Inye into oyibonayo kumabonwakude nakwimiboniso bhanyabhanya kwaye enye eyahluke mpela yinto eyenzekayo ngokwenyani. Isibini esigqibeleleyo asikho kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba kumaxesha ngamaxesha kukho umzabalazo othile wamandla okanye ungquzulwano phakathi kwabantu bobabini. Oonobangela bemilo enjalo okanye ungquzulwano banokuba baninzi okanye bahluke.
Okwangoku apho esi sibini sizinze khona, bobabini abantu banokukhululeka ekunikezeleni kumzabalazo othile wamandla. Akukho nto yenzekayo kuba ukungqubana okunjalo kwenzeka amaxesha ngamaxesha, kuba iyinto eqhelekileyo ngaphakathi kwendibano.
Ithetha ntoni umzabalazo wamandla
Umzabalazo wamandla awuyonto ngaphandle kokuba imeko ibangelwa kukungqubana ngokuthe ngqo kwezimvo ezithile ezingahambelaniyo. Ekuqaleni, Akukho namnye kumalungu esi sibini uya kuvuma ityala lakhe kwaye ngesiqhelo yalatha kwelinye iqela njengonobangela wale ngxabano.
Ingxaki enkulu ngomlo onje kungenxa yokuba akukho namnye kubo ovumayo ukuba netyala kwaye banenjongo yokubonisa ukuba ngubani onamandla anjalo ngaphakathi kwesi sibini. Ukuba le meko iba yesiqhelo mihla le, Ingabeka emngciphekweni ubudlelwane.
Indlela yokuchonga ukuba ngumzabalazo wamandla
Zininzi izinto kunye nezinto ezinokunceda ekuchongeni ungquzulwano okanye umzabalazo wamandla phakathi kwesibini:
- Akukho luhlobo lonxibelelwano phakathi kwesi sibini kwaye ukubanakho ukumamela kulahlekile. Amaqela akaboni ukuba alungile kwaye akayeki ukubona umbono weqela elichaphazelekayo.
- Esi sibini ngumcimbi wesibini kunye izigqibo azinakwenziwa ngokungafaniyo. Kwimeko yokulwa kwamandla, ukuzimela kuyafunwa kwaye uluvo lwesibini aluthathelwa ntweni kwaphela.
- Kwiingxabano phakathi kwesi sibini, akukho mntu wenza iimpazamo kuba ikratshi lingaphezulu kwako konke. Iziphene zikhona komnye umntu.
- Ezinye iinyani ezibonisa ukuba kukho umzabalazo wamandla kwisibini esithile kungenxa yolawulo oluqinileyo olwenziwe lelinye lamaqela kubudlelwane kwelinye iqela. Kuya kufuneka yonke into iphantsi kolawulo lwakho, nokuba umntu uthini na.
Athini umzabalazo wamandla kwesi sibini ngenxa?
Kwiimeko ezininzi, Le mizabalazo ibangelwa kukuziva ungaphantsi komntu onetyhefu okanye ongenampilo kubantu abatshatileyo. Enkosi ngezo ngxabano okanye umlo, baziva bengaphezulu kwesibini, into ebanelisa ngokupheleleyo. Umzabalazo wamandla ukunika ukhuseleko olwaneleyo okanye ukuzithemba ukuze ukwazi ukujongana nolwalamano.
Into ekufuneka icace gca kukuba ezo ngxabano yimicimbi emibini, kuba ayinakuqhutywa ngokudibeneyo. Ngenxa yoku, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uzibeke ezandleni zengcali elungileyo eyaziyo ukusombulula ingxaki enjalo kwaye buphele obu butyhefu ngaphakathi kwesi sibini.