Ukuhlala nomntu onengxaki yengqondo kunzima ngokwenene. ngakumbi ukuba liqabane lakho. Akulula kwaye ukuba awuyazi indlela yokujongana nokuphazamiseka okunjalo, kunokubangela ukuba ubudlelwane buphele ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Ukuthintela isibini ekubeni sibe nomhla wokuphelelwa, Kubalulekile ukuba omabini amaqela afune ukucombulula imeko enjalo kwaye afunde ukuphila nayo. Siza kukunika uluhlu lwezikhokelo ekufuneka uzilandele ukuze ubudlelwane bube nempilo kangangoko kunokwenzeka, nangona kukho ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kwelinye lamaqela.
Xhasa isibini
Akulula ukuba nabani na afumanise ukuba unengxaki yengqondo., ngakumbi ukuba uthandana. Kule meko, omnye umntu kufuneka akubonise yonke inkxaso yakhe kwaye akwenze ubone ngamaxesha onke ukuba awuwedwa. Ukuziva usikelelekile ukuba nenkxaso kunye nothando lweqabane lakho kubalulekile xa kuziwa ekoyiseni ingxaki yengqondo enjalo.
Funda ngokuphazamiseka kwengqondo
Nje ukuba uxilongo oluthembekileyo lwenziwe ukuba lowo umthandayo unengxaki yengqondo, Lixesha lokuqokelela lonke ulwazi olunokwenzeka malunga nokuphazamiseka okunjalo. Kulungile ukuya kwiingcali okanye iiwebhusayithi ezikunceda ukuba ufunde ngakumbi malunga nokuphazamiseka okunjalo kwaye ngale ndlela uncede isibini ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Vumela iingcali zisebenze
Ukufuna ukufunda ngesi sifo akuniki umntu ilungelo lokuba ngugqirha weqabane lakhe. Ngenxa yoku, kungcono ukuba iingcali zenze umsebenzi wazo kuba ziyayazi into eyenzayo kwaye zinokunceda ukunyanga ingxaki enjalo. Umsebenzi wesibini ufanele ube kukubaxhasa ngayo nayiphi na indlela abayifunayo kwaye ubanike iimpawu zothando xa befuneka.
Kuhle ukukhumbula ukuba umntu ogulayo akanakuphathisa iqabane lakhe lonke uxanduva. Umntu onesifo esinjalo kufuneka athathe uxanduva lwakhe kwaye enze konke okusemandleni akhe ukoyisa loo ngxaki kwaye ukuze ngale ndlela ingalimazi ulwalamano ngokwalo ngendlela embi.
Ukubaluleka konyango
Ukuya kunyango kubaluleke kakhulu xa kuziwa ekoyiseni ingxaki enjalo kunye thintela esi sifo ukuba singonakalisi ubudlelwane. Isiluleko esifanelekileyo sinceda isibini sikwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo ezahlukahlukeneyo ezibangelwa kukuphazamiseka okunjalo. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba isibini sisempilweni kangangoko kunokwenzeka nangona kukho iingxaki ezinokuvela ngenxa yokuhlala nesifo sengqondo.
Ngamafutshane, akulula ukuhlala neqabane eliye lafunyaniswa ukuba linesifo sengqondo. Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba nobudlelwane obunempilo obuvumela abantu bobabini ukuba bomeleze uthando kunye nothando lwabo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuxhasana nokubeka umdla othile ekunyangeni ingxaki yengqondo enjalo. Nokuba uya kunyango okanye kwingcali, owaziyo ukunceda umntu ogulayo ukuba anqobe iingxaki kunye nokunyamekela ubudlelwane besi sibini.