Yamkela ubuhenyu bomlingani; Yinto edla ngokuchaphazela abantu abaninzi ngendlela ephawulekayo. Iimpendulo kwisityholo sokungathembeki kweqabane zinokwahluka kwaye zizo zonke iintlobo: ukusuka kumnqweno onamandla wokuziphindezela kwiqabane ukuya kwimvakalelo enkulu yomsindo.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha ngokweenkcukacha ngendlela umntu asabela ngayo ngenxa yokungathembeki kweqabane.
Izinto ezinempembelelo xa usabele kukungathembeki
Umntu ngamnye lihlabathi, ngoko ke ayinguye wonke umntu osabela ngendlela efanayo kwisenzo sokungathembeki sesi sibini. Umntu unokuziva kakubi ngokwenene malunga nokubandezeleka kokungathembeki ngokweemvakalelo kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, uxolele iqabane yi Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini ngamaxesha athile.
Ubuntu bungundoqo kwaye bubalulekile xa ujongene nokungathembeki. Abo bantu bazithembayo kunye nokuzithemba okuqinileyo baya kuchacha ngokukhawuleza kunabanye abangazithembiyo.
Ukuziphindezela kwisenzo sokungathembeki
Kukho abantu abaninzi abakhetha ukuziphindezela, xa bejongene nokungathembeki okubandezelekayo kwesi sibini. Kuphela kwendlela yokubuyisela ukuzithemba okubuhlungu. Ukuziphindezela sisenzo esingekavuthwa ngokupheleleyo sokujongana nokungathembeki okubangelwa sesi sibini.
Ngesenzo sokuziphindezela, injongo kukulimaza isibini kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwaye ukukwazi ukuthomalalisa umsindo womsindo oqhelekileyo wesenzo sokungathembeki. Yindlela yokuthomalalisa intlungu eye yafunyanwa ngulo mntu ngenxa yenyaniso elula yokwazi ukuba isibini siye saphula ukuthembana okwakukho kulwalamano.
Isidingo sokukhangela umoni xa ejongene nokungathembeki
Isenzo sokungathembeki nokuba singokweemvakalelo okanye ngokwesondo luhlaselo oluthe ngqo kukhuseleko kunye nokuzithemba komntu owenzakeleyo. Oku kubangela ukuba kukhangelwe ngoko nangoko umenzi-bubi njengendlela yokuzikhusela kumonakalo owenziweyo.
Ubutyala bunokusebenza ngexesha elifutshane, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha ingqumbo neentlungu ziya kuzuza umhlaba kulo mntu ukhohliweyo. Into ebalulekileyo kukufumana izizathu ezibangele ukungathembeki okunjalo kwaye uziqonde ngaphezu kokuqonda ukuze uphilise amanxeba ngokukhawuleza.
Yeyiphi eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokusabela ekungathembekeni kweqabane?
Into ebalulekileyo kuyo nayiphi na imeko kukuba isenzo esichaphazelekayo yenza umntu oqhathiweyo azive kamnandi. Ukuba ukhetha ukuxolela iqabane lakho, kufuneka ukwenze oko ngenyaniso nangokunyaniseka. Umntu ongathembekanga umele aguquke ngokwenene aze azabalazele ukuphinda aphinde amthembe. Le yinto ethatha ixesha elide kodwa ngomonde kunye nomdla inokubuyiselwa kwakhona.
Kwimeko yokungaxoleli ukungathembeki okukhankanywe ngasentla, kuhle ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ngendlela ephilileyo. de baloyise olo hlaselo lokuthenjwa kwesibini. Ukuziphindezela ayilombono ulungileyo kuba ekuhambeni kwexesha kubangela umonakalo weemvakalelo ekunzima ukuwunqoba. Ixesha kunye nomonde zingundoqo xa kufikwa ekukwazini ukoyisa isenzo esinjalo kunye nokukwazi ukuqhawula amaqhina athandanayo esi sibini. Kwezinye iimeko kuyacetyiswa ukuba uye kwingcali ekwaziyo ukusombulula ingxaki enjalo.
Ngamafutshane, ukufumanisa ukungathembeki kweqabane akukho lula kuye nabani na kwaye Indlela abasabela ngayo kuyo ayifani kubo bonke abantu. Ubuntu kunye nokuzithemba kunye nokuqola kuya kuphawula iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokusabela ukungathembeki. Akuncedi nganto ukutyhola omnye umntu okanye ukwenza impindezelo ukuze ulenzakalisa. Kulungile ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ngendlela ephilileyo kwaye uguqule iphepha ngeyona ndlela ingcono.