Unzima lo nyaka, nanjengoko bekulonyaka ophelileyo. Ukuhlala kubhubhane akukho lula, kuba uninzi lwezicwangciso zethu kunye nemibono yethu ayancipha ngenxa yokuqhubeka nokuvalelwa kunye nobunzima esijamelana nabo. Yiyo loo nto kukho abantu abaninzi abafuna ukuhlala bekhuthazekile.
Ukuhlala ukhuthazeka akukho lula ukuba iimeko zinzima, kodwa kukho iindlela zokuqinisekisa ukuba kulo nyaka u-2021 awupheli ngokungabikho komdlandla neenjongo. Kuya kufuneka siziqhelanise nale meko kwaye sifunde ukwenza okona kulungileyo ngomzuzu ngamnye.
Hlela iinjongo zakho kwakhona
Mhlawumbi ngenxa yolu bhubhane kuye kwafuneka uhlehlise ezinye izinto. Injalo i ixesha lokuhlengahlengisa iinjongo zakho. Kungaba lula ngeli xesha ukufezekisa ezinye izinto njengokugqiba ezinye izifundo okanye ukuqala ukufunda ulwimi njengoko sichitha ixesha elininzi ekhaya. Khangela ezo njongo eziza kukugcina unomdla ngakumbi nokuba usekhaya uzivalele. Zininzi izinto onokuzenza ekhaya, ukusuka kuqeqesho ukuya ekuhombiseni ikhaya lakho, ukufunda nokufunda into entsha. Sebenzisa eli xesha ukufezekisa injongo entsha.
Ungazilibali izicwangciso zakho
Enye into ongafanele uyenze kukuba ukucinga ukuba uza kuzenza izicwangciso zakho. Nokuba kusemva kwexesha, sinokuphinda senze izinto. Mhlawumbi kwinyani entsha apho kufuneka silandele imigaqo ethile kodwa singabuyela ekuhambeni nasekonwabeni. Ke gcina engqondweni ukuba unokwenza ezo zicwangciso bezisalindelwe. Beka konke oku kuluhlu ukugcina engqondweni ukuba ngokukhawuleza, uya kwenza zonke izinto ezonwabisayo nezinomdla ezikhuthaza kakhulu. Ungalibali yonke into oza kuyenza ngaphambi koku.
Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ezikukhuthazayo
Kukho iintsuku apho andenzi njalo Sifumana inkuthazo yemihla ngemihla. Singena kwisiqhelo kwaye akukho zinto zintsha ezenza usuku ngalunye lube ngumceli mngeni onomdla osisa kwenye indawo. Yiyo loo nto ekugqibeleni siphela siphulukana nenkuthazo. Kodwa akufuneki silibale ukuba yintoni eyona nto isishukumisayo. Unokwenza uluhlu lwezizathu zakho zemihla ngemihla. Nokuba sigqibile isidanga, ukufunda ulwimi, ukubukela abantwana bakho bekhula okanye bephucula emsebenzini. Wonke umntu unezizathu ezahlukeneyo kwaye kufuneka uzifumanele ezakho.
Cinga wedwa
Kubalulekile ukuba ngexesha lika hlala ukhuthazeka masicace malunga nezinto eziphambili kunye nethemba lethu. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ezi zinto zifane nabanye abantu. Sonke siyazi ukuba kubonakala ngathi eluntwini kuya kufuneka ujonge izinto ezithile, ukusuka kwikhondo lomsebenzi omkhulu ukuya kusapho. Kodwa ayingabo bonke abantu abakhuthazwayo ngokufanayo. Kukho abo bafuna ukubona umhlaba kwaye kukho abo bafuna ukutshintsha ubomi babantu okanye banikezele ubomi babo kuphando. Umntu ngamnye lihlabathi kwaye yonke into iyasebenza, ke kufuneka uzicingele kwaye uzikhumbuze ukuba izizathu zakho kufuneka zibe zezakho kuphela, ngokwendlela ophila ngayo kunye neenjongo zakho.
Ziphephe iingcinga ezingakhiyo
Ngala maxesha Kulula ukuqhutywa kukungakhathali, kuba kubonakala ngathi le meko ayipheli. Kodwa kubalulekile ukugcina isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo ebomini. Kufuneka sizame ukubona izinto ezintle ezenzeka mihla le. Unokwenza uluhlu lwazo zonke izinto ezilungileyo ekufuneka unombulelo kuzo kwaye ulukhumbule olu luhlu, kuba ke uyakubona ukuba ayizizo zonke izinto ezimbi kwaye yonke into izakudlula. Ekugqibeleni kubalulekile ukugcina umbono wethu kwinto elungileyo ukujongana nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo yonke imihla.