Ukuba uneqabane elizinzileyo kwaye awufuni ukuba nomntwana, kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kuqala ukuthatha iipilisi zokulawula inzala, ngakumbi ukuba ufuna ukwabelana ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga. Nangona isizathu sokuthatha iipilisi ezinokuqonda sinokuya ngaphaya komnqweno wokungakhulelwa. Kukho oogqirha abanokuyalela iipilisi zolawulo lokuzalwa ukuze zilawule intlungu yexesha kunye nokopha. (Ukopha kakhulu kunokubangela i-anemia), ukunqanda iingxaki zolusu, njl.
Ngokusetyenziswa kweepilisi zokuthintela ukukhulelwa ekuhambeni kwexesha awuyi kuthintela kuphela ukuba ngumntwana, kodwa unako cinezela ukuqhuba kwakho ngokwesondo.
Kutheni le nto inokunciphisa umnqweno wesini
Ukunqongophala kwe-libido kunye nokusetyenziswa kweepilisi zokuthintela ukukhulelwa kunolwalamano olusondele kakhulu kunokuba sikholelwa kwinyanga ezidlulileyo. Iqela labaphandi abavela kwiYunivesithi yaseBoston yeSikolo sezoNyango kwaye lapapashwa kwiphephancwadi "Ijenali yamayeza ezesondo", bafikelele kwisigqibo sokuba abo basebenzisa le ndlela yokuthintela ukukhulelwa basengozini yokuncitshiswa komnqweno wabo wesondo.
Oku kungenxa yokuba iipilisi zivelisa ukwehla kwehomoni ejongene nomnqweno wesini- i-testosterone-, engafumanekiyo xa ichiza limisiwe. Olu phononongo lwenziwe kwabasetyhini abayi-124 abanesifo sokungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo apho isiqingatha sabo bathatha ipilisi yokuthintela ukukhulelwa, i-39 yayimile kwaye i-23 yayingazange iyithathe.
Iziphumo zolu phando zibonise ukuba abo bathatha izinto zokucwangcisa ngomlomo babenamanqanaba asezantsi e-testosterone. kwaye phantse amaxesha ama-4 ngaphezulu kwe-SHBG (i-hormone yesondo ebopha i-globulin) ithathela ingqalelo abo bafazi bangazange babangenise. Ngokwabo, abasetyhini ababenqumamisa unyango babenamanqanaba e-SHGB amanqanaba ama-2 aphezulu kunalawo angazange azithathe izinto zokucwangcisa.
Ukusuka koku kulandela ukuba amanqanaba e-SHBG akaqheleki xa ipilisi imisiwe, ekhokelela kumanqanaba asezantsi kakhulu e-testosterone, oko kubangela ukwehla komnqweno wesini.
Mhlawumbi ziziphumo ebezingalindelekanga
Kodwa umzimba ngamnye lihlabathi, kwaye abantu basetyhini banokuba nezimvo ezahlukeneyo ngokubhekisele kule datha ngaphandle kwesifundo endisandul 'ukukhankanya. Apha ngezantsi ndiza kukubhengeza ubungqina bomnye wabasebenzisana nathi:
“Ukuthetha nabahlobo bam malunga noku (nokuba sonke sithatha izinto zokucwangcisa ngomlomo) siyazibuza ukuba kutheni oogqirha bezifo zabasetyhini bengayiboni njengempembelelo. Batsho ukuba iziphumo zeepilisi zisebenza ngokwahlukileyo kumfazi ngamnye kwaye kukho ezinye ezinciphisa umnqweno wabo wesini, ngelixa abanye bengenzi njalo. "
Kwabasetyhini abangaziyo ukuba amayeza akwipilisi yothintelo lisebenza njani, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba izinto zokucwangcisa zenziwa zihomoni zesini sabasetyhini. Enye yeziphumo kukuba kuthintela ukuveliswa kwe-androgens, kubandakanya ne testosterone, kwii-ovari zabasetyhini. I-Androgens inefuthe ngqo kulonwabo lwesenzo sesondo.
Ukuba uthatha izinto zokucwangcisa kwaye uqaphele ukwehla komnqweno wesini, musa ukuyeka ukuzithatha. Dibana nogqirha wakho ugqirha ukuze ubone ezinye iindlela zokuthintela ukukhulelwa.
Iimvakalelo zibalulekile nazo
Kukho oogqirha abaninzi abaphikisayo ukuba iimvakalelo zikwadlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu kwiminqweno yesini kwaye ayizizo iipilisi zokulawula inzala kuphela ezinokunciphisa umnqweno wesini. Iingxaki zemood kunye neengxaki zovakalelo neqabane zibaluleke kakhulu kwi-libido Kunotshintsho oluncinci kumanqanaba e testosterone anikezelwa yipilisi.
Kubafazi abaninzi, kulula ukubeka ityala kwiipilisi zolawulo lokuzalwa ngokusilela komnqweno wesini kunokujonga ezinye, izinto ezingokweemvakalelo ezinokuba nzima ukuzifaka ngaphakathi. Kuyenzeka ukuba xa kukho iingxaki zeemvakalelo kubudlelwane, umnqweno wesini ulahlekile kancinci kancinci.
Kunzima kumfazi ukwahlulahlula iingxaki zakhe zeemvakalelo kwisini Ke ukuba awuphilanga neqabane lakho, kunokwenzeka ukuba ungaziva unomdla kwisini. Ukongeza, abasetyhini abangoomama kwaye abaziva bengathandeki kuba bengenalo ixesha lokunxiba ngendlela abafuna ngayo, banokuziva ukuba le nkanuko yesini ilahlekile ... kodwa inyani kukuba umfazi uhlala enomtsalane, umtsalane umba wesimo sengqondo!!
Ukuba kufuneka uthathe iipilisi zokulawula ukuzalwa, sukucinga ngale mpembelelo yecala ukuze ungabeki ingqondo yakho kwimeko. Iipilisi zolawulo lokuzalwa ezifana nolawulo lokuzalwa zinokuba nefuthe elikhululekileyo kwisini sowasetyhini. Ukuba awunakhathazeka malunga nokukhulelwa okungafunekiyo, isondo asizukucinezeleka kwaye sizenzekele.
Yintoni onokuyenza malunga nayo
Into yokuqala onokuthi uvavanye ukuyenza kukuya kugqirha wakho ayokujonga ukuba ingaba ziipilisi zokucwangcisa nyhani na ukuze xa kufanelekile anike ezinye iihomoni ezingaphantsi. Kodwa mhlawumbi, eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyigcinile engqondweni kukucinga ukuba ulunge ngokwasemoyeni ngokwaneleyo ukuba ube nakho ukuba nomnqweno olungileyo wesini kunye neqabane lakho.
Isenokuba yipilisi ebangela oku kulahleka kwe-libido okanye inokuba yenye into. Ke kuya kufuneka wenzeni ukuba awukho semdleni? Iingcali ziyavuma ukuba ukufumanisa nokunyanga le ngxaki ngokuchanekileyo, kuya kufuneka ube nencoko ende nogqirha wakho. Umbuzo ophambili onokuzibuza wona ngulo: Ngaba lukhona utshintsho ebomini bakho olukuchaphazeleyo? Ukusuka apho, ungaqala ukuvavanya iimeko ukuze wazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kanye kanye kuwe. Ukuchonga ingxaki sisitshixo sokuchonga unobangela kunye nokujonga esona sisombululo sisiso.
Kodwa ukuba uziqwalasele zonke izinto ezinokubakho kwaye usacinga ukuba ingxaki isenokuba ngenxa yeepilisi zokulawula ukuzalwa, emva koko ungathetha nodokotela wakho wezifo zabasetyhini kwaye uzame enye indlela yolawulo lokuzalwa okwethutyana (ngaphandle kweepilisi zokulawula ukuzalwa). Abantu abaninzi bakhalaza ngokungabikho kwe-libido, kodwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo xa bekwiholide kwaye bezolile ngaphandle kokudinwa, i-libido ihlala ibuya kunye okanye ngaphandle kweepilisi zokulawula ukuzalwa ... ehlekisayo, akunjalo?
Ndizithathile iipilisi iminyaka kunye neminyaka emi-4 eyadlulayo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ndiqaphele ukwehla okukhulu kumnqweno wam wesini, ndiza kudibana nogqirha wam wamabhinqa kuba oku kundizisele iingxaki kunye neqabane lam. Ndiyathemba ukuba uyawathathela ingqalelo amava am, Enkosi
Molo, ndisele iipilisi unyaka, kwaye okoko ndizisele umnqweno wam wesini wehle kakhulu, ndithatha iJazmin, omnye wabahlobo bam wandixelela ukuba kwenzeke into efanayo kuye kodwa emva koko watshintshela kwabanye ingxaki inyamalale, ingaba iyinyani?
Ndipasa ngokufanayo nepilisi zokucwangcisa ezithatha umnqweno endinokuwenza
Ndinexesha elinzima lokufikelela kwi-orgasm kwaye andiziva njengangaphambili
molo ... ndithathe nejasmine ...
Ungandidlulisela enye ipilisi yokuthintela ukukhulelwa ephelisa oku ... kuba i-tmb yenzekile kum ukuba umnqweno wam wesini unciphile.
Ndithathe i-yazmin kangangeminyaka emi-2 kodwa kwenzeka kuMia iinyanga kwaye umahluko wawuphawuleka kakhulu, bendingafuni kwanto edibene nesondo kwaye iqabane lam liyayicaphukela kwaye inyani ikwanje ngokuthanjiswa ngaphandle kokubanakho Ndiziva okanye ndiyonwabele Kubi kakhulu kuba andiziva nantoni na ndiyeke ukuzithatha kwaye ndiza kufumana enye indlela engandichaphazeliyo ngolu hlobo ...
Ndithathe iipilisi iminyaka emi-4 kwaye andinawo umnqweno wesini. Ndiza kubanika kwangoko basele. bayingxaki.
Molo mantombazana, bendithatha i-gestynil iminyaka eyi-3, kwaye kwiinyanga ezimbalwa andifuni ukugcina ubudlelwane neqabane lam, oku kundibangela iingxaki. Ndicinga ukuba zizifo ezichasene nomzimba ngoko ke ndiza kuya kumbelekisi, kodwa ndiyoyika ukubashiya kuba belawule ixesha lam ukongeza ekuthinteleni abasetyhini abakhulelweyo.
Ngo-2008 ndathatha i-cyclomex 20 xa unyaka ndayimisa kuba babemiselwe kuphela ukulawula ixesha, kosa k yayisebenza i-100% kodwa ke xa ndiqala ukuba nobudlelwane, isoka lam laqala ukundikhathalela ngokuqinisekileyo k ekuqaleni khange ayenze kwinyanga elandelayo ... kodwa inkcukacha, ngeli xesha iipilisi bezindikhathalele kuba ixesha belizi km iibhola so ndiye ndaphela ndisiya e gyne. kwaye bazitshintshela kum x i-miranova ... iyaphambana kangakanani le xa ndingazange ndihoye andizange ndive nto kwaye isithandwa sam besiyazi kodwa nangona kunjalo ngaphandle kokuva nantoni na bendisebenza kakhulu ... kuninzi okwenzekileyo kamva molo? Ngamanye amagama, andikho nesiqingatha esisebenzayo njengoko kwakunjalo ngaphambi kokuba ndiqale ukuzikhathalela kwaye yintoni xanta is k aora k Ndino + uvakalelo lokuziva ndinethamsanqa Ndiziva ngathi ngequbuliso ak le iya kwaye i-km inokuphinda isebenze ngokwesondo
Molweni zihlobo, ndineminyaka engama-24 ubudala kwaye ndenza into efanayo, bendithatha i-MINIGINOL phantse iinyanga ezili-11 kwaye umnqweno wam wesini utshintshe ngokupheleleyo umyeni wam mhle kwaye ndiyamthanda ngomphefumlo wam wonke kodwa ayibangeli ukuba neentlobano zesini kundinika iintlungu kuba silusapho oluhle olunomntwana oneenyanga ezili-15 ubudala, kodwa andazi ukuba ndenzeni, ndiyathemba ukuba ukutshintsha izinto zokuthintela ukukhulelwa kuzakutshintsha indlela endivakalelwa ngayo. ebhedini nomyeni wam.IIMIBULISO NATHI NDITHEMBEKA SINGALUFUMANA UNCEDO
Sawubona, kwenzeka into efanayo kum, ngoku ukuba ukuyeka ukuthatha isiphumo akusayi kuhamba, ungayenza njani ukuphakamisa inqanaba le-tetosterone kunye nezinye izinto ukuze uphinde ufumane umnqweno?
Sawubona, kwenzeka into efanayo kum, ngoku ukuba ukuyeka ukuthatha isiphumo akusayi kuhamba, ungayenza njani ukuphakamisa inqanaba le-tetosterone kunye nezinye izinto ukuze uphinde ufumane umnqweno?
Molo mantombazana, ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba kutheni ndibanda kangaka ebhedini, akukaze kwenzeke kum ngaphambili, bendihlala ndibeka iliza elihle kuyo kodwa ihlala ikruqula, andinangqondo kwaye yonke into iyandonyanyisa, ukuba ndiyamthanda umyeni wam , 8 years ago ndisela iipilisi, ndasela uMiranova, ugqirha wam wamazinyo zange andixelele ukuba lento ingenzeka, ndizobashiya, anyway sifuna umntwana soze izondilimaza hehe. Enkosi ngezimvo zakho, awazi ukuba zinceda kangakanani !!
Molo mantombazana, ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba kutheni ndibanda kangaka ebhedini, akukaze kwenzeke kum ngaphambili, bendihlala ndibeka iliza elihle kuyo kodwa ihlala ikruqula, andinangqondo kwaye yonke into iyandonyanyisa, ukuba ndiyamthanda umyeni wam , 8 years ago ndisela iipilisi, ndasela uMiranova, ugqirha wam wamazinyo zange andixelele ukuba lento ingenzeka, ndizobashiya, anyway sifuna umntwana soze izondilimaza hehe. Enkosi ngezimvo zakho, awazi ukuba zinceda kangakanani !!
Molweni mantombazana, ndibuhlungu kakhulu ukuxelela le nto, kodwa inkwenkwe yam ayifuni ukulala nam, ndifuna kakhulu kwaye ndihlala ndikhathazekile. Andicingi ukuba uyandingcatsha, kodwa sineminyaka emi-2 kuphela kwaye sele sihlala kunye kwaye ubukhulu becala siyenza amaxesha ama-2 ukuya kwayi-3 ngeveki kwaye kum incinci kakhulu. Ndimthanda kakhulu kwaye zonke iingxaki esinazo kungenxa yale nto. Ndifuna undixelele ukuba zeziphi iipilisi ezisusa umnqweno kakhulu ukuze ungalahleki. Enkosi….
Ndiyindoda kwaye kwenzeka into eyahlukileyo kum ndiyathemba kobunye ubomi sibabini
Ndiye ndathatha i-norgestrel iminyaka eyi-3 kodwa ingaphantsi, kwaye unyaka kunye nancinci ukuba ndiqaphele oku! Ndifuna ukuyeka ukuzithatha ... kodwa bendisoloko ndingaqhelekanga kwaye ezi pilisi zindincede kakhulu ukuba ndenze rhoqo, uloyiko lwam kukuba xa ndiyeka ukuzithatha kwinyanga elandelayo ayizukuza kum okanye iinyanga ezininzi njengoko injalo yenzeka nabanye abantu! Sele ndinenkwenkwe encinci kwaye andifuni enye! Ziyandityebisa kakhulu kwaye zindenza ndifune ukulala ngesondo ... ndiyeke ntoni ukusela ????
Molo ndingomnye ongaphezulu k uhamba ngexesha elinzima. Ke kwiminyaka emi-2 eyadlulayo ndaye ndathatha iipilisi zokuthintela ukosuleleka eCuba, zibizwa ngokuba yi-Etinor phambi kwezo ndisela iTrienor. Kodwa okwangoku ndiziva k xa ndilala nesithandwa sam akusafani nakuqala. Umnqweno wam wesondo wawuphelile. Ndizama ukuza kodwa nokuba ndizama kangakanani, andikwazi nangayiphi na indlela. UK angayenza. ? Ndicinga ukuba isisombululo kukuyeka ukuthatha iipilisi kwaye uzikhathalele ngekhondom ...
Yiminyaka emibini ndisela iipilisi kwaye ukusukela mzuzu ndizithatha andifuni kwazi kwanto! Khange ndibenawo umnqweno wesondo ... Amaxesha amaninzi kuye kwafuneka ndibize ugqirha kuba bekufana neletisi kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kwexesha. Kwaye bendingahlala endaweni emnyama ndingaveli nakucula nentaka. Ndade ndagqiba ngokuyeka utywala. I-Xq itshintshile amatyeli aliqela. Baye bandibhalela idosi encinci efana ne-kala md Kwaye kananjalo babebiza kwaye ndandibonakala ngathi ndichitha imali lilize kuba bendingenabo ubudlelwane. Mhlawumbi bendinenyanga kanye iinyanga ezili-16 ezidlulileyo ndibashiyile kwaye ngoku ndibuyela esiqhelweni. Ngethamsanqa iqabane lam lihlala livakalisa kwaye liqonda. ... Ingcebiso yam kukugqiba ithebhulethi kwaye ungathathi enye. I-Xq ikwanazo nezinye iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga eziye zaqatshelwa kwiminyaka edlulileyo kwaye kwithemba elifanayo ithi njalo. Amathamsanqa
Molo, ndineminyaka eli-15 kuphela kwaye ngezi zimvo ndifuna ukuba nomhlobo, u-facebook wam nguRosalibert Maria Peralta Alba
Ndiyithathe iinyanga ezi-2 ezidlulileyo kwaye andisenalo naluphi na uhlobo lomnqweno
Into efanayo yenzekile kum, kodwa xa nditshintsha iipilisi. Ndayeka ukubathatha kwaye emva konyaka ongaphezulu kwe-1 umnqweno wam wesini awuzange uphinde uvele. Oogqirha zange bandikholelwe kwaye bacinga ukuba yinto ethile yengqondo; Ndibuze ugqirha wam. Ndenze uvavanyo lwegazi, olubonisa amanqanaba asezantsi e testosterone. Apho baqonda nje ukuba iipilisi ezikum azilunganga kwaye ndafumana i-libido yam ngokufaka ijeli iinyanga ezi-6. Ndiyathemba ukuba uyakubona oku ngexesha, ngaphambi kokuba kuchaphazele ubudlelwane bakho.
Ijeli? luhlobo luni lwejeli? Sichaze kakuhle! ukubona ukuba iyasebenza!
yintoni ijeli ???
Molweni, ndineminyaka engama-22 ubudala kwaye bendithatha u-Epreli kuphela iinyanga ezi-4, phambi kokuba ndiqale ukuzithatha faaaaa ibiyinto yemihla ngemihla nesoka lam ... kodwa bendiqala ngeepilisi nenyaniso, ngamanye amaxesha ngeveki iyahamba kwaye andiziva ngathi ... Nokuba ukundiphuza kwakhe okanye ukuphathaphatha kwakhe akuncedi nto, akunjalo ..: (kwaye ndiyaxolisa kakhulu ngokungakwazi ukumphendula ... kodwa xa ndiziva ngathi akukho nto okanye akukho mntu undinqandayo, ingonyamakazi ingaphakathi iyaphuma kwaye kumntwana wam omncinci uyayithanda, ngaphandle koko uyenza yonke into kum kwaye andinakugqiba… .incopho ithatha ixesha elide ukuyigqiba. … Kwaye ityebe kakhulu !!! Umntu othile undixelela ukuba kutheni kusenzeka kum ngoluhlobo? Iingcali zithi kungenxa yehomoni engena emzimbeni wethu ... bye .. cheers!
Molweni, ndineminyaka engama-22 ubudala kwaye bendithatha iinyanga ezi-4 kuphela zika-Epreli, phambi kokuba ndiqale ukuzithatha faaaaa ibiyinto yemihla ngemihla nesoka lam ... kodwa bendiqala ngeepilisi nenyaniso, ngamanye amaxesha ngeveki iyahamba kwaye andiziva ngathi nokuncamisa kwakhe okanye ukubamba kwakhe akuncedi nto, akunjalo ..: (kwaye ndiyaxolisa kakhulu ngokungakwazi ukumphendula ... kodwa xa ndiziva ngathi .. Akukho nto okanye akukho mntu undinqandayo, ingonyamakazi ingaphakathi iyaphuma kwaye kumntwana wam omncinci uyayithanda, ngaphandle kokuba wenza yonke into kum kwaye andinakugqiba… .incopho indithatha ixesha elide ukuyigqiba… kwaye kunjalo Ndicebile !!! Umntu othile undixelela ukuba kutheni kusenzeka kum ngoluhlobo? Iingcali zithi kungenxa yehormone engena emzimbeni wethu ... hamba.
Ndicinga ukuba ngenxa yokunqongophala komnqweno wesini kuthi. Abasetyhini kufuneka bafundiswe kubugcisa bokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo nangasemva ukuze indoda yethu ingayi kukhangela kwenye indawo, ndiyakholelwa ukuba umfazi ozilungiselele kakuhle uyamkhusela umyeni wakhe kwaye uxabisa amabini okanye amathathu.
Amantombazana abhayayo afumana ukuzinza kwabo ngokwesondo, kwaye kufuneka siqhubeke nokuziphucula kuyo yonke imiba yalo mbandela unzima wokulwa ukukhulelwa.
Ndicinga oku kwiipilisi. ikuko konke. . Ndasela i-qlaira emva koko banditshintshela eamónón. .. kwaye kwiinyanga ezi-3 ezidlulileyo ndiqale ngale ngxaki. . xa umyeni wam endichukumisa andiva nto kwaye kwamthatha ixesha elide ukufikelela kwi-orgasm. . Ndifuna ukuzitshintsha okanye ndibeke i-IUD?
Molweni mantombazana
Ndifuna ukukuxelela ukuba ndingumfana oneminyaka engama-25 ubudala kwaye ndisebenza kakhulu ne-ex yam, sasinobudlelwane amaxesha ama-4 ngosuku kodwa waqala ukuthatha iipilisi kwaye kule minyaka iswelekile, ubudlelwane bethu benzekile kwinqanaba lokuchitha iinyanga ngaphandle kokuba nanto kwaye kwaqala imilo.kwaye sagqiba ngoku ndineqabane elitsha yonke into entle wayehlala nam kuyo yonke into kodwa waqala ngeepilisi ngoku sele simfuna ngaphezulu kweeveki ezi-2 kungekho nto ndimjongayo Indoda ndiyamphekela isipho ndimzisele iintyatyambo ndiyamothusa kodwa inye into andixelela yona kukuxolela njengeengcebiso kubahlobo ukuze amaqabane abo angaqali ngokukopela bafune enye indlela
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Mva kwemini, mantombazana alungileyo, ndicinga ukuba kuzo zonke iipilisi zokuthintela ukukhulelwa, kuba bendizithatha iinyanga eziyi-8 kwaye inyani kukuba ndiwususile umnqweno wokuba nomyeni wam, kodwa inyani yile, andifuni kubhenela ekukhangeleni enye, ukuba kamva, ukukhangela into etyebileyo kuthi sobabini ndifuna ukuba nomnye umntwana ke ukuba akunjalo kuba ndinamakhwenkwe amathathu kwaye sele ndifuna ukumisa umatshini kodwa inyani ikuko konke Iipilisi endiziselayo nge-microginoon zinemvakwemini elungileyo
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-23 ubudala, kwaye bendiceba iipilisi kangangeminyaka emi-5, bendiphulukene nomnqweno wam malunga nonyaka onesiqingatha kwaye sele ndifikile, ugqirha wam wezifo zabasetyhini wandicebisa ukuba ndizitshintshe kwaye ukuba akukho ziphumo kwiinyanga ezi-3 zokukhetha enye indlela.
Kuyinyani ndaye ndasela iipilisi kangangeminyaka emi-4, inyani kukuba andifuni kwanto ndinomlinganiswa ortho haha iiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ndibashiyile .. kwaye kude kube ngoku andikayeki ukuba nobudlelwane neqabane lam. . hahaha kufana nexhala .. Ndamshiya eswelekile ..: p 😀
Ndineminyaka engama-21 ubudala .. Kudala ndithatha iipilisi kangangeminyaka emi-5 .. kwaye inyani kukuba khange zindenze ndifune nto, bendiziva ndityhafile yonke imihla okanye ndifuna ukulala ngesondo .. kunye nomlinganiswa omdaka .. nangaphambili Ndizithathile bendisebenza yonke imihla kusasa nasemini nasebusuku haha 0 kwiiveki ezidlulileyo ndigqibile ibhokisi yam yeepilisi endiye ndagqiba ekubeni ndiyeke ukuzisela kuba ziyandigulisa ... ngoku ndiyazikhathalela ngekhondom .. .Kwaye yonke into yabuyela ekwenzeni njengangaphambili ndaziva ngathi ndiyingonyamakazi hahaha Felizzz and hormone free…. : p
Ndithathe izinto zokucwangcisa ngomlomo iminyaka emi-3 kwaye ndiye ndabona ngokucacileyo ukuba umnqweno wam wokuba neentlobano zesini uncitshisiwe kakhulu ... umnqweno ... kodwa kufuneka ndiqhubeke nokuzikhathalela… kwinyanga elandelayo ndiza kuqala ukuthatha ipildra kwakhona.
Molweni nonke! ngethamsanqa ayindim ndedwa! Ndithathe iipilisi zolawulo lokuzalwa malunga nonyaka onesiqingatha .. hayi ngaphezulu..kuba indizisele ukutshintsha kwemood kunye neentloko..kwaye ke ngaphandle kokulahleka komnqweno wesini ...
Khange ndithathe naluphi na uhlobo lwepilisi iminyaka emi-3 kwaye khange iphucuke .. Ndiyalithanda iqabane lam kwaye ndiyathanda ukuba naye ngalo lonke ixesha .. kodwa xa kufikwa kubudlelwane .. Ndiziva ndinetyala kakhulu kuba andazi umlahle ..ndaye indizisela iingxaki ezininzi .. uqinisekile uyandiqonda
Xa ndibonisana nodokotela wam wamazinyo, wandixelela ukuba oku kuya kuphucula ngokuhamba kwexesha ... kuba andisafumani naluphi na uhlobo lwehomoni ... kodwa andiphindi ndibenomdla wesondo! Ngaba ukhona umntu owaziyo ukuba ikhona indlela yokufana ngaphambili? Ndilangazelela kuba esi sisihloko esidandathekisayo kakhulu ... kunye neqabane lam kananjalo kuba ngamanye amaxesha uziva ukuba andiziva ndinomdla kuye ... kodwa amadoda awayiqondi indlela esivakalelwa ngayo ngotshintsho oluninzi lwehomoni. enkosi ngokufunda .. ndiyalamkela ingcebiso!
Molweni, ndineminyaka engama-21 ubudala, malunga nonyaka ophelileyo, ndaqala ukusela iipilisi kwaye zandisebenzela kuba ukuya exesheni kwehlile ngokunjalo ne-colic, eyona nto imbi kukuba umnqweno wam wesini uyehla, ndiyekile ukuwathatha ixesha kodwa ndiziva ngathi andikwazi ukuphinda ndibuye apho ndiziva ndingenamnqweno wesini okanye nantoni na, ngaba omnye umntu uziva ngokufanayo?