Indlela ukuzalwa komntwana okusichaphazela ngayo isibini

ubomi isibini kunye nomntwana

Ukufika komntwana kuhlala kusisizathu solonwabo kwisibini. Kuyinyani ukuba ukuzalwa komntwana kuyabutshintsha ubomi bakho kwaye kunokutshintsha iqabane lakho. Yonke into ijikeleze umzobo womntwana, ngoko ubudlelwane besibini kufuneka bulungelelaniswe neemfuno zomntwana omncinci. Ngelishwa, kukho izibini ezininzi ezingalwamkeli ngokuzithandela olu tshintsho kwaye ekugqibeleni ziqhawule umtshato.

Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela Ukufika komntwana kuluchaphazela njani ulwalamano? nento emayiyenze ukuze isibini singaqhawuki.

Indlela ukuzalwa komntwana okusichaphazela ngayo eso sibini

Kwelinye icala, umama ufumana utshintsho olunamandla ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo. Kukho amaxesha apho unokuziva usonganyelwe luxanduva olukhulu lokunyamekela usana lwakho.

Ngokwenxalenye yakhe, le ndoda isenokuziva ngathi ngumntu osusiweyo esihlalweni oye wadlulela ngasemva, ekubeni iqabane lakhe lichitha lonke ixesha linyamekela umntwana omncinane. Utata uyacaphuka kwaye uyacaphuka yile meko kwaye umama akayiqondi ingqumbo yeqabane lakhe. Konke oku kuba ngumjikelo apho ungquzulwano luqala ukukhula phakathi kwesibini. Ukuba le ngxaki ayijongwanga, ibhola iya iba nkulu njengoko iintsuku zihamba, ibeka esichengeni ubudlelwane.

Ukudinwa nokudinwa phakathi kwesi sibini

Konke oku kwenziwa mandundu yinyaniso ukuba ukudinwa nokudinwa kubaphatha kakubi abantu ababini. Konke oku kuvelisa inani elikhulu leengxabano kunye nokulwa okutshabalalisa ngokuthe ngcembe ubudlelwane. Ukuba amaqela atshatileyo akakwazi ukuhlala phantsi ngokuzolileyo aze athethe izinto ngendlela esengqiqweni, ukungquzulana kuya kusanda, nto leyo eyenza ingxaki yesibini ibe yinto yokwenene nenzima ukuyicombulula.

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Indlela yokujongana nalo lonke utshintsho

  • Ngaphambi kokuthabatha inyathelo lokuba nomntwana, kuhle ukulindela iimeko ezithile uze ulungelelanise ukuze isibini singaziva sicaphukile. Kufuneka ukhuthale, ngakumbi xa kuziwa ukuba ulwalamano lwesibini alonzakali okanye lonakaliswe.
  • Kuhle ukufunda kangangoko kunokwenzeka ngayo yonke into engqonge ukuzala nokuba nomntwana. Lonke ulwazi lulungile ukukhusela iqhina lesibini.
  • Kufuneka ucinge ukuba iminyaka yokuqala inzima kakhulu, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha iinxalenye zilungelelanisa utshintsho kunye banandipha ubomi njengentsapho yokwenene.
  • Akunakukhanyelwa nangaliphi na ixesha utshintsho oluya kwenziwa sisibini. Utshintsho lubonakala ngakumbi kodwa ukujongana nabo isibini sinokuqhubeka ngaphandle kwengxaki.
  • Esi sibini ngumcimbi wesibini kunye Kufuneka unikeze uncedo xa elinye iqela lilufuna. Kuphela ngale ndlela unokuqhubeka kwaye ujabulele ubomi bokwenyani njengesibini.
  • Xa unomntwana, ukulungelelanisa phakathi kobudlelwane ngundoqo ekuphepheni iingxaki ezithile. Kuya kufuneka uhlukanise imisebenzi ngendlela yokuba wonke umntu abe nexesha elincinci lokukhululeka ukukwazi ukuqhawula kunye nokuphumla ngokomzimba nangokweemvakalelo.

Ngamafutshane, Alithandabuzeki elokuba ukufika komntwana kweli hlabathi kusoloko kuziindaba ezilungileyo. Nangona kunjalo, oku kufika kuthetha ukudinwa okukhulu kubazali ngokomzimba nangokweemvakalelo. Kungenxa yoko le nto yonke into iya kuba ntle kwaye ilungile kwaye iingxaki ezithile zinokuvela ezinokushukumisa iziseko zalo naluphi na ubudlelwane. Ngenxa yoku, kulungile ukujongana neengxaki ngokudibeneyo ukuze isibini siqiniswe kwaye akukho luhlobo lwengxaki ukuba luphuke.


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