Iingcebiso xa unqoba umfazi

rhwebesha umfazi

Akulula ukulukuhla okanye ukoyisa umntu oziva unomtsalane onamandla kuye. Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuziva urhoxile ngenxa yokoyika ukuba umtsalane awubuyiselwa kwaye kukho ukwaliwa ukuseka ubudlelwane obunokwenzeka. Kuyinyani ukuba wonke umntu obhinqileyo wahlukile, kodwa kukho uthotho lwezikhokelo ekufuneka uzilandele ezinokukunceda ukuba ubuyisele uthando onalo ngaye.

Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela ungaloyisa njani okanye uhende umntu obhinqileyo.

Izikhokelo ekufuneka zilandelwe xa woyisa owasetyhini

Musa ukuphulukana neenkcukacha zolu luhlu lweengcebiso okanye izikhokelo oko kunokukunceda ukuhenda umfazi:

Yiba nomonde

Into yokuqala kukuba nomonde kwaye ungangxami. Ukukhawuleza akuyena umcebisi olungileyo, ngoko kungcono ukuthatha ixesha elifunekayo ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle. Musa ukoyika nanini na ukuzibonakalisa njengoko unjalo kwaye uchaze oko uziva ngokwenene. Ukukwazi ukubonisa icala leemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ngundoqo xa kufikwa ekuhleni kunye nokwenza umfazi athandane.

Yenza indawo ekhululekile kunye neyonwabileyo

Uninzi lwabasetyhini bathanda ukuhleka kwaye babe nexesha elimnandi. Kubalulekile ke ngoko ukukhupha elona cala lihlekisayo ukuze bonwabe kwaye bazive bekhululekile kubukho bakho. I-Humor yinto ebalulekileyo xa umoya ukhululekile kwaye umfazi uyalibala iingxaki zobomi bemihla ngemihla. Kuya kufuneka ulumke ungagqibi nangaliphi na ixesha ukuze ube mnandi kwaye wenze ngobuchule obukhulu. Uburharha obugqithisileyo bunokwenza umfazi azive engonwabanga kwaye afune ukuphelisa umhla ngokwawo.

Bonisa ukhuseleko kwaye ujonge emehlweni

Nje ukuba ukwazi ukwenza umoya ukhululeke kwaye ukhululekile kubukho bakho, ungalibazisi ukumjonga emehlweni. Ngale ndlela, uya kukubona njengomntu onokhuseleko oluninzi kunye nokuzithemba. Inkangeleko kufuneka iqine kwaye ibe bukhali kodwa ibe mfutshane. Ukujonga umfazi ixesha elide kunokumenza angakhululeki. Ukuba ubona kufanelekile, unganika iinkcukacha ezithile, ukumbonisa ukuba umkhathalele kwaye uvakalelwa kukuba kukho into ebalulekileyo kuye. Eyona nto ilungileyo xa kufikwa ekummangaliseni ngesipho kukuba makube ngokuzenzekela hayi into enyanzelwayo.

indlela-yokoyisa-abafazi

uyindawo yengqwalasela

Xa kufikwa ekuhendeni umfazi, kubalulekile ukuba azive ngamaxesha onke ukuba ungumlinganiswa oyintloko wokuhlangana. Kubalulekile ukuba azive ekhethekileyo kwaye efunwa. Ngenxa yoku kuhle ukuba akuxelele izinto ezingobomi bakhe bobuqu. Ngombulelo koku, baya kuziva ukuba banokuthembela kuwe nantoni na abayifunayo kwaye abayi kuba neengxaki ukuba bafuna uncedo lwakho. Oku kuya kudala ngokuthe ngcembe amaqhina athile achaphazelekayo kwaye iqale ukuva into kuwe.

Unxibelelwano oluhle

Unxibelelwano lungundoqo xa useka ubudlelwane nomfazi. Kufuneka kubekho utshintshiselwano olulungileyo lwentetho kunye nolwimi olungathethwayo. Unxibelelwano oluxeliweyo kufuneka lubenokubuyiselana kunye nolwelo. Kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokuphulaphula intombazana ukuze izive iqondwa ngamaxesha onke. Ungalibazisi ukubuza imibuzo ethile malunga nobomi bakho kodwa ngobuchule obuninzi kunye nobuqili. Ukuba umfazi uyakubona ukuba unomdla ebomini bakhe, uya kuqinisa ubudlelwane kunye nawe ekubeni uya kuziva esondele kuwe.

Ngamafutshane, ukuhenda kunye nokoyisa akukho lula kwaye kufuna umonde kunye nexesha. Akukho mfuneko yokubaleka kwaye ugqithise intombazana okanye umfazi. Ngobuchule obuthile kunye nesandla, kufuneka umenze azive ekhululekile ecaleni kwakho kwaye uyazi ukuba uziva njani. Khumbula ukuba kufuneka uthethe ngokunyanisekileyo ngamaxesha onke kwaye ubonise iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ukuze azi ukuba kukho imvakalelo yothando kunye nothando kuye.


Yiba ngowokuqala ukuphawula

Shiya uluvo lwakho

Idilesi yakho ye email aziyi kupapashwa. ezidingekayo ziphawulwe *

*

*

  1. Uxanduva lwedatha: UMiguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Injongo yedatha: Ulawulo lwe-SPAM, ulawulo lwezimvo.
  3. Umthetho: Imvume yakho
  4. Unxibelelwano lwedatha: Idatha ayizukuhanjiswa kubantu besithathu ngaphandle koxanduva lomthetho.
  5. Ukugcinwa kweenkcukacha
  6. Amalungelo: Ngalo naliphi na ixesha unganciphisa, uphinde uphinde ucime ulwazi lwakho.