Owona maphupha amabi aqhelekileyo kunye nentsingiselo yawo: Ngaba ikho enye kuzo evakala iqhelekile kuwe?

Itonela elahliweyo

Kwenzekile kuthi sonke. Sivuka ngesiquphe phakathi ephupheni sifikelwa luloyiko olubangelwa ngamava esivakalelwa ngendlela yokwenene. Ziyaziwa amaphupha amabi. Sizama ukulala kodwa uxinzelelo lusinxilisa okwethutyana kodwa ixesha elinzima. Iimvakalelo ezinje ngoloyiko, uloyiko, uloyiko kunye noxinzelelo banamava ngumntu ophila kabuhlungu.

Ukuphupha ngento ephazamisayo nephazamisayo, ngokwethiyori kaFreud, inokuba ngumqondiso wokuba ukungabikho zingqondo kwethu ukuzama ukuveza ukungqubana okuthile kwangaphakathi kusasifihliwe. Nangona kunjalo, izazinzulu zenzululwazi zibonisa ukuba amaphupha anomsebenzi obalulekileyo wezinto eziphilayo kunye nokusebenza kwengqondo. Bayasivumela hlela kwakhona ulwazi olufunyenwe emini kwaye ucacise izisombululo kwiingxaki ezisichaphazelayo.

Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni amaphupha amabi rhoqo kunye nokutolikwa kwawo exhaphake ngakumbi? Siza kukuxelela!

Ukutshutshiswa

Intombazana izama ukubaleka

Elinye lawona maphupha aqhelekileyo. Umntu ohluphekayo zama ukubaleka into okanye umntu. Nangona kunjalo, okukhona ezama ukubaleka, kokukhona kuya kusiba nzima.

Unobangela ophambili weli phupha libi kukuba uloyiko lokujongana nemeko entsha. Ngokukodwa xa beziimeko ezinokwenza utshintsho olubalulekileyo ebomini bethu. Ukwahlukana komtshato okanye utshintsho lomsebenzi yimizekelo yolu hlobo lweemeko.

Ukuba ze kwiindlela zikawonke-wonke

Isigaba sinokuba nayiphi na indawo. Esitratweni, kwindawo osebenza kuyo okanye embindini wesiganeko esibalulekileyo. Ezi ntlobo zamaphupha zihlala zinxulumene ne- imfuno yokwamkelwa kunye nokwamkelwa. Zinxulumene ne Ungakhathazeki malunga nokungena kwindawo entsha engekenziwa kakuhle. Kuqhelekile phakathi kwabantu abangazithembi iimeko zabo zokujamelana neemeko ezintsha.

Ulahleke

Zihlala zibonisa Ukuphulukana nolawulo kwimicimbi efanelekileyo yobomi bomntu nokungazithembi xa usenza izigqibo. Ziqhelekile kubantu abanexhala xa bejongana noloyiko olungaziwayo.

Amaphupha amabi apho uwela khona

Kuzo, sivuka kunye imvakalelo engathandekiyo yokuwela kwisithuba. Kuqhelekile ukuba uvuke kanye ngeli xesha kufuneka sibethe ngalo emhlabeni. La maphupha ahlala enxulumene unxunguphalo neemeko zoxinzelelo phambi kokwenza izigqibo ezibalulekileyo.

Ukuziva ukufuthaniseleka

Isandla siphuma kwitonela

Singayifumana kwiifomathi ezahlukeneyo. Uhlobo lweklasikhi yile ukutshona emanzini. Kuqhelekile ukuphupha sikwi indawo emxinwa asinakuphuma kuyo. Kuzo zombini iimeko, imvakalelo yokufuthaniselwa inamandla.

Olona toliko luqhelekileyo luthatha ukuba umntu uhamba nge umzuzu woxinzelelo olukhulu ngenxa yokusondela komsitho obalulekileyo. Ikwahambelana namaxesha amanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo.

Zama ukukhala kwaye ungabinalo lizwi

Umntu ophuphayo uzama ukukhala ngoncedo kuba ukwimeko eyingozi. Nangona kunjalo, akukho sandi sinokuphuma emlonyeni wayo.

Eli phupha lidibene nezigaba ezibalulekileyo okanye amaxesha apho ndiziva ndingenakuzinceda ngenxa yobunzima bokufezekisa into. Umntu ufumana uxinzelelo kwiimvakalelo zokungabikho kolawulo kwimeko.

Ukuhlaselwa ngumntu

Eli phupha lihambelana noloyiko kunye noxinzelelo malunga nokuphendula kwabanye abantu. Inxulumene ne ukoyika ukugxekwa, ukuya ukwaliwa kunye ukubekwa wedwa ekuhlaleni ngomnye okanye abanye.

Yiva intlungu

Intombazana ikhwaza yoyika

Kwezi ntlobo zamaphupha amabi Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe ngumntu owenzakeleyo. Unokubona nje intlungu yomnye umntu enokuba yeyasemzimbeni okanye ngokweemvakalelo. Inxulumene ne- imvakalelo yokungabi nakuzinceda. Ziqhelekile ngokwamanqanaba xa siziva sisesichengeni.

Amazinyo ayawa

Isenokuba ngenxa yoluvo lwe Ukuphulukana nolawulo kubomi bethu. Inokunxulunyaniswa neemvakalelo ze ukungavumelani ngenkangeleko yethu.

Izinto ezinokuqwalaselwa

Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ukutolikwa kunokwahluka ngokuxhomekeka kwiinkcukacha ezivela ephupheni. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ngentsingiselo yamaphupha kukuba thina Ndinceda ukufumanisa amaxesha oxinzelelo kunye nokuzithemba. Ke ngoko zinokuba zizixhobo eziluncedo zokuququzelela ulwazi lwezinto ezisixhalabisayo ngakumbi.


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