Ukuzilungisa yonke imihla kuneenzuzo zayo ezinkulu kwaye zingokwengqondo. Kuba kuyinyaniso ukuba maxa wambi, ukuba siza kuba sekhaya, sinxiba into yokuqala esiyifumanayo ngokuphathelele impahla size sivumele iinwele zethu zixutywe. Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha, kuya kuhlala kuxhomekeke kumzuzu, oku akusenzi kakuhle kakhulu kwaye yile nto siza kuthetha ngayo namhlanje.
Siyavuma ukuba ukujonga okuhle kuya kuhlala kuphucula isimo sethu sengqondo kwaye le sele isele enye yeenzuzo ezinkulu ekufuneka sizenzele zona. Kodwa kusekho okungakumbi kwaye ke ngoko, kuyafuneka ukuba uzibhaqe kwaye uzisebenzise. Ukuba uhamba ngexesha elibi, fumana ukuba kutheni kufuneka uzilungise yonke imihla.
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Uya kujongeka ngcono kwaye ukhulise ukuzithemba kwakho
Ngokuqinisekileyo sele uyayazi loo nto ukuzithemba okulungileyo kusenza sibe nenkuthazo engakumbi kwaye ngale yokugqibela, ungavumeli nantoni na iphazamise. Yonke imihla xa sivuka kufuneka sikhuthazeke, sicinge ngokufikelela ezo njongo sizibekele zona. Kuba ngale ndlela baya kusinika intshukumisa ekufuneka sijongane nayo yonke imihla. Akusoloko kulula kwaye siyayazi, ke ngoko, kufuneka sithathe amanyathelo amancinci njengale sithetha ngayo ngoku. Kumalunga nokuzilungisa yonke imihla: okokuqala kuba uya kujongeka ngcono, ezona mpawu zintle ziya kuqaqambisa kwaye oku kuya kukwenza uzibone ngamehlo ahlukeneyo. Kuba sele uyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuzithanda. Esi sisiseko esikhulu sokuqala ukujongana nayo yonke into ezayo ebomini bethu.
Uya kwenza inkqubo yemihla ngemihla
Nangona ngamanye amaxesha sikhalaza ngeendlela ezithile zobomi bethu, ezinye zibalulekile. Yiyo loo nto ukuzilungisa yonke imihla kunokuba yeyona nto ilungileyo. Kuba emva kweentsuku ezingama-21 ezilandelelanayo, iya kuhlala ebomini bakho. Ngoko ukuba ngenye imini awukwenzi oko, uya kuziva ngathi kukho nto uyiphosayo. Njengoko sele sikhankanyile inzuzo enkulu yokujonga kakuhle, kufuneka usebenzise amandla amancinci okunyamekela ulusu lwakho, iinwele zakho kunye neempahla zakho. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka usoloko uqulunqwe okanye uneenwele ezicokisekileyo, kodwa into elula sele ibala, kwaye ininzi.
ivelisa ngakumbi
Kubonakala ngathi into enye ikhokelela kwenye kwaye emva kokukhankanya ukuba ukuzithemba kwakho kuya kuvuzwa kwaye uvuyo lwakho luya kubuya, ngoku sinokuthi konke oku kuya kukhokelela ekubeni nemveliso ngakumbi. Kuba loo ndlela yokuzilungiselela iya kwenza ukuba ipositivity ibe yeyona nto ilungileyo kunye ne-nKuya kukukhokelela ekubeni ube namandla amaninzi, ukuze sikwazi ukuwasebenzisa ukuze sibe nemveliso. Kokubini emsebenzini wethu nakwiiklasi okanye nomsebenzi wesikolo esihlala siwushiya. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukwazi ukuzigqiba ezo zinto ubuzingxala!
Indlela yokulawula uxinzelelo
Kunzima kakhulu ukulawula uxinzelelo kwaye siyayazi loo nto. Kuba sihlala sinesiqhelo esigcwele izinto esizenzayo kwaye yonke imihla ayifani, ngoko ngamanye amaxesha iba yinto enyukayo kuthi. Uxinzelelo lunokuvela ebomini bethu kwaye lubangele ukuba umoya wethu utshintshe kakhulu. Ngoko xa siqaphela loo mvakalelo yokukhathazeka, akukho nto ifana nokuphefumla, ukuzama ukufumana ukukhanya kwelanga kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukulungele yonke imihla ukuze ukwazi ukuzikhuthaza. Kuyinyani ukuba uxinzelelo ngokwalo aluyi kuhamba lula, kodwa ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha siziva, sizama ukuqhawula unxibelelwano, senze ezinye izinto esizithandayo kwaye sicinge ukuba zilungile, into esiya kuyenza.
Iidosi zenkuthazo zinokuba kwizinto ezilula ebomini kwaye kwenye yazo, ukuzilungiselela yonke imihla kwaye zikhangeleke kakuhle, ziya kusivumela ukuba siqhubele phambili.
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