Ukuba nolwalamano nomntu onengxaki yengqondo akukho lula. Uthe ukuphazamiseka akuyonto ekhethwe ngokuzithandela, ngoko kufuna umgudu kumacala omabini, ukuze ubudlelwane bungabandezeleki. Kwimeko enjalo kubalulekile ukufumanisa malunga nesifo sengqondo esiphethwe ngumntu othandekayo kwaye ukusuka apho ukuyiphatha ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela ukuba uthando kunye nesifo sengqondo sinokuhambelana phakathi kwesibini.
Funda ngezifo zengqondo
Akukho mntu ufanele agwetywe ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Umntu onengxaki ethile yengqondo ngumntu ogulayo kwaye kufuneka afumane uncedo. Kwimeko yesi sibini, kulungile ukufumanisa kangangoko malunga nesifo sengqondo esinjalo kwaye ukusuka apho wenze ngokufanelekileyo. Kukho ukusabela okuthile okuqhelekileyo kwesi sigulo ngokwaso, ngoko kuhle ukukuphepha ukugxeka umguli kwaye umncede kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze ungonakalisi ulwalamano.
Unxibelelwano oluhle phakathi kwesibini
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, iingxabano kunye nokulwa kukukhanya kwemini kuninzi lwezibini. Kwimeko yobukho besifo sengqondo, amaqela kufuneka axoxe rhoqo ukuze athintele ukuba izinto zingaqhubeki. Ungavumeli ingxabano inyuke nangaliphi na ixesha. kwaye usebenzise ithoni yoxolelwaniso nepholileyo ukufikelela kwisivumelwano.
Yintoni enokuyenza xa isibini sinesifo sengqondo
- Kwimeko apho ingxoxo enokwenzeka iyenzeka, iinzame ezincinci kufuneka zenziwe ukunciphisa ukuqina kwayo kunye ukuba ingxabano enokusenzakalisa ngokunzulu isibini ingenzeki.
- Kubalulekile ukuba isibini esinengxaki yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo siyazi ngamaxesha onke iinjongo zakho kunye ukuba awuyi kulila. Oku kulawula ukudala indawo ekhuselekileyo yokuxoxa.
Yintoni engafanele yenziwe phantsi kwayo nayiphi na imeko
- Musa ukugxeka iqabane ngakumbi ngenxa yokuba uphethwe sisifo sengqondo.
- Ungabonisi naluphi na uhlobo lokudelela okanye intlekisa ngakuye.
- Sukuzithethelela ngexesha lengxoxo.
Indlela yokubonisa inkxaso kwiqabane lakho
Ukubonisa inkxaso ethile kwiqabane Yinto enceda ngokufanelekileyo ubudlelwane. Kuhle ukumbuza rhoqo ukuba unjani kwaye unjani. Kuhle nokumazisa ukuba unawe ngayo nantoni na. Ukujongana nesifo sengqondo akukho lula kuye nabani na, kungoko kubalulekile ukubabonisa inkxaso kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba nomdla kuhlobo lonyango olulandelayo kunye namayeza owathatha rhoqo. Kufuneka uyazi ngamaxesha onke ukuba iingxaki zobudlelwane bazimele ngokupheleleyo kwisigulo sengqondo ophethwe siso.
Ukubonisa inkxaso kangangoko kunokwenzeka yinto eyomeleza kakhulu ubudlelwane okanye ibhondi eyenziwe. Ngokuchasene noko, ukugxeka umntu ngamaxesha onke ngekamva lobudlelwane yinto eyenza umonakalo omkhulu onokuthi ukhokelela ekupheleni kwesibini.
Ngamafutshane, akukho mathandabuzo okuba uthando lunokuhlalisana ngaphandle kwengxaki, ngenyaniso yokuba omnye wabo unengxaki yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Khumbula ukuba iqela eligulayo akufanele ligwetywe ngenxa yokubandezeleka kokuphazamiseka okuthile. Ngaphandle koku, indawo esempilweni kufuneka ikhathalelwe kuba kungenjalo inokubandezeleka ngokweemvakalelo. Kukho nawuphi na, undoqo wokuba yonke into isebenze kukugcina unxibelelwano oluhle kunye nesibini kunye nokuthetha ngayo yonke into ngendlela ezolileyo nekhululekile.