane nentlungu.
- Akulunganga ukuba umntu osentlungwini azigcine kuye iimvakalelo zakhe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukuvakalisa ngawo onke amaxesha oko uziva ngokwenene. Iqabane liyinxalenye ebalulekileyo xa kufikwa kumntu osentlungwini ekwazi ukuzisa iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ekukhanyeni.
- Intlungu yinkqubo ende kwaye inzima enokuthi ibangele naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane. Isibini kufuneka sithwale uxanduva lokukhathalela ubudlelwane obukhankanywe ngasentla kangangoko kwaye siphephe ngalo lonke ixesha ukuba sinokucaphuka. Kuya kufuneka wazi indlela yokunyamekela iqabane lakho, ukuze kancinci kancinci bakwazi ukoyisa umzuzu onzima nonzima. Kunjani ukufa komntu omthandayo?
- Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntu oye walahlekelwa angayiva intlungu yakhe ngokukhululekileyo kwaye hamba kumanqanaba ahlukeneyo entlungu ngaphandle kwengxaki. Iqabane kufuneka libe ngumthombo wenkxaso kodwa ingabi ngumntu obeka uxinzelelo emntwini ukuba adlule kwintlungu ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba isigaba sosizi sihlala ixesha elide kunokuba kulindelwe, akukho nzakalo yokuya kwingcali ukuze incede ukunqoba ingxaki enjalo.
Ngamafutshane, akukho lula okanye kulula ukuba neqabane elisentlungwini yokufelwa ngumntu omthandayo. Kwezi meko, inkxaso yesi sibini iba yimfuneko kwaye iyimfuneko ukuze le nkqubo yoyiswe.