Kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla sijamelana neemeko ezininzi ekufuneka sizisombulule kwaye sijongana nabantu abaninzi. Kwizihlandlo ezininzi siye saqonda ukuba kukho abantu ababonakala bengakhuselekanga kwiimeko ezithile, ezinokubenza bangathembeki okanye bangakwazi ukunxibelelana kakuhle nabanye. Kungenxa yoko le nto xa unxibelelana eluntwini kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba masifunde ukubonisa ukhuseleko.
Asifanelanga kuphela bonisa ukhuseleko Ikwangumbono omkhulu ukuba sikwazi ukufunda ukuzithemba ngakumbi kuthi, kuba ngale ndlela siyivelisela abanye ngendlela yendalo. Siza kukunika ezinye izikhokelo ukuqala ukufumana ukhuseleko ngakumbi.
Zazi wena
Asinakuzibonisa ukuba sizithembile ukuba asazi buyintoni ubuthathaka bethu namandla ethu. Kufuneka sazi ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba yintoni elungileyo kwaye yintoni ekufuneka siyiphucule. Ukuba siyazazi siyazi ukuba masenze njani phambi kwabanye kwaye sizibonakalise sinjani, sikhuthaza okuhle. Le nkqubo ayikho lula njengoko inokubonakala, kuba ngamanye amaxesha siyaphenjelelwa ngabanye abantu kunye neemeko xa kufikwa ekusebenzeni kwaye siphulukana nombono wokuba singobani.
Yiba nothando
Umntu ongazithandiyo ngekhe enze ukhuseleko, kuba uya kuhlala eziva engakhuselekanga phambi kwabanye. Fumana uthando lwakho yinkqubo ekufuneka sisebenze kuyo, kuba besingasoloko sikwazi ukufikelela kuyo ngokulula. Ayisiyo eyokuzibeka phambili kwayo yonke into, kodwa malunga nokuzithanda nokuzifunela into elungileyo, ukuthetha kakuhle nathi kwaye siqwalasele ukuba sinazo izinto ezilungileyo nezimbi, kodwa ukuba siyinto eyahlukileyo ekhethekileyo.
Yiba nezizathu
Umntu ongenasizathu ebomini akayokuya kukhuseleko lweprojekthi, kuba akanawo loo mafutha kufuneka sifumane izinto. Kubalulekile ukuba nezinto ezisikhuthazayo kwaye zisenze sifune ukuphucula kunye nokuqhubela phambili. Oku kusenza ukuba sikhusele iprojekthi kuthi nakwinto esiyenzayo.
Sebenzisa uvelwano
Ukuze sibonise ukhuseleko kwabanye, kufuneka sazi nokuba sinxibelelana njani nabo. Oku kuthetha ukuba novelwano oluthile nabo. Inkqubo ye- uvelwano luthetha ukwazi ukuzibeka endaweni yabanye kwaye siyiqonde, nokuba asibabelani ngendlela yabo yokubona ubomi. Ukuziva iimvakalelo zabanye kunye nokuqonda kwenza ukuba sikwazi ukunxibelelana ngcono nabo, kuba siyayazi indlela abavakalelwa ngayo kunye nendlela yokufikelela kubo nokubanceda. Uvelwano lubaluleke kakhulu kunxibelelwano, kuba lwenza abantu ababini banxibelelane ngokulula.
Yazi indlela yokuphulaphula
Ukuze ukwazi ukhuseleko lweprojekthi kwaye unxibelelane nabanye Kuyimfuneko ukuba nathi sikwazi ukumamela nokuqonda enye. Ukwazi indlela yokumamela kukwayinxalenye yovelwano. Abantu abaninzi bafuna ukumanyelwa kwaye siya kuqondana ngcono ukuba simamela izinto abasixelela zona, into ebalulekileyo xa sinxibelelana nabanye abantu. Bubugcisa obungekho baninzi abantu abayaziyo indlela yokwenza. Zibeke kuvavanyo kwaye uzame ukubona ukuba abanye bayayazi indlela yokumamela okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, bayakuphazamisa ukuba uxelele uhlobo lwabo lwezinto. Kulula ukucinga ukuba ukumamela yinto eyenziwa ngumntu wonke, kodwa awukwazi ukuyibona rhoqo kwiincoko.
Funda ukomelela
Ukomelela sisakhono sabantu ukuze phinda uqhubeke kwaye ujongane nobunzima. Obu buchule bubaluleke kakhulu, kuba amaxesha anzima yile asifundisa ukomelela, kwaye ukufunda ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo kuya kusinceda ukuba sizithembe ngakumbi, kuba siya kwazi ukuba singamelana nobunzima kwaye siqhubele phambili.