Nangona isenokubonakala ingaqhelekanga, Imvakalelo yokucaphuka idla ngokufumaneka kwizibini ezininzi. Yinto engokwemvelo edla ngokwenzeka xa kusiliwa nomnye umntu. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukuyisombulula, kuba kungenjalo inokubangela ingxaki enkulu kwikamva elihle lesi sibini.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha ngesizathu sokuba ingqumbo ibonakale kubudlelwane kunye yintoni omawuyenze ukuze ukwazi ukuyiphelisa.
Ukucaphuka kwesi sibini
Olu hlobo lwemvakalelo ludla ngokuvela ekukhanyeni emva kokuziva buhlungu liqabane. Ukuze into ingahambi ngakumbi, ukucaphuka kufuneka kube okwethutyana kwaye kunyamalale ngexesha elifutshane. Emva koko sikubonisa ukuba zeziphi iimeko zokucaphukela umntu oyinxalenye yobudlelwane ngokwesiqhelo:
- Ukungazi indlela yokubonisa indlela umntu avakalelwa ngayo kwiqabane, kunokukhokelela kwingqumbo ethile kumntu othandekayo ukuba eze ekukhanyeni.
- Ubukho bokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwasengqondweni liqabane, ibangela ukuba kuvele inzondo emandla ngakuyo.
- Ukungathembeki okubangelwa kukungathembeki okuthile Inokukhokelela kwingqumbo enkulu komnye umntu.
Iimpawu zokuba kukho inzondo kumlingane
Olona phawu lucacileyo olunokuthi lubonise ukuba kukho ukucaphuka okuthile kwesi sibini, Kubangelwa kukungakwazi ukuxolela into ebibuhlungu ngokwenene. Umonakalo ofunyenweyo mkhulu kwaye ubalulekile kangangokuba nasiphi na isenzo okanye isenzo somnye umntu sinokujika sibe sikhubekisayo. Olunye uphawu olubonisa ukuba kukho inzondo emandla kwesi sibini, kungenxa yokuba ukuthenjwa okukhulu kuyo kulahlekile.
Indlela yokoyisa ukucaphukela iqabane lakho
Ukuba intukuthelo ikhula kwaye ayinqotshwa, kuya kucetyiswa ukuba uhambe ngokukhawuleza kwingcali ekwaziyo ukusombulula ingxaki enjalo. Ngokuphathelele iingcebiso, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela oku kulandelayo:
- Unxibelelwano kunye nengxoxo ngundoqo kulo naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane. Abantu bayaqonda ngokuthetha kwaye kunokwenzeka ukusombulula le ngxaki. Kuhle ukuhlala kunye neqabane kwaye ubonise ingqumbo onayo ngakulo.
- Ukuba kukho inzondo, kubalulekile ukwenza izigqibo eziza kuphelisa ingxaki. Ukuba akukho nto yenziweyo, Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ngokuthe ngcembe ingxaki iya kukhula ibe nzulu ize iluphelise ulwalamano.
- Ukufuna uncedo komnye umntu kunokuba ngundoqo ekuyekeleni ingqumbo kunye bonwabele ngokupheleleyo isibini. Ndiyabulela kwingcali elungileyo, ukuthembela kunye nokhuseleko kunokusetyenzwa kubudlelwane kwaye yenze ukuba iqhube phambili ngaphandle kwengxaki.
Ngamafutshane, Imvakalelo yokucaphukela iqabane kunokuba kuhle ukusebenza ngokuthembana kubudlelwane kwaye uyenze yomelele ngakumbi. Ukuba ingqumbo ayilungiswanga, kusenokwenzeka ukuba loo nto inokukhokelela ekupheleni kobudlelwane.