Imikhwa esenza singonwabi

Andonwabanga

Kubo bonke ubomi bethu siyaqonda ukuba ukonwaba ngumcimbi wesimo kunye nokuzama ukwenza oko yonke imihla. Kucacile ukuba kukho izinto esingakwaziyo ukuzilawula, kodwa ngaphaya koko thina ngokwethu singakhetha ukonwaba kwaye siqhubeke ngoncumo, Ukonwabela oko kusinike ubomi.

Kukho ezinye imikhwa siwela phantse ngaphandle kokuqonda kwaye oko kunokusenza singonwabi kakhulu. Kuyingxaki ukuqhubeka nabo kwaye ungabinakho ukubachonga, kuba banokusenzakalisa ngokwasengqondweni kwaye babe ngumthwalo omkhulu ekuhambeni kwexesha. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka sifunde ukuziqonda.

Khalaza ungakhange uzame ukutshintsha izinto

Enye yezinto ezimbi kakhulu esinokuzenza khalaza rhoqo kodwa ngaphandle kokuzama ukutshintsha izinto. Kuyasivuyisa kakhulu ukuthetha ngemeko esingayithandiyo nesikhalaza ngayo kodwa siyayamkela kuba asiyicingi eyokujongana nayo kwaye siyitshintshe. Utshintsho loyikeka kakhulu kwaye ayinguye wonke umntu okulungeleyo ukujongana nazo, kodwa ukungatshintshi izinto ezisenza singonwabi okanye ubuncinci ukungazami ukuzama kunokuba kubi ngakumbi. Ukuzigcina kwimeko ethatha ulonwabo kuthi yinto eyenzakalisayo ecima imimoya kunye nentando yethu. Ngesi sizathu, kufuneka sixhobise ngenkalipho kwaye sijongane nokuba naluphi na utshintsho lungcono kunokwenza nantoni na.

Yenza izinto esingazithandiyo

Izinto endizithandayo

Kuyinyani ukuba sonke kufuneka senze imisebenzi esinokuyithanda ngakumbi okanye kancinci. Kodwa kubalulekile akunjalo masichithe usuku sisenza into esingayithandiyo. Kufuneka usebenze ukuze uphile, kodwa singasoloko siphucula kwaye sifumana umsebenzi esiwuthandayo, into esiyithandayo kunye nokutyala ixesha lethu kuyo. Kuqhelekile kubantu abangonwabanga ukuchitha usuku besenza izinto abangazithandiyo, ukuluphelisa usuku bengafuni ukuba olulandelayo luze. Yahlule kuloo nto kwaye ujonge kuyo yonke into oyithandayo.

Phila ngokudlulileyo okanye kwikamva

Ukuncamathela kwixesha elidlulileyo okanye ukuhlala ucinga malunga nekamva elingaqinisekanga elingekonyani kunokuba zizinto ezimbini ezisenza singonwabi. Ngokukodwa ngenxa yokuba zisigcina sikude ngoku, le sihlala kuyo kwaye isinika onke amathuba. Ke yithathele ingqalelo loo nto kwaye uvule amehlo akho ngoku

Ukuphelelwa lithemba ngobomi

Umntu ongenathemba uya kuhlala eyibona iglasi njengesiqingatha esingenanto. Ukuba ukungabi nathemba ngumbandela wesimo sengqondo. Kwimeko esiye sababona abantu abajongana nayo ngendlela elungileyo kwaye abanye ngendlela engalunganga. Nokuba siyintoni na isiphumo, iinzuzo zinokubanakho ukufumana le nto bayifunayo kuba bayakholelwa kuyo kwaye bajongene noloyiso njengesifundo. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka sifunde ukuba nethemba ngakumbi.

Funa ukuvunywa kwabanye

Andonwabanga

Enye into ekufuneka siyiphephe kobu bomi yile soloko ufuna imvume kunye nemvume kwabanye. Sisimo sengqondo esiya kusizisela ukungoneliseki, kuba abayi kuphila ubomi bethu okanye bathathe iziphumo zezigqibo zethu. Namhlanje kuqhelekile ukuba uthungelwano lwasentlalweni luzama ukuhlala luye kwabanye, lubonise into esicinga ukuba bafuna ukuyibona. Kodwa esi simo sengqondo sisisusa kubuntu bethu kwaye sizalise ukungaqiniseki kunye nokuzisola ngokungamkeli ngokwenene ukuba singobani.

Ukuzibona njengamaxhoba eziganeko

Las Abantu abangonwabanga bahlala becinga ukuba yonke into eyenzekayo kubo yinto abangenakukwazi ukuyilawula. Kuhlala kuyimpazamo yabanye okanye iphela. Ngale ngcinga siyakucinga ukuba asinamandla okonwaba kwethu okanye ikamva lethu, eliya kusenza singonwabi ngakumbi. Akufuneki sizive singamaxhoba okanye siza kuba lolu hlobo lomntu.


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