Kukho inkolelo ephosakeleyo edumileyo yokuba ukubamba umntwana ezingalweni zakho, Yindlela embi yokumqhela okanye ukumkhulisa kakubi. Noko ke, kufanele kuphawulwe ukuba iingalo zabazali ziyimfuneko kubomi bemihla ngemihla bomntwana, kanye njengokuba kunjalo ekondleni okanye ekuleleni. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokubamba usana lwakho xa elufuna.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo sithetha nawe malunga nokubanjwa, iingenelo zokwanga okunjalo kunye ukubaluleka kwayo ekukhuleni komntwana ngokugqibeleleyo.
Ukuba ngumzali ezandleni
Enye yezinto zokuqala ezithengwa ngabazali ngaphambi kokuba umntwana azalwe kukuhamba ngeenyawo. Uluntu luye lwabangela ukuba abazali bangakhulelwa ubomi ngaphandle kokuba nestroller. onokuthi uhambe ngayo nosana lwakho. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba kwixesha elidlulileyo akukho mntu wasebenzisa i-stroller xa ehamba umntwana. Kule meko, abazali babesebenzisa iingalo zabo xa behambisa abantwana babo.
Nangona abantu abaninzi bengayazi, Zininzi iingenelo zokubanjelwa izixhobo. Olu hlobo lokukhulisa abantwana lunceda ukuqinisa iqhina phakathi kwabazali nosana, ukongezelela ekuphuculeni ukukhula kwengqondo yomntwana. Ukongeza koku, iingalo zabazali zinceda umntwana ukuba aphumle kwaye azole. Ngenxa yazo zonke ezi zizathu, akuyongozi ukuqhelisela ukuba ngumzali ezandleni.
I-hug elungileyo evela kubazali kufuneka ihlale ikhona kwimfundo yabantwana babo. Akukhathaliseki nokuba umntwana mncinane okanye sele ekhulile, njengokuba kunjalo ngokwishumi elivisayo. Akukho nto ingcono kunokwanga kakuhle ukudlulisela lonke uthando nothando kubantwana bakho. Ngelishwa kwintlalo yanamhlanje, ukuwolana akwenziwa, ingakumbi xa umntwana emdala.
Indlela yokusebenzisa ukukhulisa abantwana
Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bazi ukuba izixhobo ziyimfuneko esisiseko ebantwaneni. Iingcali ngalo mbandela zicebisa ukuba abazali bababambe ngeengalo abantwana babo besebancinane. Ukusuka apha banokusebenzisa inqwelo njengomncedisi ngokunxulumene nemfundo yabantwana babo. Kufuneka siyibeke ecaleni inkolelo yokuba ukuthwala umntwana ezandleni zethu kubi kwaye kuyamosha umntwana.
Ukukhulisa ingalo ayikokubamba umntwana kuphela xa uyifuna okanye uyifuna, ikwayakwazi nokwenza ulusu ukuya eluswini ukudibanisa iqhina okanye lala ecaleni kwabo ukuze bazole kwaye unokulala ngeyona ndlela ingcono.
Ukukhulisa okanye ukufundisa ezingalweni kuquka ukwanga abantwana izihlandlo eziliqela ngemini nokubenza babone ukuba iingalo zabazali. Baya kuhlala bekhona xa bebadinga. Akuyongozi ukwanga umntwana ukuze ubonise uthando nothando olukhoyo kwintsapho. Imiboniso yothando phakathi kwabazali nabantwana ingundoqo kwaye ibalulekile ekukhuliseni abantwana ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Ngamafutshane, nangona namhlanje inxalenye enkulu yoluntu inokucinga ngokuchaseneyo, Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokusonga abantwana bakho ezingalweni zakho. Ukwanga kakuhle okuvela kubazali kubalulekile xa kuziwa ekwenzeni usana luzive lukhuselekile kwaye lukhululekile ngokupheleleyo okanye luzolile. Ukuba umntwana ufuna iingalo zabazali bakhe, akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokwenza oko kwaye akwazi ukukholisa umntwana omncinci. Ukuba ngumzali yindlela emangalisayo yokufundisa abantwana nokubonelela ngembonakaliso emangalisayo yothando, nto leyo enceda ukuqinisa iqhina elidaliweyo ukongezelela ekubeni lulungele ukukhula komntwana.