Ukufikisa linqanaba lobomi apho olona tshintsho lukhulu lwenzeka ebomini babafana namantombazana. Umzimba uqala ukutshintsha udlule ukusuka ebuntwaneni uye ekukhuleni ngokomzimba ngokutshintsha ngokwesondo nangokwasemzimbeni okufunyanwa ngumzimba ekuhambeni kwexesha. Umzimba kunye nengqondo yabantwana zenza utshintsho olukhulu olunokwahluka ukusuka komnye umntwana ukuya komnye. Omabini la mantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe aya kudlula kweli nqanaba ukubathatha ukusuka ebusheni ukuya ekuvuthweni. Lo mzuzu uhlala uvela phakathi kweminyaka ye-10 kunye ne-14 notshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha, umnqweno wesini, ukungxamiseka, njl. IiHormone zihlala zingoyena mntu uxanduva lwayo yonke into eyenzekayo ngaphakathi ngaphakathi xa ufikisa.
Mhlawumbi unonyana ekufikeni ngokuzeleyo ngalo mzuzu kwaye unamathandabuzo okuba awunabuganga bokuphawula okanye onayo entlokweni yakho kodwa awukhangeli mpendulo. Sukuba nexhala kuba namhlanje ndifuna ukukuphendula eminye imibuzo ebuzwa rhoqo kootata noomama malunga nokufikisa, mhlawumbi uya kufumana iimpendulo kwiingxaki zakho.
Kutheni le nto abanye abantwana abafikisayo benotshintsho olwenzeka emzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo kunabanye?
Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba amantombazana amabini akwiminyaka efanayo anokuba nomehluko omkhulu kwiinguqu zabo zomzimba kunye neemvakalelo, banokuba sexesheni ngaphambili kunabanye kwaye banokuba nokuvuthwa okwahlukileyo. Nakubantwana Umahluko unokubonwa kuba abantwana ababini abalinganayo banokukhula okwahluke ngokupheleleyo enokubonwa kuphuhliso lomzimba, iinwele kunye nomthamo womzimba.
Oku kwenzeka kuba izinto zemfuza zidlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu, kunye nobuhlanga okanye ubume bommandla. Kuxhomekeke kwimfuza nangokobuhlanga, amakhwenkwe amabini okanye amantombazana akwiminyaka efanayo anokuphuhliswa okwahluke ngokupheleleyo.
Ngaba kuyinyani ukuba ulutsha luyabila ngakumbi kwaye lunuke ngakumbi xa ufikisa?
Kuyinyani ukuba abakwishumi elivisayo babila rhoqo kwaye bomelele ngakumbi ukuze babenevumba elibi. Kungenxa yokuba iihormone zokuvuthwa ziya kutshintsha neempawu zombilo.
Ngaba bonke abantwana abafikisayo banamaqhakuva?
IiHormone zibekek 'ityala ngeempumlo zabantwana bethu xa befikisa. Banoxanduva lwamaqhakuva aqhelekileyo kulutsha nangona kungenzeki kuwo wonke umntu kwaye kuya kuxhomekeka kubuntununtunu babantwana kwiihomoni kunye nohlobo lolusu abanalo.
Ukuthintela ukuba namaqhakuva, kuya kufuneka bahlambe ubuso babo ngokufanelekileyo kwaye baphephe ukusebenzisa iikhrimu ezinamafutha. oko kuyakukhupha kuphela amaqhakuva. Kukwabaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungachukumisi amaqhakuva okanye amaqhakuva kuba anokubangela amabala kunye neziva.
Ungathetha njani nabantwana ngesondo?
Kuyinyani ukuba ukuthetha nabantwana malunga nokwabelana ngesondo kunokuba yinto engathandekiyo kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyenza ngeyona ndlela yendalo. Abantwana bakho kufuneka baqonde ukuba ngumxholo ofana nomnye lo kwaye banako ukukuthemba ukuba ubuze into abayifunayo.
Ngaba banomnqweno wesondo kule minyaka?
Umnqweno wesondo ubonakala okokuqala kule minyaka kwaye njengabazali kuya kufuneka unike ingqalelo kolu tshintsho ukuze umisele ijelo elivulekileyo lencoko. Kuya kufuneka waziswe kwaye ukwazi ukusombulula amathandabuzo akho ngaphambi kokuba uthethe nabantwana bakho. Ukuzola nokhuseleko oludlulisela kunyana wakho ngaphambi komnqweno wesini kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze ufunde ukuba ungaphila njani ngokwesondo ebomini bakho.
Kuya kufuneka uchaze ukuba yintoni na ukwenziwa kukwabelana ngesondo okukhuselekileyo, iziphumo zezifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo (STD) kunye nendlela yokuthintela ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo. Ulwazi oluninzi onalo nabantwana, ziya kuncipha iingxaki kwaye uya kuzola.
Ngaba unawo amanye amathandabuzo malunga nokufikisa ebantwaneni bakho?