IKrisimesi njengesibini. Ekuboneni kokuqala, le holide iyafana nomlingo kunye namaxesha angalibalekiyo okwabelana ngawo kwiiveki zokugqibela zonyaka, kodwa idatha yeenkcukacha-manani isinika inyani ethe kratya. Lixesha apho kukho iingxaki kunye neengxoxo. Iiholide ngala mathuba apho sichitha ixesha elininzi kunye namaqabane ethu kwaye apho kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukwahlukana.
Kutheni le nto isenzeka? Ngendlela esele siyifumene ngayo. Iintlanganiso zosapho apho ku sinyanzelwa ukuba silandele iindibano esingazithandiyo. Ukuchitha ixesha nabantu basebukhweni, abazala bakho okanye abatshana bezopolitiko esingavisisaniyo nabo, apho kukho ukungavisisani kunye neemfuno ezithile ezivela kubo bobabini. Kuya kufuneka sijongeke kakuhle kwiintsapho zethu nakwiintsapho zamaqabane ethu. Kufuneka sivumelane nabani esichitha ubusuku obuhle kunye naye unyaka omtsha kwaye sithathe isigqibo sendlela yokuvalelisa kubusuku obudala. Ngamanye amaxesha sinika la maqela omlingo enobunzima obugqithisileyo. Xa eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukwazi indlela yokonwabela umzuzu. Sichaza indlela yokulungiselela iKrisimesi elungileyo njengesibini.
Uyisinda njani iKrisimesi ngaphandle kokuphikisana neqabane lakho
1. Ukwabelana ngokuthanda
Okokuqala, kufuneka sazi ukuba sobabini siyayithanda le mihla okanye hayi. Kuya kufuneka sazi ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu othanda ukulandela ezi zithethe kwaye asihlali ngazo zonke ngendlela efanayo. Ukuba kukho umahluko phakathi kwezi zimbini, kungcono ukufikelela kumhlaba ophakathi. Ekhaya, ukuba asiyithandi ngokwenyani iKrisimesi, siya kukhetha umhombiso olungileyo nolungeleleneyo enivumelana ngokulinganayo. Ngokufanelekileyo, wabelana ngamava, amaxesha anokuhlala ekhunjulwa kamva: ukukhetha umthi okanye indawo yokuzalwa, ukwenza uluhlu lwezipho zabahlobo okanye zosapho ... IKrisimesi yabelana ngokwabelana. Kodwa ewe, yabelana ngaphandle kokumisela.
2. Vuma kwangaphambili iintlanganiso zosapho
Ukuba kwiintsapho zakho kukho isiko lesiqhelo leentlanganiso ngale mihla, kuyafuneka ukuba sizisasaze ngokufanelekileyo ezi ziganeko. Umzekelo, ukuchitha usuku olwandulela iKrisimesi nosapho lwethu, uSuku loNyaka oMtsha nosapho lwakhe, kunye noEva woNyaka oMtsha iya kuba sisodwa kuphela. Ngaphandle koxinzelelo, yonke into yavumelana ngoxolo olukhulu. Kubalulekile ukuba ube nexesha lakho wedwa ukonwabela le mihla ngasese. Awudingi ukutyala imali eninzi, ubusuku obuzolileyo ekhaya bunokuthandana ngokwenene ukuba ubuququzelela ngokufanelekileyo. Njengokuba, umzekelo, unethuba lokuchitha ukuphela konyaka ehotele, wonwabele isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nepati ngaphambi kwechimes. Kufanelekile ukuba kucwangciswe, kwaye emva koko ulondoloze la maxesha ngoxolo.
3. Ungoyisa njani ukungavisisani kwiindibano zosapho
Ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho nikufumanisa uxinzelelo ukubamba ezi ntlanganiso zakudala, setha kwangaphambili ukuba uza kuhamba nini. "Sizakufika ngo-20 ebusuku kwaye sizakuhamba ngo-23 ebusuku". Emva koko cwaka cinga ukuba iingxaki eziqhelekileyo zinokuvela. Sele uwazi amalungu osapho lwakho kwaye uyazi ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ukuba zeziphi izimvo abaza kuzenza, ziziphi izinto abazithandayo kunye nendlela abanokuphendula ngayo. Cwangcisa kwangaphambili, thatha umoya kwaye uphumle. Sukuzenza ngathi awukho kwaye ungaceli iqabane lakho ukuba lenze ngokwahlukileyo kwindlela ayiyo. Zama ukonwabela yonke into naye Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yokuhlekisa, ukukhumbula kwakhona, ukuba yintlanganiso kuphela kwaye ngexesha elifutshane, uya kubuyela ebomini bakho obuqhelekileyo. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ungafuni nantoni na kuwe kwaye uhlale unguye.
4. Xabisa izinto ezibalulekileyo, ngaphandle kokuthanda izinto eziphathekayo
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uchithe imali eninzi kwezo zidlo, okanye kwizihombiso, okanye kwizipho. Khumbula ukuba eyona nto isityebisa kakhulu njengabantu nanjengezibini gcina iinkumbulo ezintle. Kwaye ezo azibizi mali. IKrisimesi akufuneki iphazanyiswe nalawo maphulo entengiso asikhuthaza ukuba sisebenzise abathengi. Ayililo ixesha elifanelekileyo layo kwaye eyona nto intle kukuqokelela iinkumbulo ezintle zezinto ezingenamsebenzi. Kukho abo banoluvo lokuba iKrisimesi ngomnye umhla, njengoSuku lweValentine. Kodwa ngokwenene ngamaxesha azele ziimvakalelo ekufanele ukuba uzigcine esifubeni senkumbulo yethu. Zifana nezithethe zokusivavanya. Kwilingo lokubonisa ukuba singakwazi ukusinda ukungavisisani kosapho, ezo dinners zenkampani, ukungabinamali eninzi yokuya kuskiya ezintabeni ... ayinamsebenzi. IKrisimesi njengesibini kufuneka isenze sikwazi ukubona nibe nexesha elimnandi kunye ukonwabela loo magic yokuphela konyaka. Kwaye ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, siza kufika kunyaka olandelayo sinovuyo olufanayo.
Ukuququmbela. Musa ukuzityhala kule mbono yokuba "yonke into kufuneka isebenze." Sukuzixakekisa ngokuhombisa indlu, ngokuya kuthenga izipho okanye ngokulungiselela izidlo kunye nabahlobo okanye usapho kwezona ndawo zokutyela zibalaseleyo. Akunjalo konke konke, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba nabelana ngamaxesha kunye namava ngokufanayo, ngaphandle kokuzibophelela kwingcinga yokuba "yeyona Khrismesi intle ebomini bethu." Vumela ukuba uqhutywe yinto yokuzikhethela yemihla ngemihla ukuvumelana kunye nokugqiba phakathi kwezi zimbini. Phila wonke umzuzu ngomgangatho kunye nehlombe eliphezulu, uhlala ujonga amaxesha okusondelelana phakathi kwenu nobabini. Ukuba u-2014 ube ngunyaka onzima kuwe, phelisa ezi veki ngemvisiswano kunye nolonwabo onqwenelayo elandelayo izayo.