Ukuzilungiselela yonke imihla kuneenzuzo zakho ezinkulu kwaye zingokwengqondo. Kuba kuyinyaniso ukuba maxa wambi, ukuba siza kuba sekhaya, sinxiba into yokuqala esiyifumana kwimpahla size sivumele iinwele zethu zibe bubumdaka. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngamanye amaxesha, kuya kuhlala kuxhomekeke kumzuzu, oku akusenzi kakuhle kakhulu kwaye yile nto siza kuthetha ngayo namhlanje.
Siyavuma ukuba ukujonga okuhle kuya kuhlala kuphucula isimo sethu sengqondo kwaye le sele isele enye yeenzuzo ezinkulu ekufuneka sizenzele zona. Kodwa kusekho okungakumbi kwaye ke ngoko, kuyafuneka ukuba uzibhaqe kwaye uzisebenzise. Ukuba uhamba ngexesha elibi, fumana ukuba kutheni kufuneka uzilungise yonke imihla.
Uya kujongeka ngcono kwaye ukhulise ukuzithemba kwakho
Ngokuqinisekileyo sele uyayazi loo nto ukuzithemba okuhle kusenza sikhuthazeke ngakumbi kwaye ngale yokugqibela, makungabikho nto phakathi kwethu. Yonke imihla xa sivuka kufuneka sikhuthazeke, sicinge ngokufikelela ezo njongo sizibekele zona. Kuba ngale ndlela baya kusinika ukomelela esikufunayo ukujongana nosuku ngalunye. Akusoloko kulula kwaye siyayazi loo nto, yiyo loo nto kufuneka sithathe amanyathelo amancinane njengale sithetha ngayo ngoku. Kumalunga nokuzilungiselela yonke imihla: okokuqala ngenxa yokuba uya kujongeka ngcono, iimpawu zakho ezintle ziya kugqama kwaye oku kuya kukwenza uzibone ngamehlo ahlukeneyo. Kuba sele uyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuzithanda. Esi sisiseko esikhulu sokuqala ukujongana nayo yonke into ezayo ebomini bethu.
Uya kwenza inkqubo yemihla ngemihla
Nangona ngamanye amaxesha sikhalaza ngeendlela ezithile zobomi bethu, ezinye zibalulekile. Yiyo loo nto ukuzilungiselela yonke imihla kunokuba yeyona nto ilungileyo. Ukusukela emva kweentsuku ezingama-21 ezilandelelanayo zokuyenza, iya kuhlala ebomini bakho.. Ngoko ukuba ngenye imini awukwenzi oko, uya kuziva ngathi kukho into engekhoyo. Njengoko sele sikhankanyile inzuzo enkulu yokujonga kakuhle, kufuneka usebenzise amandla amancinci okunyamekela ulusu lwakho, iinwele zakho kunye neempahla zakho. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka usoloko unxiba i-makeup okanye uneenwele ezicokisekileyo, kodwa into elula sele ibala, kwaye ininzi.
Ivelisa ngakumbi
Kubonakala ngathi into enye ikhokelela kwenye kwaye emva kokukhankanya ukuba ukuzithemba kwakho kuya kuvuzwa kwaye uvuyo lwakho luya kubuya, ngoku kufuneka sitsho ukuba konke oku kuya kukhokelela ekubeni nemveliso ngakumbi. Ngenxa yokuba loo ndlela yokuzilungiselela iya kwenza ipositivity ibe yenye yezona zinto ziluncedo kunye nempembeleloKuya kukukhokelela ekubeni ube namandla amaninzi, ukuze sikwazi ukuwasebenzisa ukuze sibe nemveliso. Kokubini emsebenzini wethu naseziklasini okanye nakwimisebenzi yasekhaya esidla ngokuyishiya. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukwazi ukugqiba ezo zinto ububambelele kuzo!
Indlela yokulawula uxinzelelo
Kunzima kakhulu ukulawula uxinzelelo kwaye siyayazi loo nto. Kuba sisoloko sinezinto esizenzayo yaye suku ngalunye alufani, ngoko ngamanye amaxesha kuba nzima kuthi. Uxinzelelo lunokuvela kubomi bethu kwaye yenze isimo sethu sengqondo sitshintshe kakhulu.. Ngoko xa siqaphela loo mvakalelo yokukhathazeka, akukho nto ifana nokuphefumla ngokunzulu, ukuzama ukufumana ukukhanya kwelanga kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, ukulungele yonke imihla ukuzikhuthaza. Kuyinyani ukuba uxinzelelo ngokwalo aluyi kuhamba lula, kodwa ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha siziva, sizama ukuqhawula unxibelelwano, senze ezinye izinto esizithandayo kwaye sicinge ngokufanelekileyo, yintoni esiya kuyenza.
Iidosi zenkuthazo zinokuba kwezona zinto zilula ebomini kwaye kwenye yazo, ukuzilungiselela yonke imihla kwaye zijonge kakuhle, ziya kusivumela ukuba siqhubeke sisiya phambili.