Sonke sikhe sabandezeleka okomzuzwana xa iingxaki ziyaqokelelana kwaye zibonakala ngathi azinakuphela. Kodwa ukuba kukho into esichazayo, ayizizo izinto ezenzeka kuthi, kodwa sisimo sengqondo esisithathayo kubo nendlela esibalawula ngayo. Ukujongana neengxaki kuhlala kunzima, kodwa ukuba sizenza ngesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, siya kube siphumelela. Ke masibone ukuba singasenza njani esi simo sengqondo kwaye sisombulule iingxaki ngeyona ndlela ilungileyo.
La Isimo sengqondo esikhuthazayo asiveli ndawo. Nangona kukho abantu ngokwendalo abahle ngakumbi, inyani kukuba olu hlobo lwesimo sengqondo sinokuqeqeshwa kwaye sifunde ukuluvelisa ekuhambeni kwexesha. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka sibe nezixhobo ezaneleyo ukuze sikwazi ukujongana nemihla ngemihla sinesimo sengqondo esilungileyo esisincedayo.
Zama ukunciphisa ingxaki
Ngamanye amaxesha iingxaki ezibonakala zikhulu ngokuhamba kwexesha zibonakala zingenanto kwaye xa sizikhumbula siyazibuza ukuba kutheni zisichaphazele kangaka. Kuneke u zama ukuqonda ingxaki kwaye uyinciphise. Into yokuqala kukujonga ukuba ngaba akukho sisombululo okanye into esinokuyenza kunye nendlela yokuyenza. Intshukumo iya kuhlala isinceda ukuqhubela phambili kwaye singabambeki kwiintlungu okanye kwixhala. Ukuba ingxaki ibonakala ingenasisombululo, inyathelo lokuya phambili kukwamkela. Ukwamkelwa yenye indlela yokukhula, njengoko isinika amandla okuziqhelanisa neemeko ezinokuba nzima. Ukuba sicinga ukuba ingxaki ayikho nzulu kwaye ubomi bunokusinika okuninzi, akusayi kubonakala ngathi kukhulu.
Musa ukuzigxeka kakhulu
Abantu abangenayo i-negative kuphela, kodwa banomdla wokugxeka kakhulu kubo. Inkqubo ye- ukuzigxeka kulungile ukuba kuyakha kwaye isikhokelela ekubeni siphucule izenzo zethu, kodwa ijike ibe mbi xa isenza sizive singalunganga. Ukuwela ekuzisizeleni ayisosisombululo sengxaki. Izinto ezimbi zenzeka kuye wonke umntu kwaye sonke sizenzile iimpazamo ngaxa lithile ebomini, ke kuya kufuneka sikubone kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Ukwamkela kunye nokuqhubela phambili kubalulekile.
Funa ukufunda kumava
Yonke ingxaki kunye onke amava amabi anokufunda kwawo kwaye ke ngoko akufuneki sigxile kuphela kokubi. Singasoloko sifumana into elungileyo kuzo zonke iingxaki eziza kuthi. Ukusuka kwizixhobo ezininzi ukoyisa kwiindlela ezintsha zokubona iingxaki okanye iimpawu ezintsha zokuzoyisa. Njengokuba yonke into ibandakanya ukufunda, kuya kufuneka ucinge malunga nento oyifumanayo kule ngxaki kunye nendlela onokuyisebenzisa ngayo ebomini bakho kwaye uyakubona ukuba akukho nto imbi njengakuqala.
Iglasi igcwele
Elo binzana ukuba ubona iglasi isiqingatha sigcwele okanye isiqingatha singenanto xa isixa sinye, isixelela indlela abantu abajamelana ngayo neengxaki. Abanye bayakwazi ukubona icala elilungileyo lezinto ngelixa abanye begxila kuphela kokubi. Yiyo loo nto ke kufuneka sibe nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kufuneka sifunde ukuba yinxalenye yabo banokubona into elungileyo kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo. Ukuba siyalibona icala elilungileyo siya kuyeka ukuzikhathaza ngezinto ezimbi kwaye siya kuloyisa ngcono.
Ukuba nethemba kukunceda udlule kwizinto
Yazi ukuba kubanjani umntu onesimo sengqondo esihle ngakumbi Ingasinceda soyise izinto yinto esikhokelela ekubeni sibe nesinye isimo sengqondo. Abantu abasebenzayo bayasebenza kwaye bafumana izisombululo kuyilo kwiingxaki zabo. Abamoshi amandla kunye nexesha bekhalaza kwaye bexhalabile, kodwa endaweni yoko baya emsebenzini ukusombulula iingxaki zabo.