Hlangana nokungathembeki kwesi sibini Lelinye lawona maxesha anzima nabuhlungu umntu anokudlula kuwo. Ukungathembeki kubangela uthotho lweemvakalelo ezingathandekiyo kunye neemvakalelo ngakulowo umthandayo. Ukuthembana okubekwe kwesi sibini kuyaphela ngendlela yokuba luphelise ulwalamano ngokwalo.
Nangona kunjalo, oku akusoloko kunjalo kwaye kukuba imbono yokungathembeki inokwahluka kwaye ihluke kumadoda nabasetyhini.
ukungathembeki kwamadoda nabafazi
Imbono yokungathembeki kumadoda nabasetyhini yahluke ngokupheleleyo kwaye yahlukile. Amadoda anika ukubaluleka koko kubizwa ngokuba kukungathembeki ngokwesondo ngelixa abafazi bebeka ukunganyaniseki ngokweemvakalelo ngaphambi komba wesondo. Nangona kunjalo, kungakhathaliseki isini, umntu ngamnye ihlabathi likwazi ukujongana nokungathembeki ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
Xa ujongene nokungathembeki kwaye uvavanya ubunzulu bayo, imeko eyenzeka phantsi kwayo mayithathelwe ingqalelo kunye nokubandakanyeka komntu. Ukuxolelwa kwezo zenzo zokungathembeki kuya kuba nzima ukuba kuye kwakho ukutshintshiselana ngeemvakalelo kwaye kukuziphatha okucwangcisiweyo.
Indlela yokujongana nokungathembeki
- Inyathelo lokuqala kukucamngca nokucinga ngayo yonke into engqongileyo wathi ukungathembeki. Kufuneka uhlalutye ukungathembeki ngendlela ezolile kwaye ekhululekile kwaye wazi ukuba kufanelekile ukuqhubeka ukulwa nobudlelwane okanye ukuyiphelisa.
- Ukunyaniseka kwicala lomntu ongathembekanga ngundoqo xa kuziwa ekwazini isandla sokuqala, izibakala ezibangele ukungathembeki okunjalo.
- Umntu ongathembekanga Kufuneka uqhawule naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane nomntu ongaphandle kwesibini. Oku kufuna ukubeka uthotho lweziseko ezinceda ukubuyisela ukuthembana okulahlekileyo kwakhona.
- Iqela eliye lafumana ukungathembeki okunjalo kufuneka liqonde izizathu okanye izizathu zokuba iqabane labo lingathembekanga. Ukufumana oonobangela kungundoqo ukuze ungenzi iimpazamo kwixesha elizayo kwaye qinisa iqhina phakathi kwesibini.
- Kwimeko apho uxolelo lufika kwaye isibini sizinikele, kubalulekile ukudala iziseko zokuqinisekisa ukuba ukuthembela kukho kubudlelwane. Bobabini abantu kufuneka bazibophelele ekulibaleni okwenzekileyo kwaye bagxile kwiqabane labo. Ukuzibophelela kuya kunceda ukuqinisa kwakhona ubudlelwane kunye nokugcina ubudlelwane buqhubeka.
yiya kwingcali
Kwiimeko ezininzi amaqela aya kufuna yiya izibini unyango ukoyisa ukungathembeki. Uncedo lwengcali lunokuba ngundoqo xa ubudlelwane bugxininise kuluhlu lweenjongo kunye nokujonga phambili ukuze kufumaneke inhlalakahle ethile. Ukuba kukho uthando olwaneleyo kunye nothando kubudlelwane, akufuneki kubekho ingxaki enkulu yokufumana ukungathembeki.
Ngamafutshane, Ukungathembeki yintonga enzima kakhulu kumntu obandezelekileyo. Ukuba nentembelo enkulu kwiqabane lakho kunye nokubona ngamehlo akho ukuba iphuka njani yinto ebuhlungu kakhulu. Xa kufikwa ekubandezelekeni ngokungathembeki okuthile, akukhathaliseki nokuba yindoda okanye ngumfazi. Indlela abasabela ngayo kunye nendlela yokusingatha ingxaki enjalo yahlukile kumntu ngamnye, kuthathelwa ingqalelo ngamaxesha onke umongo ekuthe kwenzeka kuwo ukungathembeki.
Kwimeko yamadoda, banika ukubaluleka kwinto yokuba baxhatshazwe yinkohliso ngokwesondo liqabane labo. Ngelixa kwimeko yabasetyhini, inkalo yeemvakalelo inobunzima kakhulu ngaphakathi ukungathembeki ehluphekayo. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, isibini ngasinye sihluke, ngoko ke indlela yokujongana nokukopela ihluke kwaye ihluke.