Impazamo yokusebenzisa isohlwayo kunye ne-blackmail ekukhuliseni abantwana

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Ukuba ngumzali yenye yezona zinto zinzima kwaye zinzima abazali kufuneka bajongane nayo. Yindlela ende nedinisayo ezele yimiqobo ekufuneka yoyiswe kwaye ufumane eyona mfundo ibalaseleyo. Ngamanye amaxesha abazali basebenzisa iindlela ezithile okanye izixhobo ezinjengokohlwaya okanye ukuhlambalaza ezingafanelekanga kwaphela ngokunxulumene nokukhulisa abantwana.

Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela kutheni kuyimpazamo ukusebenzisa isohlwayo kunye ne-blackmail njengezibonelelo kwimfundo yabantwana.

Impazamo yokusebenzisa isohlwayo kunye ne-blackmail ekukhuliseni abantwana

Izizathu zokuba kutheni abazali abaninzi bebhenela kwezi ndlela zinokwahluka. Uxinzelelo okanye ukungabi namonde basenokuba basemva kweendlela zemfundo ezingacetyiswayo njengesohlwayo okanye ukutyhola.

Kwezinye iimeko, imfundo efunyanwa ngabazali kwasebuntwaneni inokuba nempembelelo. Esinye isizathu sokugqibela sinokuba ngenxa yokuba zombini ukuhlambalaza kunye nesohlwayo ziindlela ezimbini Ngokuqhelekileyo basebenza ngokukhawuleza okanye kwixesha elifutshane.

Nangona kunjalo, yi-mirage kuphela kwaye kukuba kwixesha eliphakathi kunye nexesha elide zimbini iindlela oko kuya kubangela iingxaki ezinzulu ekuzicingeni komntwana nasekukhuleni kwakhe.

Ifuthe elibi lesohlwayo kunye ne-blackmail kuphuhliso lwabantwana

Kwimeko yokohlwaywa, bubuchule obubangela ukuba umntwana ahluthwe into ayithandayo okanye ngokuhluthwa ilungelo elithile awayenalo. Kwimeko ye-blackmail yeemvakalelo, kuthetha ukukhohlisa umntwana ukuze amenze enze okanye ayeke ukwenza into. Asiyonto ingaphaya kwendlela yokuphatha kakubi umntwana ngokwasengqondweni oko kunokubonakala kakuhle ekukhulisweni ngokwesintu.

Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, zombini iindlela zobugcisa zibandakanya ukuwohloka okukhulu kuba iqhina eliphakathi koyise nonyana. Kwimeko yomntwana omncinane, ulahlekelwa yintembelo ethile kumfanekiso kayise kwaye kwimeko yomntu omdala, akazinaki ngokupheleleyo iimfuno umntwana anokuba nazo. Kuyinyani ukuba zombini isohlwayo kunye nokuziphatha kakubi ngokweemvakalelo kunokusebenza ngexesha elifutshane, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha kuneziphumo ezibulalayo emntwaneni. Kukho iimeko apho isohlwayo sinokuvelisa umphumo ochaseneyo kwaye umntwana uphela evukela.

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Abazali bafanele benze ntoni ngokuphathelele indlela yokukhulisa abantwana babo?

Ingxaki xa kufikelelwa kumbandela wokufundisa okanye wokukhulisa abantwana ibangelwa sisibakala sokuba abazali babodwa xa bejamelene nocelomngeni olunjalo olubanika lona ubomi. Ngamanye amaxesha basebenzisa isohlwayo okanye i-blackmail, ngempazamo bakholelwa ukuba benza into elungileyo. Imfundo kufuneka isekelwe ngamaxesha onke kumaxabiso abaluleke njengovelwano, uthando okanye ukuthembela. Xa ejongene nokuziphatha kakubi komntwana, kufuneka aqondiswe ngokutsha ngendlela yokuba angabandezeleka ngokweemvakalelo.

Ngokuphathelele ukukhulisa abantwana, abazali bafanele bakhumbule ukuba abantwana abazalwa besazi nokuba ukufunda kuyaqhubeka de kufikelele kwiminyaka yobudala. Ukuze esi sifundo sibe sesona sifanelekileyo, umntwana kufuneka abe nabazali abakwaziyo ukukukhokela kumaxabiso abaluleke njengentlonipho novelwano.

Ngamafutshane, yimpazamo yokwenene ukufundisa okanye ukukhulisa abantwana kusetyenziswa ubuchule okanye izixhobo ezithile njengoko kunjalo kwimeko yesohlwayo okanye ukunyanzeliswa ngokweemvakalelo. Ezi ntlobo zobugcisa zinokuba nokusebenza ngokukhawuleza, kodwa kwixesha elide zibangela imiphumo emibi ekuphuhlisweni kwabantwana. Ngoko ke, musa ukulibala ukuba abazali bafanele babafundise bethathela ingqalelo imbeko novelwano oluthile kubantwana babo.


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