Inga uziva njani? Wonwabile? Ukukhazeka? Ngaba unomsindo? Ukhathazekile? Ukukhumbula iimvakalelo zeeyure ezingama-24 ezidlulileyo kunokuba lula, kodwa uyazi ukuba uziva njani ngoLwesihlanu ophelileyo? Usenokukufumanisa kunzima ukuphendula lo mbuzo wokugqibela. Kwaye ukuba ndiyakubuza,Uziva njani kwiiveki ezi-5 ezidlulileyo? Kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi ukuphendula. Ukuqonda iipateni zeemvakalelo kubaluleke kakhulu.
Iimvakalelo ozivayo zichaphazela wena yonke imizuzu kunye nomzuzwana wobomi bakho. Ukuba uziva uxhalabile ngomsebenzi okanye uxinezelekile, kulula kuwe ukuba wenze iimpazamo kwaye uyeke ukuza nezimvo ezintle. Xa uziva ukhathazekile ngenxa yezinye izizathu, unokuziva uthotyiwe kwaye ungakhathali. Ukuba unomsindo ungazi mntu, uphatha abanye abantu ngeendlela ezimbi (kwaye abanakubekwa tyala ngokungonwabi kwakho). Ukuba awuzazi iipateni zeemvakalelo zakho, ngekhe ukwazi ukusombulula iingxaki zakho. kwaye uphucule iimeko ezikukhathazayo.
Iimvakalelo kufuneka zibaluleke njengemali
Wakhe wayicinga ngoluhlobo? Abantu bayiphatha imali ngokubaluleka okukhulu, ngamanye amaxesha kakhulu kwaye babeke iimvakalelo zabo ecaleni. Iimvakalelo zibalulekile kuba zisixelela ukuba sinjani kwaye ukuba kukho into ekufuneka siyitshintshe ebomini bethu ukuze sibe ngcono. Xa unemali encinci kunokuba ungathanda, unokuhlengahlengisa inkcitho ukuze uphile. Uya kuyiguqula indlela ochitha ngayo ngokufanelekileyo ukuze wonge kwaye ubekho ngakumbi kuqoqosho. Ngamanye amazwi, Ukuba awugcini umkhondo wemali yakho, awuyi kuba noqoqosho oluhle.
Le ndlela yindlela iimvakalelo ekufuneka ziphathwe ngayo, ngokufanayo. Ngokunika ukubaluleka okulinganayo kwindlela esivakalelwa ngayo, siqonda ukuba kutheni sivakalelwa ngendlela ethile kwaye yintoni ebangele oko, sinokuthi senze ngcono ekuchongeni nasekulawuleni iimvakalelo ngendlela elungileyo kwaye sibe ngcono nathi kunye nehlabathi elisingqongileyo.
Izinto ezi-3 ofanele ukuzibhala yonke imihla
Ngalo lonke usuku kunye neentsuku ezilandelayo, bhala oku kulandelayo:
-Imvakalelo yakho ngokubanzi yosuku
-Iziganeko oye waphila kulo mhla
Unxibelelwano phakathi kweemvakalelo zakho nento eyenzekileyo
Xa usenza oku, uyakuqaphela ukuba iimvakalelo zakho ziyatshintsha-tshintsha ngeentsuku ezahlukeneyo, oko kukuthi, ngezinye iintsuku ungonwaba kunezinye. Oku kuqhelekile ngokupheleleyo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, singabantu kwaye kunokuba nzima ukulawula okwenzekayo kuthi kunye nendlela esiphendula ngayo kwisikhuthazo esijikelezileyo, ke kubalulekile ukuba uqale uqonde iimvakalelo zakho ngakumbi.
Akufuneki uzityhale ukuze uhlale wonwabile kuba ayiyonyani leyo. Nje ukuba uqale ukulandelela imeko yakho kunye neziganeko ohamba kuzo, ungaqala ukubona unxibelelwano phakathi kweemoods zakho kunye neziganeko. Ukuphonononga iimvakalelo zakho kuthetha ukuba nakho ukubona ukuba yintoni ekonwabisayo, elusizi, enexhala okanye enomsindo.