Ngaba uyaphawula ukuba inkxalabo ngeKrismesi ikhula kakhulu? Nanini na xa le mihla isondela, siphawula imvakalelo emzimbeni wethu mhlawumbi engenakusoloko ichazwa. Nangona kubantwana abancinci endlwini yenye yezona zihlandlo ezifunwa kakhulu, kuba zincinci, azikho kakhulu ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo.
Akusoloko kusisizathu sokubhiyoza okanye uvuyo, okwahlukileyo koko. Ikhuthaza iinkumbulo, usizi kunye noxinzelelo lwesidlo sangokuhlwa, kunye neminye imiba, ethatha ingqondo yakho ngakumbi nangakumbi.. Ngesi sizathu, sikushiya neengcebiso ezifanelekileyo kunye namanyathelo ekufuneka uwasebenzise ukunqanda ukuba noxinzelelo kakhulu ngale mihla.
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Cwangcisa yonke into ukususela ngoku
Kuyinyani ukuba kukho izinto esizishiyayo de kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela. Kuba asisoloko sinexesha elifanayo, kodwa kufuneka sicinge ngokucwangcisa yonke into ukususela ngoku ukuya phambili. Ungayishiyi kwakhona, kuba kamva kuya kwenza ixesha lakho linciphise kwaye uxinzelelo lukhule ngokupheleleyo. Ke, cinga ngokuthenga okufuneka ukwenze kwaye ufumane indawo yonke imihla ukuze uzinikele kuyo. Andithethi ngezipho kuphela kodwa ndithetha nangemihombiso kwanokutya osenokuba sele umkhenkce. Konke oku kukwangaphambili kwaye akufuneki uchithe iintsuku zokugqibela kwimigca emide yokulinda!
isitulo esingenanto
Lelinye lawona maxesha amabi kakhulu ekufuneka sijongane nawo. Kaloku ezi ntsuku zisisithethe, ukuba nosapho kwaye akusoloko kusenzeka oko kuba ubomi buthatha abo bantu babalulekileyo kuwe. Akulula, kodwa akubobulumko ukubaleka intlungu. Ungathetha ngayo nabanye abantu abakunye nawe, uyeke iimvakalelo zakho kodwa uhlale usigcina eso mbeko sisondele kumntu ongekhoyo. Zama ukuba ungawunqandi umbandela, kusoloko kulula ukuwuphakamisa kwaye uwukhuphe, nokuba usebuhlungu.
Gcina inkqubo yakho yesiqhelo kangangoko kunokwenzeka
Kuyinyani ukuba awunakukwazi ukubaleka ezo zidlo kunye nokutya kunye nabahlobo okanye usapho. Kodwa lonke usuku okanye iintsuku, zama ukugcina inkqubo yakho yesiqhelo. Yindlela yokuba ingqondo iqhubeke ithembele kuyo ukuze ingaphulukani nolawulo. Ke, khumbula ukuba nokuba uneentsuku zokuphumla, ukuba ungomnye wabo bahambahambayo yonke imihla okanye oololiwe iiyure ezimbalwa, kufuneka uqhubeke. Okokuqala, kuba kuya kuba kuhle kakhulu engqondweni yakho kwaye, ewe, kunye nomzimba wakho kunye nokugqithisa okuseza kubakho. Khumbula ukuba lixesha elilungileyo lokwenza umthambo wokuphefumla okanye uqalise uqheliselo olufana nokuNgqondo.
Hlala unombulelo ngento onayo
Njengoko besesitshilo ngaphambili, iinkumbulo ziyagcwala kule mihla kwaye zihlala zibuhlungu kakhulu. Kodwa kufuneka sizame ukutshintsha imbono yethu imizuzu embalwa kwaye sibe nombulelo ngento onayo, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo ininzi. Zama ukudibana nabantu oqhele ukubabona, kuba kusoloko kuphefumla umoya omtsha oza kunceda ebomini bakho. Kodwa khumbula ukuba akufuneki unike ingqwalasela eninzi kwiingcinga zakho, ngakumbi xa bengenanto entle. Ke ngoko, kufuneka uqalise ukukwamkela ukuxhalaba njengento ekukhusela ngokwenene kwaye engenzi monakalo kuwe, nokuba ibonakala ichasene.
Ukuze unciphise ukuxhalaba ngeKrisimesi, kwaye ekupheleni konyaka, kuhlala kuluvo oluhle lokunciphisa kancinci. Oku kuguqulela kwixesha lomntu okanye kwisiqu sakho. Kuba siyifuna ngaphezu kokuba sicinga. Unokuhamba uhambo, uhlambe ixesha elide okanye umamele umculo owuthandayo. Into oyifunayo kakhulu, ekuphumzayo kwaye ikwenza ubone izinto ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ngaba unexhala ngeKrisimesi?
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