Ubudlelwane obubini, njengoko kwenzeka kulo lonke ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu, isenokuntsokotha ngandlel’ ithile. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba yonke into ihambe kakuhle kwaye iqhina liqiniswa umhla nezolo okanye iintshaba ezithile zingene ezithi ngokuthe ngcembe ziwohloke ulwalamano olukhankanywe ngasentla.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo sithetha ngezizathu eziqhelekileyo okanye izizathu zokuba kutheni ubudlelwane bunokuphikisana kunye ukuba banokugqiba ngayo.
Unxibelelwano olubi
Unxibelelwano alunakusilela kwisibini. ekubeni iyintsika esisiseko esisekelwe kuyo. Amalungu abalulekileyo esi sibini kufuneka aveze indlela abaziva ngayo ngamaxesha onke kwaye ukuba oku akwenzeki, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba imilo neengxabano ziqale ekuhambeni kwexesha. Kuhle ukuba intlalo-ntle yesi sibini sihlale ngokuzolileyo nangokukhululekileyo size sichaze indlela ovakalelwa ngayo.
Ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo
Olunye utshaba lwesibini kukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ulonwabo lukabani ngalo lonke ixesha luxhomekeke komnye umntu. Ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo kubangela ukuba ubudlelwane obunempilo kunye nesibini bube yityhefu. Uthando kwisibini kufuneka lukhululeke kwaye lungabikho naluphi na uhlobo lwamaqhina.
Ukuphathwa ngokweemvakalelo
Ukulawulwa ngokweemvakalelo yenye yeentshaba ezinkulu zesibini. Kwimeko enjalo, omnye wamaqela kubudlelwane wamkela uthotho lwetyala ukuze agcine iqabane lisondele kubo. Oku kukhohlisa kunobudlelwane obuthe ngqo kunye nokuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo okubonwa ngasentla. Akunakunyamezela phantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko ukuba omnye wamaqabane atshatileyo asebenzise ukulawulwa ngokweemvakalelo ukuze abe nolawulo lomnye umntu.
Ukungabi nethemba
Ukuthembana, kunye nonxibelelwano oluhle, yenye yeentsika eziphambili kwesi sibini. Ukungathembeki komnye umntu kubangela ukuba ubudlelwane bube buthathaka ngokuthe ngcembe. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukungabikho kokuzithemba kubonakala ngenxa yobuxoki obusetyenziswa ngomnye wamaqela esi sibini rhoqo.
Umona
Kulo naliphi na isibini, ikhwele elithile lendalo linokwenzeka elingenabungozi ubudlelwane obukhankanywe ngasentla. Ingxaki enkulu kunye nabo kukuba banyanzelekile kunye nomona we-pathological. Olu hlobo lomona luyintshaba enkulu kuyo nayiphi na ubudlelwane kwaye ngumthombo weengxabano kunye nokulwa okutshabalalisa.
Ngamafutshane, Akukho mntu wathi ubuhlobo yinto elula. Lulwalamano phakathi kwabantu ababini apho kufuneka bagwebe ngokuqhubekayo bexhasa ukuzuza impilo-ntle ethile kunye nolonwabo. Kukho uluhlu lwezinto ezimele zibekho ukuze ubudlelwane bungabi buthathaka, njengentlonipho, ukuthembana, unxibelelwano okanye uthando. Ngokuchaseneyo noko, kuyafuneka ukuba kuthintelwe iintshaba ezithile ukuba zingaveli kuba zinokubangela iingxabano ezingazuzi nto kwikamva elihle lesi sibini kwaphela.