Iingcebiso zokuphumelela loo mntu

Njengomntu

El Ihlabathi loyiso linzima kwaye umntu ngamnye unamandla nobuthathaka bakhe, kodwa kukho izinto ezithile ekufuneka sizicacisile xa sifuna ukuba nethuba naloo mntu simthandayo kwaye elihlala lisezingcingeni zethu yonke imihla. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, wakhe wazibuza ukuba ungamnqoba njani loo mntu kwaye ukuba wenza into okanye enye into. Akukho mithetho ibhaliweyo kodwa siza kukunika iingcebiso ezinokukunceda.

Ukuphumelela umntu kunzima, ngakumbi xa sithathela ingqalelo amaxesha esiphila kuwo, apho kubonakala ngathi sidibene khona kodwa ekugqibeleni side sahlukane nabantu. Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba masisondele kuloo mntu kwaye woyise ukuba sinemibono ethile ecacileyo.

Kuya kufuneka sifumane olona hlobo lwethu lubalaseleyo

Ayisiyonto yokuhanahanisa nezinto esingezizo, kuba ekugqibeleni siya kuba sibonisa umntu ongekhoyo, kodwa imalunga noko Fumana eyona nguqulelo yethu. Sonke sinamalungu amabi kunye namabi kwaye imalunga nokwandisa kunye nokubonisa ukuba yintoni elungileyo kuthi, ukulunga kwethu, kwaye sizishiye bucala iziphene, eziya kuthi ekugqibeleni zihlale zisaziwa, kodwa zilinde kule meko. Kwimpumelelo sonke sibonisa ezona mpahla zethu zibalaseleyo, kubuntu bethu nasemzimbeni kuba yile nto inokutsala omnye umntu ngokomgaqo.

Khetha ubume bendalo

Umtsalane

Xa kufikwa ekuzibonakaliseni phambi komntu esimthandayo, kufuneka sikhethe ukuqheleka. Kungcono ukuba yindalo kunokuzama ukuba yile nto singeyiyo. Kufuneka uhlale uvulekile kwaye ungoyiki ukuthetha oko ucinga okanye ukwenza izinto esizithandayo. Sonke siyamthanda omnye umntu ukuba abe yendalo kwaye asibonise indlela yakhe yokuba, kuba ngaloo ndlela siyakwazi ukuba sinxibelelana nabo okanye hayi.

Ukuzithemba

La ukhuseleko kunye nokuzithemba kuyabonakala. Akukho nto inomtsalane ngaphezu komntu ozithembileyo kwaye angakhathazeki ukuyibonisa. Ayisiyo eyokuzingca kodwa imalunga nokwenza kubonakale ngathi sihleli sodwa kwaye asimdingi loo mntu ngazo zonke iindleko. Nangona siyithanda, kufuneka sihlale siqinisekile ngeziqu zethu. Esi simo sengqondo sinomtsalane kubo bobabini, kungoko kubalulekile.

Qwalasela

Kuyinyani ukuba namhlanje thina Siphazamiseka kakhulu ziinethiwekhi zentlalo kunye nee-mobiles. Ewe, kubalulekile ukuba ukuba ufuna ukoyisa loo mntu xa ukunye nabo, ubanike ingqwalaselo enokubakho. Kuya kufuneka unomdla kwizihloko athetha ngazo kwaye ubuze nemibuzo kuba ngale ndlela uyokwazi ukuba ubomi bakhe bunomdla kuthi. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, sele sinomdla kwinto asixelela yona ngokwendalo, kodwa kuhlala kulungile ukukhumbula ukuba incoko emnandi ingasinceda sisondele kulo mntu kwaye iya kusenza sibazi ngcono.

Ukudibana kwamehlo

Umntu onjengawe

Kubalulekile ukuba kwangaphambi koko thetha naloo mntu masijonge ngamehlo. Kuyinxalenye ephambili, kuba ngale ndlela sinokwenza into enomdla kuloo mntu. Mhlawumbi ukuba sijongana naye emehlweni siza kubona umdla kuye okanye mhlawumbi kungenjalo kwaye oku kuya kusinika umkhondo wokuba masiyeke ukuzama okanye siqhubeke. Ikwangcebiso entle ukuba sikumhla wokuqala, kuba ukudibana ngamehlo kusinceda ukuba sinxibelelane ngcono naloo mntu.

Unxibelelwano oluthile lomzimba

Yenza ezinye ukunxibelelana ngokomzimba okubonakala ngathi kuyinto eqhelekileyo Inokusinceda ukuze omnye umntu aphele ukuziva enomtsalane kuthi. Ukuchukumisa ingalo kancinci okanye ukubrasha ixesha elidlulileyo kunokuba zezinye izimvo.


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