Intlungu yentliziyo ayisosidlo sencasa elungileyo nakubani na kwaye Luloyiko olugqithisileyo lokuba lowo umthandayo uya kuphelisa ubudlelwane, ngaphandle kokukwazi ukwenza nantoni na malunga nayo. Ayisiyondawo ilula, ngakumbi ukuba uyaqhubeka nokuziva into ngalo mntu. Inokwenzeka kwakhona into yokuba intliziyo ebuhlungu ihlupheke nguwe kwaye ayisaziva nto ngomnye umntu. Ujongene nokufika kwentliziyo ebuhlungu, kuhlala kuphela ukwamkela imeko kwaye uphinde wakhe ubomi kwakhona okanye ugcine ithemba ukuze yonke into ibuyele kwindlela eyayingayo ngaphambili.
Abantu abaninzi bayathandabuza ukubona inyani nokuba akucebisi, kuba kungcono kakhulu ukwamkela iinyani kwaye uzame ukuya phambili mihla le. Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha nawe ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukwaphuka kwentliziyo emntwini kwaye kufuneka kwenziwe ntoni ngayo.
Imvakalelo eyoyikekayo yentliziyo ebuhlungu
Akukho mntu uthanda ukuziva elusizi enyameni yabo, ngakumbi xa kusithiwa uthando alufuneki kwaye omnye umntu akaziva ngokufanayo. Akululanga kwaphela ukucinga ukuba uthando neqabane lakho lwalulolona lufanelekileyo, ngelixa enyanisweni lwalungenanto kwaye lungenazo zonke iintlobo zeemvakalelo.
Bajongane nokufika kwentliziyo ebuhlungu, abantu abaninzi abayamkeli le meko kwaye bagqibela ngokwenza umhlaba ofanayo, ogcwele intelekelelo apho uthando oluphindaphindwayo ludlala indima ebalulekileyo. Amaxesha okonwaba nothando lwenene ayenziwa kunye nesibini esinceda ukufihla into eyinyani ebukhali. Oku akucebisi konke konke, kuba inyani yahlukile kwaye umonakalo wentliziyo unokuba mkhulu kakhulu. Akukho senzo sokwenza umhlaba ofanayo apho ukwaphuka kwentliziyo kugqunywe ngokupheleleyo.
Uthando lwenene luyinkimbinkimbi kwaye lunzima
Thanda kwaye uthandwe ngokwenene, Akukho lula konke konke kwaye kwabanye abantu kunokuba nzima. Nangona kunjalo, ngokungafaniyo nokwenzekayo xa usentlungwini, uthando lokwenyani luyinyani kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba ubhenele kwingcinga xa usonwabela. Uthando lokwenyani lunokuba yinyani yokwenyani kubantu abaninzi kuba bexakekile yile nto, bekhetha ukungabikho kothando kunye nokuphila kwihlabathi elingelilo elokwenyani, eligcwele intelekelelo esulungekileyo.
Kubo nabuphi na ubuhlobo obufanele ityuwa yabo, uthando kufuneka luyinyani kwaye luyinyani kuba ngale ndlela, Intlalontle iveliswa ngaphakathi kwesi sibini sibanceda ukuba bomelele kwaye baqhubeke ngokuhamba kwexesha. Intlungu ebuhlungu ayincedi ubudlelwane ukuba bomelele, into ebalulekileyo kuso nasiphi na isibini.
Ngamafutshane, zimbalwa izinto ezinzima kobu bomi njengokuthandana nomntu kunye nokuba neentliziyo ezoyikekayo zivele ngesiquphe. Yimvakalelo emfiliba ngakumbi umntu othandana okanye ove into ngomnye umntu. Ukujongana noku, ayikho enye into ngaphandle kokwamkela inyani kunye nokuzama ukufumana uthando lwenene komnye umntu.