Kubantu abaninzi, ukulala ngesondo neqabane lakho akumnandi kwaphela. Zininzi izinto ezinokuba nefuthe elibi ekulalaneni nomntu obathandayo. Uxinzelelo lwemihla ngemihla lunokuba sesinye sezizathu zokuba umntu angakonwabeli ukulala ngesondo.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo sikunika uthotho lwezizathu zokuba kutheni kunokuba nzima ukonwabela ukwabelana ngesondo njengeqabane kwaye wenzeni ukuze oku kungenzeki.
Kutheni kukho abantu abangakonwabeliyo ukwabelana ngesondo kunye neqabane labo
Ukwabelana ngesondo yinto ephakathi kwababini kwaye kubalulekile ukuba ulonwabo ludityaniswe. Nangona kunjalo, kukho amaxesha athile okuba nangona ulala nomntu omthandayo, ulonwabo alugcwali. Ukuba oku kwenzeka rhoqo, kunokuba nefuthe elibi kwikamva elilungileyo lesibini. Siza kuthetha nawe ngezinye zezizathu zokungoneliseki ngokwesondo kunye nendlela yokwenza ngayo ngokuchasene nayo:
Uxinzelelo ukwanelisa iqabane
Kukho amaxesha apho elinye lamaqela lijolise kakhulu ekwaneliseni iqabane kwaye lilibale ngesiqu sakho. Konke oku kunokuvelisa amanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo oluya kuthi lube nefuthe elibi xa kufikwa kumba wesondo. Ukuthintela oku kungenzeki, umntu kufuneka aphumle ngokupheleleyo kwaye azibandakanye ngokupheleleyo kwizenzo zesondo. Ngokwesini, omabini amaqela kufuneka anike kwaye afumane.
Ukuphathwa zizakhiwo ezithile ezibonakalayo
Ukubandezeleka kwezinto ezithile ezibonakalayo kunokwenza ukuba umntu angabinakho ukuba neentlobano zesini ngokupheleleyo neqabane lakhe. Kuya kufuneka ushiye ezi zinto zecala ecaleni kwaye wonwabele ukulala nomntu omthandayo. Akuncedi nganto ukuzithemba ngento ethile kwaye ubunzima kwinqanaba elithile loxinzelelo xa usabelana ngesondo neqabane lakho.
Ukujonga ukufikelela kwi-orgasm
Ngamanye amaxesha, oku kungoneliseki kubangelwa kukuzibamba kwelinye lamaqela ukufikelela kwi-orgasm. Ucinga nge-orgasm yakho kunye neqabane lakho, ekhokelela kwimeko yoxinzelelo engakulungelanga ukuba neentlobano zesini ezisemgangathweni. Akukho mfuneko yokufikelela kwi-orgasm xa wonwabile ebhedini kunye neqabane lakho. Ngamanye amaxesha isondo sinokuzonwabisa nokuba ungafikeleli kuvuthondaba lokugqibela.
Vumela ukoma kobufazi
Ukomisa kwelungu lobufazi yenye into okanye into enokuthintela abantu basetyhini ukuba bonwabele isondo. Ukoma kwindawo yelungu lobufazi kubangela ukuba ukwabelana ngesondo kube buhlungu kwaye akunakubakho ndawo yolonwabo. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kuyacetyiswa ukuba kusetyenziswe izinto zokuthambisa kwilungu lobufazi ukuthintela ezo ntlungu.
Ngamafutshane, Ukwabelana ngesondo kufuneka kube yinto emnandi kubo bobabini abantu abakwisibini. Akunakuba kukuba umzuzu wesenzo sesondo uba yinto ebuhlungu kwaye ayivelisi lwaneliseko kwelinye lala maqela. Kubalulekile ukufumana unobangela okanye isizathu esenza ukuba isini singathandeki kwaye ufumane isisombululo esisebenzayo. Umzuzu wesenzo sesondo ubaluleke kakhulu phakathi kwesibini kwaye kufuneka kufezekiswe ukuba ngumzuzu omnandi kwaye ukhethekileyo kuwo omabini amaqela.