Uninzi lwabantu olunamaqabane okanye abathandanayo, yazi xa isempilweni naxa inokuba yityhefu. Ukuba ngelishwa oku kuyenzeka, kubalulekile ukuba wazi ukuba ungaluchonga njani ukuba loluphi uhlobo lobudlelwane obunetyhefu, ukwazi indlela yokwenza nento ekufuneka uyenze ukuze umonakalo weemvakalelo ungabikho kakhulu.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha ngeentlobo ezintathu zobudlelwane obunetyhefu ezingacetyiswayo, ukuze ubaphelise ngokukhawuleza.
Ukungcungcuthekiswa ngokweemvakalelo
Ukungcungcuthekiswa ngokweemvakalelo bobunye bobudlelwane obunetyhefu phaya. Ngolo tyando, elinye iqabane lidlala neemvakalelo zelinye iqela kwaye Ngale ndlela uphantsi kolawulo ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuba uthando alukho kwaye luhlobo loxhatshazo olungavumelekanga phantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko. Ngolo hlobo lokuxhaphaza, umntu ophethwe gadalala usokola ukukhutshwa yimvakalelo ekufuneka imiswe ngokukhawuleza.
Ubuxoki kulwalamano
Olunye uhlobo lobudlelwane obunetyhefu obenzeka kakhulu namhlanje kukuba lusekwe kubuxoki. Sebenzisa zonke iintlobo zobuxoki nenkohliso, elinye lamaqabane liyakwazi ukuba nayo yonke into ilawulwe ngokugqibeleleyo. Awunakuhlala kubudlelwane apho ubuxoki bukukhanya kwemini. Kuyinyani ukuba inkohliso engaqhelekanga inokuxolelwa kodwa ukuba iyaphazamiseka, esi sibini siza kutshabalala ekugqibeleni. Khumbula ukuba kubudlelwane obuphilileyo, ukuthembana nenyaniso kufuneka zibekhona maxa onke ukuze ikhule ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Ubundlobongela kwesi sibini
Ukuba lixhoba rhoqo yenye indlela yokwenza ulwalamano lube yityhefu. Ngelixhoba sele likhankanyiwe, umntu uyakwazi ukusebenzisa iqabane lakhe ngalo lonke ixesha, ukufumana yonke into ayifunayo. Kubudlelwane obuthathwa njengobusempilweni, akunakubakho xhoba lelinye lamaqela.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni ngezi ntlobo zobudlelwane bunetyhefu
Ayisiyonto intsha ukuba ithi ubudlelwane obunetyhefu bukukhanya kwemini kwaye Baninzi abantu abangaziyo ukuba bazele ngokupheleleyo kolu hlobo lobudlelwane. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kubalulekile ukuba uchonge uhlobo lobudlelwane obunetyhefu kwaye ukusuka apho, wenze ngokukhawuleza okukhulu. Into yokuqala ekufuneka ayenzile umntu ophethwe gadalala kukuhlala phantsi kunye neqabane lakhe, bamisele uthotho lwemida kulwalamano olunjalo. Awunakuvumela ukuba kwisibini akukho nto yentlonipho okanye ukuthembana.
Kubalulekile ukuba umntu onetyhefu aqonde maxa onke ukuba le nto ayenzayo ayilunganga kwaphela kwaye kufuneka atshintshe ngendlela engqwabalala. Ukuba ngaphandle kwezilumkiso kunye nemida, ityhefu isekhona, Lixesha lokophula ubudlelwane kwaye ungaqhubeki nomnye umntu. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuzijonga kwaye uzikhathalele kwinqanaba leengqondo kunye neemvakalelo.