Kunqabile ukuba umntu ongazange enze impambano ethile okanye ubudenge bothando ngaxa lithile ebomini bakhe. Inyani yeyokuba uthando lusibekele ngokupheleleyo isizathu kwaye asikhathali konke konke ukwenza ezo zinto ziphambeneyo nokuba zithini na iziphumo. Noko ke, kuhle ukufunda kwiimpazamo ezenziweyo ukuze ulwalamano lwexesha elizayo lube lolwanelisa ngakumbi ngazo zonke iindlela.
Ke ngoko, kulungile ukwenza iimpazamo kwaye wenze impazamo kwintsimi yothando kuba oku kunceda ubudlelwane bube nesiqhamo ngakumbi ngandlela zonke kwixesha elizayo. kwinqaku elilandelayo Sithetha ngothotho lweempazamo ezenziwa ngabantu abaninzi abathandanayo.
Akucaci ukuba ufuna ntoni
Abantu abaninzi abaqondi ukuba bafuna ntoni xa beqala ubudlelwane obuthile. Uziyeka ahambe engajonganga mbuyekezo. Kucetyiswa ukuseka uluhlu lweenjongo kunye neenjongo kwaye ucace malunga nento oyifunayo xa uqala ubudlelwane.
yenza iqabane libe bhetele
Kuqhelekile ukuba ekuqaleni kokuthandana kukho ukuthambekela kokwenza ngcono umntu othandekayo. Zizo zonke iimpawu kwaye akukho hlobo lwesiphene kumntu othandekayo. Xa uqala ubudlelwane obuthile nomntu, kufuneka uyibeke ecaleni le ngcamango ikhankanywe ngasentla kwaye uthandane nomntu njengoko enjalo ngokwenene.
Ukuba neqabane ukuphepha isithukuthezi
Ukuqala ubudlelwane obuthile ukuze ubalekele isithukuthezi akucebisi, kuba ekuhambeni kwexesha iziphumo zalo zinokuba yingozi kwaye zibe yingozi. Isibini asinakuba sisicombululo kwiingxaki zeemvakalelo nezengqondo esinazo.
Ibonakala ngokwahlukileyo ukuze ukholise
Enye yeempazamo ezinkulu ezenziwa ngabantu abaninzi xa beqala ubudlelwane kukuzibonisa ngendlela eyahlukileyo ukuze bakholise iqabane. Umfanekiso ogqwethekileyo kunye nohlukeneyo wenziwa ongenanto yakwenza nenyani. Oku akunamsebenzi ukususela ekuhambeni kwexesha inyaniso iphelela ekukhanyeni, ibangela ukungonwabi okukhulu phakathi kwesi sibini.
Yenza izicwangciso kwaye ubeke iinjongo kunye neqabane lakho ngaphambi kwexesha
Akucebisi konke konke ukubeka uluhlu lweenjongo kunye neenjongo kunye nomntu othandekayo ekuqaleni okanye ekuqaleni kobudlelwane. Ngokwembono yeemvakalelo, eyona nto ibalulekileyo yile ngoku kunye neyangoku. Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane kubalulekile ukwazi omnye umntu nzulu ukuze womeleze iqhina leemvakalelo kwaye ukwazi ukwakha ubudlelwane obumangalisayo.. Ngokuhamba kwexesha iqhelekile kumacala omabini Misela uluhlu lweenjongo kunye neethagethi kwaye ujonge kwixesha elizayo.
Ukuthwala imithwalo yeemvakalelo kubudlelwane bangaphambili
Akulunganga ukuphelisa ubuhlobo obuthile kwaye ngoko nangoko uqalise obutsha nomnye umntu. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ube nexesha elithile lokukwazi ukucubungula oko bekusenzeka ngaphambili kwaye uhambe ngokuzila kubudlelwane obudlulileyo ngaphandle kwengxaki. Kufuneka ushiye umthwalo weemvakalelo zezinye izibini ukusuka kwixesha elidlulileyo ecaleni, ngaphambi kokuqalisa ubuhlobo obutsha nomntu owahlukileyo.
Ngamafutshane, ezi zezinye zeempazamo ezenziwa ngabantu abaninzi xa beseka ubudlelwane. Ukuphepha nayiphi na kwezi mpazamo kunokunceda ulwalamano lusebenze ngcono kakhulu. kwaye iya kuhlala ixesha elide.