Zihlobo, ubuncwane beemvakalelo zolo "sapho" silukhethayo

abahlobo

Abahlobo bethu bobona buncwane sibukhethayo. Lusapho lwethu kunye nenkxaso engenakuthelekiswa nanto kwimihla ngemihla apho enyanisweni, akunamsebenzi ukuba zininzi. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba obu buhlobo buyinyani, buhloniphekile kwaye bunentsingiselo.

Into eyenzeka rhoqo kwaye ekufuneka isimeme ukuba sibonise, kukuba abantu abaninzi bathambekele ekubekeni abahlobo babo ecaleni xa beqala ubudlelwane. Ixesha lethu phantse lihlala lijolise kumntu esimthandayo. Nangona kunjalo, Kwixesha elide, olu hlobo lokuziphatha apho sihambisa lonke ixesha lethu kumaqabane ethu, yinto engekho mpilweni kwaye iphakamisa kwinqanaba lomntu. Ubuhlobo yinto ebalulekileyo ekukhuleni kwethu Kwaye, kholwa okanye ungakholelwa, bayasivumela ukuba sibe nolwalamano oluhambelanayo, nolwalamano olupheleleyo. Sichaza ukuba kutheni.

Abahlobo bethu, umthombo wempilo

Abahlobo bethu ayingobobudlelwane obumnandi nje esinokwabelana nabo ngekofu, esinokuphuma nabo siyokonwaba okanye sabelane nabo ngamava ethu. Ubuhlobo yindlela ekhethekileyo yokunyamekela impilo yethu, ukugcina indawo yokugcina izinto kunye nokulawula uxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo.

Ukuxinana kwabanye abalulekileyo

Umhlobo wenene ngumntu osamkelayo njengoko sinjalo, ongasigwebiyo, osinika inkxaso kwaye ophindayo njengoyena ndoqo.

  • Kubo bonke ubomi bakho udibene nabantu abaninzi, kodwa phantse ungazi ukuba kutheni, uqhagamshelene nabambalwa kuphela. Uyazichaza kubo, ananeli kuba nezinto zokuzonwabisa enifana ngazo kuphela kodwa nikwabelana ngeendlela ezifanayo. Kwaye le yinto ebalulekileyo.
  • Abahlobo bethu bayinxalenye yosapho lwethu, kuba ngamanye amaxesha, akukho mfuneko yokuba nelinki yemfuza efanayo ukuze ikhonkco libe ngathi okanye libaluleke ngakumbi.
  • Ukunyaniseka sisitshixo kulwalamano oluqinisekileyo nolunentsingiselo, kwaye yile nto uyifumana kubahlobo bakho, ezo zingalinganiyo kwiminwe yesandla esinye, kodwa ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, zezona zilungileyo.

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Basinceda ukulawula uxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo

Ingxaki ayinangxaki xa sabelana ngayo nabahlobo bethu. Ngumzuzu apho sibeka bucala uloyiko, umda kunye nesimo sengqondo sokungakhathali ukuqala ukubuyisa izinto ezininzi ngenxa yenkxaso yakho.

  • Umhlobo olungileyo uyakwazi ukumamela ngaphandle kokugweba Kwaye nangaphezulu, nokuba siyabaxelela ukuba "yonke into ilungile", baya kuba nakho ukufunda ebusweni bethu ukuba ayiyonyani. Bayasazi, kwaye uvelwano lwabo ludlulele ekubeni nomtshini wokwenene weemvakalelo ukwazi xa sibi, xa sifuna inkxaso.
  • Ixabiso elibalulekileyo uninzi lwabahlobo bethu abanalo kukunyaniseka kwabo. Ngelixa abanye abantu banokuzithoba ngezimvo zabo "uza kubona ukuba yonke into ikusebenzela njani", "ukhethekile", "uqinisekile ukuba unethamsanqa", abahlobo bokwenyani baya kuhlala benenjongo kwaye bacace kuthi kuba yile siyayidinga.

«Ndiyazi ukuba oku kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe, kodwa khumbula ukuba sele utyale onke amandla akho kwaye ngoku umbi kakhulu. Mhlawumbi lixesha lokuzama into entsha. Nantoni na oyenzayo ndiyakuxhasa, kodwa into onayo engqondweni ngoku iyakukhathaza ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na enye into.

Ezi ntlobo zezimvo yile nto siyifunayo. Ukunyaniseka okuviweyo ngomlomo womnye umntu kuko okusinika ukuzola kwangaphakathi ukucacisa izinto ngakumbi kunye nokugxila. Uxinzelelo luyancitshiswa kwaye sisebenza ngokuzola ngakumbi.

Umlingane wethu kunye nabahlobo bethu, amaqhina amabini abalulekileyo

Iqabane lethu alinyanzelekanga ukuba lihlalisane.Nabahlobo bethu, awunyanzelekanga ukuba uye kudla nabo isidlo sangokuhlwa, kwaye akufuneki ukonwaba nabo ukuba awufuni. Kukwanjalo ke nakwizihlobo zeqabane lethu. Sobabini sinelungelo lokuba nezibophelelo zentlalo kunye nezobuqu ezithi, kwiimeko ezininzi, sizigcine ukusukela ebuntwaneni.

abahlobo

Abahlobo bayinxalenye yosapho lwethu, kwaye ke, kubalulekile ukuba sikwazi ukuvumelanisa ezi ndawo zimbini zobuqu, enye eyakhiwe nesibini kwaye enye kwindawo yethu yobuqu kunye nabahlobo bomphefumlo nentliziyo.

  • Asinakulibala ukuba umntu owonwabileyo, onobudlelwane boluntu, amaxesha akhe okuphumla, uloyiso lomsebenzi wakhe, ngumntu ozalisekisiweyo buqu nangokweemvakalelo. ukuba uyakwazi ukunika okona kulungileyo kwiqabane lakhe. Ukuba kukho enye yezi zinto iphulwayo, ukuzithemba kwethu kwaphuliwe kwaye konke oku kubuyela kumgangatho wobudlelwane.
  • Ukuba sinomlingane osenqabela ukuba sihlangane nabahlobo bethu, Ukuba abasithembi okanye bayasigxeka kuba sisenza oku nokuya nabo, kancinci kancinci ingxaki, ukungoneliseki kunye nokungonwabi kwabo kuyavela. Siyeka ukuba neqabane lethu leemvakalelo ecaleni kwethu, kuba esi sangqa sobuqu sinakho kwaye kufanele ukuba sincedisane neso sibini. Ukuyilungisa kunokuba yingozi ngokweemvakalelo.
  • Asinakuba ziiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku nesi sibini, okanye Akukho namnye omele asalele ezo ndawo zisondelelene njengobuhlobo., ubunzima kunye nokuphumla nabahlobo bethu. Ziyinxalenye yethu kunye nobuni bethu.

Ke, zombini izithuba kufuneka zihambelane, zihloniphane, kwaye sityisa ubomi bethu kunye neentliziyo zethu ngothando lweqabane lethu kunye nothando olungapheliyo lwabahlobo. Ungathandabuzi ukukhathalela abahlobo bakho kwaye ube naloo ndawo ibaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwakho kunye neemvakalelo.


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