Ebomini, kumaxesha athile, sidlula amaxesha okudodobala nosizi ezisityayo imihla ngemihla zisenza ukuba kube nzima ixesha ngalinye ukuphuma kumthombo esibhaptizwe kuwo; Uninzi lwexesha, ezi meko zinokubangela ukuba kulungelelanise ezo amaxesha obukrakra kunye nokudimazeka, kodwa kuyinyani ukuba kumaxesha amaninzi, thina ngokwethu ngabo babangela oku kungaziphathi kakuhle.
Nokuba yeyiphi na imeko yakho, sikulethela eli nqaku namhlanje, elizenza ngathi ekuqaleni kosuku nasekupheleni kwalo, kukho vuma ubuso bakho kwaye akukho namnye usizi.
Konke kuxhomekeke kwisimo sakho sengqondo
Kuyinyani ukuba into eyenzeka kuthi ebomini (ngokubanzi) ayikho emandleni ethu kwaye asiyibanga okanye siyifune (ukugula, ukusweleka kwabathandekayo, ukuphulukana nomsebenzi, njl.) Kodwa oko kusezandleni zethu , kwaye ayiyiyo eyomnye umntu, yindlela yokujongana nesiganeko esibi esiye sahlangabezana naso esibangela ukuba sidimazeke. Koko kukuthi, Kusemandleni ethu ukutshintsha isimo sethu sengqondo ukuze sijongane nemihla ngemihla nomoya ongcono.
Namhlanje sifuna ukukunika uluhlu lwezinto oza kuzenza ukuze ube nosuku oluhle kwaye ungacingi kakhulu malunga nezinto ezibangela ukudana kwakho okanye ukungonwabi emoyeni. Ukuba siqala ngento elula njengolu luhlu, kwaye siyazinyanzela ukuba siyithobele, ngokuthe ngcembe lo mkhwa uza kubakho kwaye ixesha ngalinye siza konwaba kancinci, okanye ubuncinci, siya kuzama yonke into ukuba sizive ngcono kwaye kungcono kwaye ungemi ungajonganga nto:
- NgoMvulo cwangcisa impelaveki yakho elandelayo: Iveki izakuhamba ngokukhawuleza ukuba ngoMvulo sele silungiselele into kwimpelaveki ezayo. Njani ngohambo? Ukunyuka iintaba mhlawumbi? Ungathini ngesidlo sangokuhlwa sothando kunye neqabane lakho?
- Beka umculo wakho owuthandayo kunye nomdaniso: Le yenye yezinto endiziphepha kakhulu xa ndibuhlungu. Ukubeka ii-headphone zakho kunye nokudanisa ngokungathi akukho ngomso kuyaphumla kwaye kukwenza uzive wonwabile. Yenze imihla ngemihla. Akukho nto intle ngaphandle komculo ukuthomalalisa amaxhala.
- Musa ukukrakra kwaye ube nesimo sengqondo esihle. Xa sibi ngento ethile kulula kakhulu ukuba sizivumele ukuba sitsalwe phantsi lusizi olo; Eyona nto inzima kukuncuma xa umntu edakumbile okanye ukufuna isibindi kunye namandla okunyamezela. Kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba unesimo sengqondo okanye esinye. Zivumele ukuba ube lusizi, ewe, kuyafuneka emzimbeni, kodwa olo sizi aludluli ngokuhamba kwexesha kunokuba kufanelekile.
- Thatha uhambo lomthambo okanye wenze umthambo. Bathi umdlalo uyakwenza usebenze kwaye ukwenze ube kwenye into xa iingxaki zithi qatha engqondweni yakho. Ukuba ufuna ukuchitha usuku ungakhange ucinge ngeengxaki zakho, ezemidlalo ziya kukunceda kakhulu. Ngokuhamba iyure ngosuku, ukuthatha uhambo kuya kukhupha ukungakhathali okuninzi kunye nenzondo kuwe.
- Zithambise kwaye uzitotobise. Ungathini ngomhla wokucheba iinwele? Njani ngokupenda iinzipho zakho ngombala obomvu onesibindi? Zinyamekele, zinike iyure ngosuku, ngokuzikhathalela kwakho nokuzonwabisa. Khumbula ukuba iiyure zakho ezingama-24 ngosuku ozabelweyo kobu bomi zezakho wedwa.
- Ziphathe kakuhle, yithi enkosi, kwaye uncume. Xa sibuhlungu kwaye sizisola ngento ethile, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuyibhatala nabantu abasondeleyo kuwe, nokuba bayayiqonda; Kodwa ukuba yeyona nto iqhelekileyo okanye inokwenzeka amaxesha ngamaxesha, oko akuthethi ukuba abanye babekek 'ityala ngento eyenzekayo kuwe. Yiba mnandi kubantu abasondeleyo kuwe, ngabo bakuthanda ngokwenene kwaye bakukhathalele ngokwenene.
- Musa ukuvumela nantoni na okanye nabani na ukuba asuse uncumo lwakho. Susa abantu abangalunganga ebomini bakho, abo baseleyo, ... kwaye ubathumele kude. Zijikeleze nabantu abaqinisekileyo, nabantu abafuna ukuhlala kwaye balwe yonke imihla ngento oyifunayo.
- Sukuncama! Lusuku olubi, mhlawumbi ungalunganga ... Ubomi buza kukuncumela kwakhona kungekudala okanye kamva, kodwa uqala ngokumncumela.