Nangona isenokungakholeleki ngandlel’ ithile yinxalenye enkulu yoluntu, Kukho izibini apho i-Sexual Harassment epheleleyo inokwenzeka. Ukuxhatshazwa okunjalo kwenzeka xa isini singasafunwa ngomnye wamaqela kwaye sibe sisinyanzelo sokwenene okanye isibophelelo.
Kwimeko enjalo omnye wabachaphazelekayo uphelela ekubeni lixhoba lokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo liqabane labo. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kubalulekile ukuphelisa ubudlelwane ngokwawo kwaye uxele isibini ngokuhlukumeza ngokwesondo kunye nokuxhatshazwa. Kwinqaku elilandelayo sithetha nawe ngendlela eneenkcukacha Ukuxhatshazwa kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kubudlelwane bezibini kwaye wenze ntoni ngayo.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo phakathi kwesibini
Ukwabelana ngesondo neqabane lakho ngokuzibophelela kunokuqwalaselwa njengetyala lokwenyani lokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo okanye ukuxhatshazwa. Kwimeko enjalo, isibini siba ngumxhaphazi wokwenene yaye lowo wonzakeleyo ube lixhoba lokwenene. Into eqhelekileyo kukuba iqela elixhaphazayo liziphatha ngendlela efanelekileyo ngaphandle kobudlelwane kwaye ngumntu onetyhefu nodelekileyo phakathi kobudlelwane ngokwawo.
Akukho lula ukuqinisekisa ukuba iqabane elibangela ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo okunjalo. Iimvakalelo ezinjengoloyiko okanye ukuziva unetyala zikhona, ekwaziyo ukubangela ukubhideka okuthile kwixhoba ngokwalo. Ukuphuma kule meko njengesiqhelo kunzima kakhulu, ekubeni umntu oxhaphaza ngokwesini isibini. Uloyiko kule meko lukhulu kangangokuba ixhoba alikwazi ukubeka olo lwalamano.
akukho mntu ungowamntu
Ukuseka ukuzinikela okuthile okanye unxibelelwano nomnye umntu, Asiyonto iphambili ukunyamezela indlela ethile yokuziphatha okanye indlela yokuziphatha engafanelekanga. Ukungonwabi phakathi kwesibini kufuneka kube yinto ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo kwaye ibe ngundoqo xa kupheliswa ubudlelwane obuthile. Kubalulekile ke ngoko ukukhumbula ukuba akukho mntu ungokabani.
Nangona isenokubonakala ingakholeleki kwaye ingeyonyani kakhulu, inyaniso yeyokuba baninzi abantu basetyhini abafumana uhlobo lokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwiqabane labo. Iqhina eliphilileyo lelo apho iimvakalelo ezinjengothando nothando lwamaqela zikhoyo. Uthando alunako ukuphatha kakubi okanye ukuhlazisa omnye wabatshati kwaye isini kufuneka kwabelwane ngaso kunye nangemvumelwano. Ukunyanzela iqabane ukuba libelane ngesondo kukuphatha gadalala okanye ukukhathazwa ngabo bonke iileta, Akufunekanga ivunyelwe phantsi kwayo nayiphi na imeko.
Iimpawu ezicacileyo zokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwesi sibini
Kukho uluhlu lweempawu ezicacileyo ezinokubonisa ukuba kubudlelwane obuthile okunye ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwenzeka:
- Ukuchukumisa okuthile emzimbeni kwenzeka ezingavunywanga lixhoba.
- Ukungena kwenzeka nangona kungekho wepati oxhatshazwe ngokwesondo.
- iqela elixhaphazayo uyala ukusebenzisa ikhondom xa usabelana ngesondo.
- Kukho izityholo eziqhubekayo kwixhoba ngokungafuni ukwabelana ngesondo.
- Ukulawulwa ngokweemvakalelo kwenzeka ukufumana ukwabelana ngesondo.
- Ixhoba lineemvakalelo ezinjalo ezifana noloyiko, ityala okanye iintloni emva kokulala neqabane.
Ngamafutshane, Akukho naphantsi kweemeko onokuthi uzivumele ukuba uxhatshazwe ngokwesondo liqabane lakho. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kubalulekile ukuthetha ngento eyenzekayo nabantu obathembileyo kwaye uphelise ubudlelwane. Kwezinye iimeko kubalulekile ukuya kwingcali ukuba ijongane nengxaki kwaye uchaze isibini ngokwaso. Ngelishwa, kukho abafazi abaninzi abakhetha ukuthula kwaye baqhubeke nobudlelwane obuyityhefu apho bangamaxhoba okuxhatshazwa ngokuqhubekayo liqabane labo.