Ukufikisa lelinye lawona manqanaba antsonkothileyo kubantwana ngaphambi kokuba babe ngabantu abakhulu. Ngequbuliso, abantwana bayayeka ukuba ngabantwana kwaye babe ngabantu abadala ngemizimba yabantwana, kuba aniyeki ukubona abantwana benu njengabantwana abancinci, nokuba bangakanani na. Oku kuthetha ukuba ngenye imini, ngequbuliso, bayayeka ukuba bancinane baze babe ngabantu abakhulu neembopheleleko zabo.
Kwaye ukuze xa olu xanduva lufika, abantwana banamandla okwenza izigqibo kwaye babe ngabantu abadala abasebenzayo, kufuneka bafumane izifundo ezithile ebomini babo bonke. Ukususela ekuzalweni, ubomi babantwana bufunda ngokuqhubekayo. Xa beseziintsana bafunda izinto ezisisiseko njengokuqaphela iimilo, imibala, izandi, ukuhamba okanye ukutya wedwa. Kodwa xa ufikelela ebusheni. Kufuneka bazazi izinto ezibavumela ukuba basebenze emhlabeni ngokusebenza ngokupheleleyo.
Yintoni omele uyifundise abantwana ngaphambi kokufikisa
Xa sikhula ebuntwaneni siye siyeke ukufundisa abantwana izinto, bathathelwe ingqalelo imiba baya kufunda Enye indlela okanye enye. Kodwa iseyimiba esisiseko ekufuneka ootata, oomama, abakhathaleli kunye nabantu abadala bezalathisi bafanele bayifundise.
Kuba kulapho kuphela unokuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana bakho bafikelela ekuvuthweni ngolwazi oluyimfuneko lokujongana nayo nayiphi na imeko. Ezi zi nje ezinye zezinto ofanele uzifundise abantwana bakho ngaphambi kokufika kwi ukufikisa.
Imfundo yezesondo
Kule mihla abantwana bafumana ulwazi kwiingongoma ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, nto leyo engathethi ukuba balufumana ngokwaneleyo ulwazi. Nge-Intanethi, iiwebhsayithi zokuncokola, umabonwakude okanye ngabahlobo abadala, abantwana banokufunda ngendlela ephosakeleyo ukuba ubuhlobo obusenyongweni nobomi besini buyintoni na. Ngexesha elithile liya kuza kwaye Njengomama okanye utata awunakuzibamba..
Oko kusemandleni akho kukufundisa umntwana wakho iingcamango ezisisiseko ngemfundo yesini. Kuba kulapho kuphela uya kukwazi ukonwabela umzimba wakho ngendlela enoxanduva. mfundise Ziziphi iingozi zokungasebenzisi ukhuseleko, baphathe amaqabane abo ngovelwano nokuhlonela izigqibo zabanye. Kwakhona bamele bafunde ukuyinyamekela impilo yabo ukuze banandiphe ubuhlobo ngokufanelekileyo.
Fundisa ukupheka ngaphambi kokufikisa
Ngaphambili, amantombazana ayefundiswa ukuba ngabafazi bamakhaya; esikolweni ayefunda ukupheka, ukuthunga okanye ukugcina indlu icocekile. Into namhlanje ngethamsanqa eye yaphela ingasetyenziswa, kodwa isabalulekile kubomi babantwana. Ngaphandle kocalucalulo olusekelwe kwisini, kuba amakhwenkwe namantombazana kuya kufuneka azihoye ngokufanayo.
Ukubafundisa imiba esisiseko yasekhaya okanye indlela yokupheka zizifundo eziya kubanceda balawule ubomi babo babantu abadala kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, bazikhathalele. Kwaye awukwazi nje ukubafundisa ukupheka izitya ezilula, banokufunda ukukhetha ukutya okulungileyo, ukuya khetha iimveliso ezifanelekileyo kwivenkile enkulu kwaye ulawule uqoqosho lwakho lwasekhaya.
Lawula imali yakho
Ukufunda ukuphatha imali akulula kwaye abantwana abaninzi bayifumanisa ngeyona ndlela imbi kakhulu. Ngoko ke, bafundise ukuxabiseka kwemali Sisifundo esisisiseko ngaphambi kokuba ufikelele kwishumi elivisayo. Ngemisebenzi emincinane ephathiswe abantwana, kuxhomekeka kwiminyaka yabo namandla abo, banokuqalisa ukufumana iminikelo emincinane yemali abamele bafunde ukuyilawula.
Bafundise ukuba kubiza malini ukonga de babe nemali efunekayo yokuthenga loo nto bayifunayo. Kodwa kwakhona bamele bafunde ukuba abanakuba nayo yonke into yaye xa ixesha lifika, kuya kufuneka bakhethe phakathi kwento enye okanye enye, kuba imali ayinasiphelo kodwa yiminqweno. Ngoko, Baya kufunda ukulawula ukudandatheka ngaphambi kokuba bafikelele ekuqoleni, kuba imali ngokungathandabuzekiyo ingumthombo omkhulu wonxunguphalo nakweyiphi na iminyaka.
Ezi zizinto nje ezimbalwa onokuzifundisa umntwana wakho ngaphambi kokuba afikise, kodwa zininzi ngakumbi. Imiba eya kubanceda baphile ngendlela enoxanduva, kodwa nokulawula iimeko ezinzima abangasoloko beyazi indlela yokusingatha. Lungiselela abantwana bakho ukuba babe ngabantu abadala abasebenzayo kwaye uya kuba noxolo lwengqondo bayazi ukuba bakulungele ukuphuma baye ehlabathini.