Kobu bomi, yonke into inokuthi itshintshe, iguquke. Isantya esidlakazayo ngoku kunye nenkqubela phambili kunye nokufunyanwa, ngakumbi kwicandelo lobuchwepheshe, zezinye zezizathu ezichaza oku kuguquka okungapheliyo kweendlela zethu zokwenza, zokuziphatha, kunye dibana nabanye abantu, kwaye hayi njengezihlobo, kodwa ngenjongo yokuseka ubudlelwane obunothando. Indlela yokudlala ngothando iyatshintsha.
Iinethiwekhi zentlalo okanye iphepha elenzelwe le njongo lisetyenzisiwe, njenge iphepha lokunxibelelana, Ayisekho ixesha lokudibana nothando lwakho ebharini, kwiklabhu yasebusuku okanye nakweyiphi na indawo kawonke-wonke, njengoko kwenzekayo kwiminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo.
Okwexesha elithile ngoku Ukuthandana kweesoftware kunye neendawo ziye zanda kwindawo yedijithali, kwaye abafumananga kuphela indawo kwi-Intanethi, kodwa baye baba ngabantu abadumileyo kwaye baba nempumelelo phakathi kwabancinci kwaye abancinci kangako. Ngaphezu koko, enkosi ngenkangeleko yayo, amabali amnandi othando okanye obunye ubuhlobo buvele obugcinwe ngokuhamba kwexesha, nangona kungenjalo njengesibini. Ukuba ungomnye wabo bantu bafuna ukufumana isiqingatha sakho esingcono kule ndawo yedijithali, siya kukunika iingcebiso ezisisiseko apho ungaqala khona.
Kodwa ngaphambi kokunikezela ngeebrashi kwabo bazifaka kwezi zicelo okokuqala, siza kubonisa ukuba, kweli xesha lobuchwephesha, le ndlela yokuthandana iyaphumelela kuba mhlawumbi kulula ukuveza iimvakalelo ngescreen, Ukugxotha loo nto yokuba neentloni ezithile; kuba loo mkhwa wokwazi ukudlala ngothando ulahlekile; okanye kuba yinto entsha kula maxesha apho yonke into inokwenziwa kwiscreen esilula sekhompyuter.
Ukufika kule migca, umbuzo uphakama, indlela yokukhetha indawo yokuthandana kwaye uyenze nzulu? Ukhetho oluchanekileyo lwendawo yokuthandana kubalulekile ukufumana iziphumo ezinqwenelekayo, nangona eyokugqibela ingaqinisekiswanga. Kukho izinto ezahlukeneyo, kunye namava amaninzi omsebenzisi, malunga nokukhetha okanye ukukhangela iqabane kwi-Intanethi. Into yokuqala kukukhetha indawo yokuthandana ehambelana nento ofuna ukuyifumana. Oko kukuthi, ukuba umntu uyafuna iintlanganiso ezingaqhelekanga okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, uyafuna dibana nesiqingatha sakho esingcono.
Ukuba asilusebenzisi olu khetho, ngokuqinisekileyo asizukufumana iziphumo ezilindelekileyo. Okwesibini, ngaphambi kokuba siye kukhangela iqabane lethu elizayo, kufuneka sijonge igama lendawo yokuthandana.
Okwangoku, oku kubalulekile, kuba kukho ubuqhetseba obuninzi kumnatha njengesiphumo sedijithali. Kuya kufuneka singene kwiphepha elisemthethweni, kwaye kujoliso lwalo lujolise kule njongo, kwaye oko kuyaziwa kwicandelo. Ukongeza, kule webhusayithi uza kufumana izimvo ezininzi zezona ndawo zibalaseleyo zokuthandana okwangoku. Emva koko, siya kufumanisa ukuba kukho amaphepha ahlawulelweyo okanye amanye asimahla. Apha, kuya kuxhomekeka kwiminqweno kunye nokhetho lomntu ngamnye lokutyala imali. Ukwazi ukudlala ngothando nomnye umntu, usazi ukuba akukho ndlela ifihlakeleyo yokoyisa omnye umntu.
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Kwaye leliphi iphepha esinokulincoma kweli nqaku? Njengoko besesitshilo, icandelo libonelela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kwaye kuya kufuneka wenze isifundo ngento nganye ebonelelweyo nokuba iyahambelana nomdla wakho. Singakukhankanya kwenye yezona ndawo zithandwayo zokubonisana ezinerekhodi eqinileyo kwicandelo, njengaye Nyani.
Ngokuqinisekileyo uvile ngabo, kuba ikho kumazwe aliqela kwaye iyi-a yewebhu kweekowuti ezaziwa kakhulu. Le ndawo yokuthandana ijolise ikakhulu kwi khangela iqabane elizinzileyo kodwa ishiya umnyango uvulekile ukudibana nezinye ii-singles ngaphandle kokuzibophelela, nangona kungenjalo, indlela esitsho ngayo, eyona nto kugxilwe kuyo. Yinto ekufuneka uyixabisile.
Umsebenzisi okhangela iqabane ubhala ibali lakhe kwaye anike ulwazi malunga naye, kodwa kananjalo malunga nento oyifunayo Ngoluhlu lweeparameter ekufuneka zigqityiwe: indlela yokuphila, ukuthanda izinto, idatha yobuqu, imifanekiso, ubugcisa, phakathi kwezinye izinto ezininzi, nangona kunganyanzelekanga ukugqiba onke amabakala. Ngokulula, ulwazi oluthe kratya lubonelelweyo, ukhetho oluninzi luya kubakho ukufumana iziphumo ezilungileyo, nangona yonke into ixhomekeke ukuba ibali lihamba njani bakudibana bobabini abantu.
Ngaphambi koko, kwaye nje ukuba ibali lenziwe, le ndawo yokuthandana iya kukunika inikeza iingcebiso ezininzi Okanye unokusebenzisa ukhetho lokukhangela ukuze ufumane umntu ofana nawe ngokweeprofayili kunye nokuhambelana kwazo. Kungenxa yokuba njengokuba ubona iprofayili kunye nokuthandwa komnye umntu, unokubabona kwaye ubazi.