Ukuhlaselwa ngumsindo phakathi kwesibini Bavelisa imeko ebuhlungu kunye netyhefu engafanele ukunyamezela.. Ubundlavini kunye nomsindo ziindlela ezimbini ezicacileyo zokuxhatshazwa phakathi kobudlelwane obuthile. Kuzo naziphi na izibini ezithathwa njengezempilo, iimpawu ezibalulekileyo ezifana nentlonipho, unxibelelwano kunye nothando kufuneka zibe khona.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha ngako Indlela yokwenza xa ujongene nokuhlaselwa komsindo kwiqabane lakho.
Ukuhlaselwa ngumsindo phakathi kwesibini
Simele siqale kwisiseko sokuba akukho simo sengqondo sogonyamelo okanye somsindo esinokukhuseleka.. Ukusuka apha kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu usebenzisa umsindo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye ngokuqaphela ukuba akwazi ukuzithoba kunye nokuxhaphaza iqabane okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, akaqapheli umsindo othethiweyo kwaye uyakwazi ukuvuma impazamo yakhe kwaye acele ukuxolelwa. Lo mahluko phakathi kokuziphatha kokubili ungundoqo xa kuziwa ekwazini ukujongana nengxaki enjalo. Kwakhona, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ingxaki enjalo kwaye ubeke zonke iindlela eziyimfuneko zokunceda ukoyisa ukuziphatha okunjalo komsindo.
Indlela yokuphendula ukuhlaselwa komsindo weqabane
Nangona inokuba yinto enzima ngokwenene, kwimeko yokubandezeleka kolunye uhlobo lokuhlaselwa ngumsindo okanye ubundlongondlongo kwicala leqabane lakho, Eyona nto ingcono kukuzola, uphumle kwaye uzame ukuqonda iqabane lakho.. Into elula okanye elula iya kuba kukuhamba kwisibini kwaye ubashiye bodwa imizuzu embalwa. Oku kunokwenza imeko ibe mbi ngakumbi, ekubeni iqabane elinomsindo lisenokuziva lingamkelwa liqabane.
Kubalulekile ukugxininisa ngokukodwa ukuba isimo somsindo somntu asinanto yakwenza nobudlelwane kunye nayo yonke into enxulumene nexesha elidlulileyo lomntu. Ukuziva inkxaso okanye ukuqonda kwiqabane lakho kunokunceda ukujongana nomsindo onjalo okanye ubundlongondlongo. Kuhle ukuba isibini siyazi indlela yokuphulaphula ngalo lonke ixesha koko kuthethwa ngomnye umntu. Ukugcina unxibelelwano oluhle kunye nokuxoxa ngokuzolileyo ngesihloko, Kubalulekile xa kufikwa ekuthomalaliseni umsindo. Ukuva inkxaso nokuthenjwa kwesi sibini kuyanceda ekuhlangabezaneni nengxaki enjalo kuze kufumaneke izicombululo ezilungele ikamva lesi sibini.
Zero ubundlobongela
Oku kuchazwe ngasentla akusebenzi kuzo zonke izibini kuba zisebenza ukuba zikhona kubudlelwane obuxeliweyo. iimpawu ezinjengothando nentlonipho. Kufuneka kubekho ukuzinikela okupheleleyo kubo bobabini abantu ekufuneni izisombululo ezivumela ukuphumeza intlalo-ntle enkulu phakathi kwesibini.
Ukuba iqela elinetyhefu alikwazi ukuqaphela ukuba linengxaki kwaye lisebenzise umsindo ukuthoba iqabane, Kufuneka unciphise izinto kwaye uphelise ubudlelwane ngokukhawuleza. Umsindo yingxaki entsokothileyo kwaye inzulu ngokweemvakalelo, yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukufuna uncedo kwingcali efanelekileyo. Eyona nto imele icace ngokupheleleyo yeyokuba ukuxhatshazwa nogonyamelo phakathi kwesibini azinakuvunyelwa phantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko.