Ukulwa kunye nokuxabana neqabane lakho yinto enokuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo njengeqhelekileyo, iziqhamo zemihla ngemihla. Oku kunokunceda isibini sikhule kwaye somelele ngakumbi. Nangona kunjalo, kukho inani lezihloko ekungafuneki ukuba kuxoxwe ngazo njengoko zinokonakalisa ubudlelwane ngokwabo.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo sikubonisa uthotho lwezihloko ekungafuneki ukuba izibini zixoxe ngazo.
Ukungabikho kwexesha kunye nomsebenzi okanye izifundo
Ukuba kwisikolo esipheleleyo okanye ukuya emsebenzini, ucinga utshintsho olubalulekileyo kwiishedyuli ngaphakathi kwesi sibini. Kuqhelekile ukuba ngenxa yoxanduva oluthile olunxulumene nomsebenzi okanye izifundo, zibangela ukuba ukuhlala kunye kuguqulwe kwaye esi sibini asichithi ixesha lasimahla ababenalo ngaphambili ngaphambi kokufumana ixesha elingakumbi. Into elungileyo kukuba uhlale phantsi kwingxoxo kunye nokuthetha kwaye ujonge esona sisombululo sisiso.
Phuma nabahlobo
Ukuba neqabane akuthethi ukuchitha iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku kunye. Iqela ngalinye kufuneka libe nendawo yalo kwaye kulungile ukuphuma nabahlobo amaxesha ngamaxesha. Kubalulekile ukuthembeka kwaye wenze wonke umntu ukuba aphume nabahlobo amaxesha ngamaxesha. Yinto nje yokuba nexesha elincinci lokuzonwabisa apho ungonwabela khona izinto ngaphandle kwesibini.
Umona malunga namaqabane angaphambili
Wonke umntu unokudlulileyo kwaye akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuqhubeka nokuba nobudlelwane obuhle kunye namaqabane asuka ngaphambili. Umona kumaqabane ethu wangaphambili usekukhanyeni kwemini kwaye uhlala ukhokelela kwimilo nakwiimpikiswano kubudlelwane obuninzi namhlanje. Eli khwele liya kuhlala likho kwaye yinto eqhelekileyo. Kukulungele ukuthetha neqabane lakho kwaye ubathembe ngokupheleleyo.
Ukulwa ngemali
Imali ngumba oya kuhlala uvelisa impikiswano kunye neengxabano kwisibini. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba nihlale phantsi nithethe kancinci malunga nemali. Ukuba uthetha ngayo yonke into kwaye ubeke iziseko zolawulo lwezoqoqosho, Imilo emininzi kunye neengxaki kwiqabane likabani ziya kuthintelwa.
Umsebenzi wasekhaya
Imisebenzi yasekhaya kufuneka kwabelwane ngayo ngokulinganayo ukuze kungabikho namnye kuni onzakaliswayo. Akunakuba kukuba elinye lamaqela kubudlelwane angenzi nto kwaye elinye lenza yonke into. Unxibelelwano kunye nothethathethwano ngumba ophambili xa kuziwa ekuqinisekiseni ukuba ikhaya alisiyo ingxabano rhoqo kunye nesiqhelo.
Ngamafutshane, ukungena kubudlelwane nomnye umntu kuthetha ukungavumelani nayo yonke into kwaye ngenxa yoko, iimpikiswano ezithile zinokuvela amaxesha ngamaxesha. Ingxaki koku kukuba ungquzulwano alunakuvela kunaniselwano lokuqala ngenxa yokuvuna nje kunye nemicimbi engabalulekanga. Kungumsebenzi wabo bobabini abantu ukuba bakwazi ukuthetha izinto kancinci kancinci kwaye bazame nangayiphi na indlela ukungadali ungquzulwano olunokubangela iingxaki ezinkulu phakathi kwesibini.