Zeziphi izinto ezifunekayo kubudlelwane obuphilileyo?

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Ukonwabela ubudlelwane obunempilo yinto uninzi lwezibini ezinqwenela namhlanje. Nangona kunjalo, ukuphumeza olu hlobo lobudlelwane Kuthatha inxaxheba enkulu yamaqela kunye nomzamo omkhulu. Ubudlelwane obunobuthi busekukhanyeni kwemini kwaye izibini ezininzi ziphela ngokuqhawuka.

Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha ngako uthotho lwezinto ezingenakusilela xa kufikwa ekonwabeleni ubudlelwane obunempilo.

Zeziphi izinto ezibalulekileyo neziyimfuneko ukuze ubudlelwane buthathwe busempilweni

Kukho inani lemiba okanye izinto ekufuneka kuhlangatyezwane nazo ukuze isibini sithathwe sisempilweni:

yonwaba nawe

Ukwenza ubudlelwane obuthile bube nempilo, kufuneka uqale ngokonwaba ngokwakho. Ukuziva wanelisekile ngokupheleleyo kunempembelelo ngqo kubudlelwane. Ulonwabo lumele luqale kuwe luze luqale kwisibini. Awukwazi ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo kwiqabane lakho, kuba oku akukwenzi wonwabe kwaye kubangele ubuthi obuthile kubudlelwane.

Yiba nemida uze uyihloniphe

Isinyathelo sesibini ekufezekiseni ubudlelwane obuphilileyo kukumisela uluhlu lwemida kunye Yenza iqabane lakho likuhloniphe. Iqabane alinakuvunyelwa ukuba lichaphazele ngokuthe ngqo imida enjalo, njengoko oku kunokuvelisa iimvakalelo ezimbi kunye nokulimaza ubudlelwane. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba isibini sikwazi ukuhlonipha le mida, ngaphandle koko ubudlelwane buba yingozi kunye netyhefu. Intlonipho yale mida kufuneka ilingane ngamaxesha onke. Akufanelekanga ukuhlonipha imida emiselwe sisibini xa singayihloniphi eyelinye iqela.

Funda ukuhlonipha izimvo ezahlukeneyo

Iingxabano nokungavisisani kuqhelekile kulo naluphi na ulwalamano. Ukuze ibe sempilweni, ezi mbono zimele zihlonelwe nangona zichasene noko kucingwa. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuba neeyantlukwano ezithile kunye neqabane lakho, le yinto eqhelekileyo enokuba nefuthe elihle kubudlelwane ngokwalo. Ukuhloniphana kukhetha umanyano oludalwe ukuba lube sempilweni kwaye amaqela onwabe.

Ukuzibophelela kwesi sibini

Ukuzibophelela yinto ephinda-phindiweyo kwinzuzo yobudlelwane. Oku kuthetha ukuxhasa isibini xa sikufuna. Oku kuzibophelela kufuneka kube macala omabini ukuze kubekho intlalontle ethile kulwalamano ngokwalo. Ukuba wedwa ngamaxesha anzima akufani nokuziva ukuba iqabane lakho liyakuxhasa ngokungenamiqathango. Ukuba akukho hlobo lokuzibophelela, akunakubangwa ukuba ubudlelwane bunempilo.

ubudlelwane-uthando-isibini

kufuneka unyaniseke

Ukunyaniseka ngundoqo kulwalamano oluphilileyo nolonwabo. Ngamanye amaxesha inyaniso inokuba nzima kakhulu, kodwa okubi kakhulu kukukhetha indlela yobuxoki. Ngobuxoki obuqhubekayo, ukuthembela kunye nokunyaniseka kuyanyamalala ngokupheleleyo, konakalise ngokunzulu unxibelelwano oludalwe phakathi kwaba bantu babini. Ukunyaniseka kunye nokuthetha ngokuphandle nesi sibini kunceda ukuqinisa umanyano oludaliweyo.

ziphe ixesha lakho

Kubudlelwane obunempilo, omabini amaqela kufuneka abe nexesha elaneleyo lokuba yedwa. Ixesha njengesibini libalulekile, nangona kunjalo ixesha umntu ngamnye azinikela kuye. Ubuntu kunye nokusondelana ngundoqo kubudlelwane obuphilileyo. Ukukwazi ukunandipha imisebenzi ethile ngokobuqu kunceda ekuphuculeni iqhina kwaye kwenza isibini sikhule size somelele.

Ngamafutshane, ukwakha ubudlelwane obunempilo obungenazityhefu akukho lula okanye kulula. Ukuzibophelela kwamaqela kunye nomzamo ngundoqo wokufezekisa oko. Ngelishwa, kukho izibini ezininzi namhlanje ezingakwazi ukonwaba kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane obusekelwe kuthando kunye nokuthandana.


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