Umxholo we "abalingane bomphefumlo" Kuthetheleleka ngaloo nkalo yokomoya engakumbi apho kugcinwa khona ukuba ngamnye wethu eneneni ebeya kuba nomntu ofana nobuntu bethu, oya kusiphelelisa. Ngaphakathi kolu luvo neminye imigaqo iya kongezwa enokuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo, umzekelo, umbono wokuphindukuzalwa kunye nobomi obuninzi apho sihlala sidibana "nabantu abafanayo."
Umbono wamaqabane omphefumlo uthengisa kakhulu, unabakhuseli abathembekileyo kunye nabaphuphi abakhulu abalinda ngomonde kwikamva, ithuba okanye "i-causality" yokwenza imbonakalo kwaye isizise. umntu ofanelekileyo. Kwisibini esifanelekileyo. Njengomnqweno, sinokuwulondoloza, kodwa njengayo yonke into kobu bomi, simele siyazi indlela yokugcina ulungelelwano size sicinge ukuba kwimibandela yeemvakalelo simele sibe nobulumko. Makhe sithethe ngalo mbono uxhaphakileyo namhlanje, siya kuyihlalutya ngokweenkcukacha kwaye sifikelele kwisigqibo, sikucela ukuba usinike uluvo lwakho ngalo mbandela.
Abalingane bomphefumlo kunye nombono womoya
Usenokuba uqhelene nomsebenzi kagqirha wengqondo waseMelika ogama lingu UBrian Weiss, Wafumana udumo olukhulu kunye nodumo ngenxa yeencwadi ezifana «Ubomi obuninzi, abafundisi abaninzi" okanye "Imizimba emininzi, umphefumlo omnye." Kwimisebenzi yakhe, kwaye rhoqo nge-hypnosis, ufezekisa ubungqina obumangalisayo babantu abathi baye baphila ubomi obuninzi obudlulileyo, kwaye kuninzi lwala mabali, ingcamango yamaqabane omphefumlo ayicacanga.
Masibone i izimvo esizisa le ndlela yomoya ngakumbi kule ngcamango:
- Abantu bahlala hayi enyekodwa ubomi obuninzi ngokuvela kwethu ngokutsha, ukuze ukufa kungabi sisiphelo, kodwa ibe sisiqalo esitsha kumjikelo omfutshane kakhulu ngamanye amaxesha. Injongo yethu kobu bomi ibiya kuba kukufunda, ukoyisa uloyiko okanye iimpazamo zexesha elidlulileyo, nokudibanisa iimfundiso ezifanelekileyo ukuze sinyuke.
- Kulo lonke olu kuzalwa ngokutsha, sidibana namaqabane ethu omphefumlo. Abantu abafana nathi kwaye siseka umanyano olusenyongweni kakhulu, ibaluleke kakhulu.
- Kufuneka ugcine a "Vula ingqondo" ukuze ukwazi ukubaqonda. Ukuba sinamathele kakhulu kwiindawo eziphathekayo zobomi okanye i-ego yethu, kuya kuba nzima ngathi ukuchonga amaqabane ethu omphefumlo.
- Ngokwale ndlela, la maqabane omphefumlo akasoloko ezibonakalisa "njengamaqabane ethu ngokweemvakalelo." Ngamanye amaxesha iba ngabethu abazali, abantwana okanye oodade, amanani afanelekileyo ebomini bethu.
- Kufuneka kuthiwe ngamanye amaxesha, ubudlelwane nala "maqabane omphefumlo" angonwabi ncam, kunokubakho ngenxa yezizathu ezintle. ukubandezeleka. Yiyo loo nto imfuneko "yokudibana" kwakhona ukusombulula loo miba ingekapheli.
Soulmates, umbono wokwenene ngakumbi
Asiyi kukhanyela ukuba akuchanekanga okanye kubi ukukholelwa ukuba iqabane lomphefumlo wethu ngenye imini liya kuza ebomini bethu, okanye enyanisweni, unokucinga ukuba sele ubafumene. Ngoku, nangona unengqondo ephangaleleyo nentliziyo evumayo, kufuneka ukwazi ukuyigcina iinyawo zimiliselwe ngokuqinileyo emhlabeni; ube nobulumko.
Thabatha olu ngcelele lwemiba ingqalelo.
Kubo bonke ubomi bakho ungadibana "nemiphefumlo emininzi yamaqabane"
Ngokufuthi, iimvakalelo zomntu azipheleliselwanga kulwalamano olunye esinokulugqala lunentsingiselo nolubalulekileyo. Kunokwenzeka ukuba kubo bonke ubomi bethu siya kunandipha ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu izibini ebesisoloko sizigqala njengeziyinyaniso "abalingane bomphefumlo".
Kwaye akunamsebenzi nokuba ubudlelwane obunye okanye ngaphezulu buphela ngokusilela, into ebalulekileyo ekupheleni kosuku kukuba siye sagcina amava kunye nento esiyiphilayo. Ukuba bebeluthando lokwenyani, ke yonke into etyaliwe ibifanelekile, kuba ubomi buyindlela yokuhamba uyonwabele umzuzu ngamnye.
Sukulinda ukufika "komlingani wakho womphefumlo", kunqande ukwenza okulungileyo
Into engayi kucetyiswa kukuzixakekisa ngoluvo lokuba mayingene ebomini bethu. umntu okhethekileyol, umntu omcingelayo ngokweenkcukacha, oneempawu ezintle ezininzi kwaye ehambelana ngokugqibeleleyo neemfuno zakho.
Ngokufanelekileyo, yiba ngamaqabane ethu omphefumlo kuqala. Ukuzifumana sizazi ngcono linyathelo lokuqala loko kukhula ngokweemvakalelo okubalulekileyo okuya kusivumela ukuba siphumelele kubudlelwane beemvakalelo. Ukuba uziva ukhuselekile, ukuba ulubeka ecaleni uloyiko okanye ukungazithembi kwakho, uya kukwazi ukuphalaza imbilini yakho komnye umntu ngendlela eyakhayo. epheleleyo, epheleleyo kwaye yonwabile.
Sukulinda "injongo egqibeleleyo" nokuba, loo ndoda ethi ngokukujonga nje ikwazi oko kufunekayo kwaye ekwaziyo into oyicingayo ngokujonga nje ebusweni bakho. Sonke sinjalo abantu abangafezekanga Ukuba sihlangane kunye nezinye izidalwa ezingafezekanga ukwakha ubudlelwane obugqibeleleyo phakathi kwesibini, sesona sicwangciso silungileyo esinokubakho.
Kunokuba ufezekise ingqikelelo yamaqabane omphefumlo, kungcono ukucinga ngabantu bokwenyani, abenyama abaneziphene zabo kunye nokulunga kwabo, abaya kuza kuwe ngexesha elinikiweyo. ndikwenze wonwabe. Olo lwalamano lusenokungahlali ngonaphakade, okanye lusenokuba njalo. Into ebalulekileyo kukuhlala apha kwaye ngoku.
Ungalindi ukuba "laa mntu umlingo" afike evela ezulwini, phuma uyokukhangela, vala le khompyutha okanye ujonge kude kule fowuni kwaye uyivumele. ithuba kunye nentando yakho, fumana ukuba isibini esifuna ukonwabisa. Ukuba uyakudinga kwaye ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, kuya kuzisa olo lonwabo sonke kufuneka sibe nalo ngaphezu kwesihlandlo esinye.