Yiba umntu oqinisekileyo kwaye onwabileyo akusoloko kungumbandela wokuba nohlobo oluthile lobuntu. Kuyinyani ukuba ngumntu ovulekileyo notyekelo lokuba neemvakalelo ezintle kunokunceda, kodwa sinokwenza nenxaxheba yethu xa kusiza ekuboneni izinto ngombala omhle ngakumbi. Kobu bomi sinokutshintsha imikhwa yethu kunye neendlela zethu ukuba sikulungele ukuphucula.
Kuhle ukwazi ukuba sinako funda ukuba ngumntu oqinisekileyo kwaye onwabile ukuba siqaphela ukuba asikho. Ukuba ngumntu ongathandekiyo kuhlala kwenza ukuba abo basondeleyo kuthi baphele beshenxa kuloo mandla mabi, into engasizuzisi. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka sizigcwalise ngokwethu ngamandla kwaye sifune ukuba nabantu abonwabileyo.
Zama ukubona icala eliqaqambileyo
Zonke izinto zinecala lazo elilungileyo nelibi. Ngokwesiqhelo, xa sisilele kwinto ethile okanye sinamashwa, siye sicinge ngezinto ezimbi kuphela. Kodwa kuya kufuneka sicinge ngenxalenye elungileyo, kuba ihlala ikho. Isenokuba yinyani yokuba naloo mava, yokufikelela apho sifike khona okanye yokufunda isifundo, kuhlala kunokwenzeka ukubona into elungileyo kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo. Kunzima, ngakumbi xa sikwimizuzu ephantsi, kodwa sinokuzama ukwenza uluhlu lwezinto ezintle amava anazo ukubona ukuba sifumana into elungileyo.
Zijikeleze nabantu abonwabileyo
Uvuyo kunye neentshukumo ezilungileyo ziyosulela, ke ungathandabuzi ukuzama ukuzingqinga nabantu abakunika kanye le nto. Ukuba ngumntu oqinisekileyo kwaye onwabileyo akwenzeki ngokukhawuleza., kodwa ngotshintsho oluncinci siya kuqaphela umahluko omkhulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo uqaphele ukuba xa uhlala nabantu abonwabileyo oko kuyosulela, kuba zama ukuba lolo hlobo lomntu kwaye ufunde kubo ukuba bangobani. Ukuba ungqongwe kunye nabo, uyakuqaphela ukuba kulula ukuba nethemba kwaye iintsuku zimnandi kwaye ziyonwabisa.
Hlala kude nethemba
Ukucinga ukuba izinto ziya kuhlala zingahambi kakuhle kuthi inokuba yindlela elula yokuzikhusela, kuba sihlala soyika ukuphoxeka. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye kuyindlela yokonakalisa ulonwabo lwethu. Kukho ulonwabo olukhulu ekufezekiseni le nto siyifunayo njengoko kukho kuhambo esiluthathayo ukufezekisa, ke kuya kufuneka uzivumele ukonwabele zombini. Susa iingcinga zokungazithembi kwaye uza kubona ukuba uya kuba namandla ngakumbi ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho. Kukho konke ukufezekiswa kweenjongo, ukucinga yinxalenye ebalulekileyo esigcina sigxile kwiinjongo zethu kwaye esigcina sikhuthazeka, into ebaluleke kakhulu.
Yamkele indlela oziva ngayo
Xa sinexesha elibi liqhelekile kwaye silungelelanisa ukuwela kusizi, kuba yimvakalelo esincedayo ukuba soyise iintlungu zelahleko. Kodwa kufuneka sazi ukuba singaqonda njani xa oku kulungelelaniswa Kwaye xa isijikela Usizi lungajika lube ludandatheko ukuba asizami ukuphuma kuyo kwaye sifunde. Yonke into ebuhlungu ikwahamba ngomsindo nokwamkelwa, kodwa abantu abaninzi bajolise kulusizi kwaye bawele kuxinzelelo olunokubangela ukugula. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba sizamkele iimvakalelo zethu kodwa ungabambeki kuzo.
Ulonwabo lufezekisiwe
Ukonwaba sisimo sengqondo, ayisiyiyo into eza kuphela ukuba sinethamsanqa. Kubalulekile ukuzama ukuba nethemba kwaye wonwabe ukuxabisa oko sinako. Kuphela ke sinokuba ngumntu oqinisekileyo kwaye onwabile yonke imihla. Ngumsebenzi wemihla ngemihla esingafanele ukuwutyeshela kodwa uya kusizisela izibonelelo ezinkulu.