Nangona ngoku siphulaphulwa ngakumbi (imibutho yabasetyhini, uthotho lweTV kumabhinqa, intlalontle kunye nokukhala okuchasene ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini, Ndizama ukufezekisa umvuzo olinganayo, njl.
Kusafuneka "sixolise" kwiimeko ezininzi ezingafanelekanga kuthi, kusafuneka sithobise iintloko zethu kukugweba ngenxa yendlela esiphila ngayo okanye indlela esinxiba ngayo, abaninzi kusafuneka bacacise ukuba kutheni bengafuni ukuba ngoomama, njl.Kwaye eyona nto imbi kuyo yonke le nto kukuba kumaxesha amaninzi, ngabasetyhini ngokwabo abaphosa amatye kuphahla lwethu.
Kubo bonke abo bafazi bebomelele kuba ubomi babaphethe ngokungafanelekanga ngesizathu esinye okanye esinye, yonke le miyalezo iyahamba. Imiyalezo yabafazi abomeleleyo:
- Qhubeka uye phambili kwanaxa ukuhamba kuya kusiba nzima. Akukho mntu uya kwenza umsebenzi wesikolo, akukho mntu uya kuphila ubomi bethu,… Kufuneka siqhubeke siphindaphinda. Soloko uvuka kube kanye ngaphezulu kwenani lamaxesha esiwa ngawo.
- Uthando ngeengalo ezivulekileyo ... Kuba nokuba uyasithanda isiqingatha, banokukukhathaza xa befuna. Thanda ngenyaniso yakho kunye ne-100%, ubuncinci ukuba ayilunganga, uyakufumana induduzo oyinike yonke into, nokuba omnye umntu khange anike nesiqingatha sezinto abanokunikezela ngazo (kwisazela sabo iya kuhlala).
- Zama ukuthamba kwaye ube nzima ngexesha elifanayo. Asinakuhlala sithambile, kuba baya kwenza kuthi into abayifunayo (abantwana, uluntu, abaphathi, njl. , kukho isidima.
- Thatha ixesha lokuzikhathalela. Nokuba unabantwana, nokuba unoxanduva lokuya kuyo yonke le mini, kuya kufuneka ujonge yonke imihla eyakho yeyakho kuphela.
- Uxolo, kodwa ungaze ulibale. Ukuxolela kububulumko, sonke siyazenza iimpazamo ngaxa lithile kwaye senze izinto ezingalunganga okanye hayi njengoko kufanelekile, kodwa ukuxolela akuthethi ukuba "ukulibala."
- Yeka into esele ihambile: Umntu owayethandana naye, umsebenzi, njl. Nokuba yeyiphi na loo nto, kuya kufuneka uyiyeke kwaye ungafuni ukugcina ubuncinci bond kuyo. Oku kuya "kunciphisa" kuphela ukuqhubela phambili kwakho ebomini kunye nokuqhubeka kwakho kuyo yonke into oyicebisayo ukusukela ngala mzuzu ukuya phambili. Ke, yiyeke uyiyeke ihambe.
- Yiba nombulelo ngento eseleyo: Sonke sihlala kwiimeko ezinzima, kwaye ekuqaleni, ukuba oko kuphelile, uya kuba neenkumbulo ezimbi kunye "nokungcikiva" engqondweni. Kancinci kancinci uyakuqonda ukuba zininzi izinto ezintle ozifumeneyo kwaye ngenxa yoko iinkumbulo ezilungileyo eziza kuhlala kunye nawe ngonaphakade (kwiimeko ezininzi). Kwaye ukuba ukubetha kwakukhulu, into elungileyo esele kukuba ikwenze womelele ngakumbi, uzimele kwaye unamandla.
- Nceda abanye ngomdla. Sonke sihlala amaxesha okuhla, ke ukunceda abanye, ngomnqweno kunye nehlombe kunokukunika idosi yolonwabo onokuthi usilele.
- Lisebenzise kakuhle ixesha lakho. Sesona sipho sikhulu ebomini obungakunika sona: ixesha lokuphila. Sukuyichitha wenze yonke into ophupha ngayo yonke imihla.
- Unqwenela ukukhula. Ukuma akwenzi nto intle, kwaye kuncinci, ukuba bubomi bethu. Kufuneka usoloko ufuna ukukhula, kufuneka ufune ukuqhubela phambili ngakumbi nangakumbi kwinto oyenzayo, nokuba kungumsebenzi okanye yiprojekthi yobuqu. Ukulangazelela oku kukhula kuya kukwenza uvuke yonke imihla ngamandla, ubumnandi kunye namandla okujongana nobunzima obuvelayo. Ungayenza kwaye uyifumane.
Kwaye okona kubalulekileyo kuyo yonke le miyalezo: Kholelwa kuwe! Ngenxa yokuba akukho mntu uya kuyenza ngcono kunawe. Zixabise kwaye ungazivumeli ukuba unyathelwe nangubani na. Shiya uloyiko ngaphandle, kwaye uphile!