Yintoni i-Empty Nest Syndrome?

Indlwane engenanto

Into eyaziwa ngokuba yi-nest nest syndrome ayikho enye into ngaphandle kwentlungu yeemvakalelo abazali abaninzi abavakalelwa ngayo xa bejongene nenyaniso yokuba abantwana babo, Bagqiba kwelokuba balishiye ikhaya lentsapho kwaye uthabathe uhambo lwakho.

Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha nawe ngokubanzi malunga nale syndrome, iimpawu zayo kunye ukuba yintoni abazali abafanele bayenze ukuze boyise loo ntlungu.

Ukuvalelisa kunye nokuhamba kakuhle kwabantwana

Kwinqanaba lokuqala, abazali bajamelana nenyaniso. Abantwana bakhulile kwaye Lixesha lokuba balandele eyabo indlela. Ngenxa yoku, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuziva umxube weemvakalelo ezahlukeneyo: ukuzingca okuthile xa ubabona bezimele, kodwa kunye ne-melancholy encinci kwinto yokuba ikhaya lentsapho liza kutshintsha kwaye alisayi kufana. Ukwazi indlela yokwamkela ezi mvakalelo linyathelo lokuqala lokuqonda i-nest syndrome engenanto.

Igumbi elingenanto

Akulula ukubona ukuba igumbi labantwana lihlala lingenanto ngonaphakade. Ukunikezelwa oku, akukho sizathu sokukhalaza, ngoko kulungile ukuyiguqula. kwikona yomntu, kwithala leencwadi elitofotofo okanye kufundisiso lobuqu. Olu tshintsho lomzimba lunokunceda ukufanekisela utshintsho kwaye ufumane iindlela ezintsha zokuzalisekisa ubomi kwinqanaba lomntu.

Ubudlelwane obutsha nabantwana

Njengoko abantwana behlola ubuni babo, kubalulekile ukuhlonipha ukhetho lwabo. Nokuba awusekho kwikhaya losapho, ubudlelwane akufunekanga buphele njengoko butshintsha nje. Ngoko ke kubalulekile ukuseka unxibelelwano oluvulekileyo kunye nokukhuthaza ukuhloniphana ukuze kwakhiwe unxibelelwano oluluqilima. Ngoko ke, unganqikazi ukubhiyozela zonke iimpumelelo zabo kwaye wenze ibhondi ehlala ngaphaya kweendonga zekhaya.

Ukufumana iinjongo ezintsha kunye ne-horizons

I-Empty Nest Syndrome inokusebenza ukuze uzibonakalise kwakhona. Kangangeminyaka emininzi, usukelo lobomi beluyinto nje yokukhulisa nokufundisa abantwana ngeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo. Ngoku abantwana bashiye ikhaya, Lixesha lokubuyela kwizinto zokuzonwabisa zakudala, phonononga izinto ezintsha onomdla kuzo kwaye uqalise izinto ongazange uzenze ngaphambili. Ubomi buseluhambo oluvuyisa ngokwenene, kwaye eli nqanaba linokuba sisiqalo samava amatsha amangalisayo.

indlwane engenanto

Yazi indlela yokwamkela izigqibo zabantwana

Ukushiya ikhaya abantwana bakho akuthethi ukuba uza kuphulukana nabo ngonaphakade. Ukwamkela ngokuvumayo ukuba abantwana bakho bakhulile nokuba indlela yabo yahlukile kuleyo ubuyicinga kunokuba lucelomngeni lokwenene kubazali abaninzi. Ukwazi ukuziqhelanisa nale nyaniso intsha kufuna ukuba ube bhetyebhetye kunye nomonde kwisiqu sakho. Yiyo loo nto ilungile ukuba uyakwazi ukubonakalisa nokucinga Kumnandi ukukwazi ukubhiyozela imihla yokuzalwa kunye nabantwana bakho kweli nqanaba litsha lobomi babo.

Phila ngoku

Xa kuziwa ekoyiseni i-nest syndrome engenanto Kubalulekile ukugxila kwixesha langoku nelikhoyo kwaye ufumane ulonwabo kwimizuzu yemihla ngemihla. Yonwabela iminxeba engalindelekanga, undwendwelo olungalindelekanga kunye namaxesha amnandi kwiindibano zosapho. Ubomi buyatshintsha rhoqo kwaye bamkele apha kwaye ngoku buya kukuvumela ukuba wakhe iinkumbulo ezibalulekileyo eziza kuzalisa intliziyo yakho.

Ngamafutshane, akukho mathandabuzo ukuba i-nest syndrome engenanto iya kuba ngumceli mngeni wokwenyani kubazali abaninzi, kodwa ikwalithuba lokukhula kwaye ufumane imilinganiselo emitsha yobomi. Njengoko uhlengahlengisa kobu bomi butsha, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba isiseko sobutata sisaphila; zivela kunye nabantwana bakho. Ungalibazisi ukubhiyozela impumelelo yabantwana bakho kwaye wakhe indlwane egcwele uthando, nangona abantwana bethathe isigqibo sokulishiya ikhaya losapho.


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