Ubomi babantu bugcwele "izinto" ezahlukeneyo kunye neemvakalelo ezixhomekeke kwinqanaba abakulo eliza kwenza umntu onwabe okanye angonwabi. Phakathi kwezi "zinto" kunye neemvakalelo kukho uthando, i msebenzi, la impilo, i mpu melelo… Ngokoluvo lwam, ezona zinto zibalulekileyo umntu ekufuneka enazo nezisebenza njengesiseko sokuphucula nokuzilungisa impilo kunye nothando kunye nenkxaso yabantu ababangqongileyo. Ukuba nazo zombini okanye enye yazo, ndiyakholelwa kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba yonke into inokufezekiswa, yonke into ingoyiswa kwaye ixhomekeke kuphela kumzamo wethu, ukukhuthaza kunye nomsebenzi wethu wemihla ngemihla. Ngale nto siza kuthetha nawe namhlanje, nge ukufikelela kwiinjongo zethu kunye neenjongo zethu imihla ngemihla.
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba ngawaphi amanqaku esiwajonga njengawona abalulekileyo kwaye athandekayo ukuba ube nobomi obunempumelelo okanye ubuncinci ukufezekisa oko besizimisele ukukwenza ekuqaleni, qhubeka ufunda eli nqaku. Fumana iinjongo zakho imihla ngemihla ngale nto ilula Isikhokelo esisebenzisekayo Oko kuyakukwenza uthuli kuluhlu lomnqweno owawuqale ngoJanuwari 1.
Abantu kufuneka bazibekele iinjongo
Ukukhula njengabantu, nokuba sisemphefumlweni okanye sithetha ngokomsebenzi, kufuneka sikhuthazwe imihla ngemihla kwaye sizibekele iinjongo ezincinci zokuhlangabezana nexesha elifutshane okanye eliphakathi.
Sikubeka ejemplo: UMaria unobunzima obuyi-80 kg kwaye ngu-1,65 kuphela ubude. Nangona onwabile, ufumanise ukuba ubunzima bakhe bumenza angakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi ethile awayethanda ukuyenza ngaphambili kwaye efuna ukuphila ubomi obunempilo. Ngesi sizathu, uMaría uthathe isigqibo sokunciphisa umzimba ngokwenza umthambo yonke imihla kunye nokutya ukutya okulawulwa ngokusempilweni. Ukuze uMaria ayithobele kwaye angadimazeki, kufuneka enze ntoni? Cwangcisa injongo, umzekelo, ukulahla i-10 kilos kwiinyanga ezi-3 ezizayo. Ngale njongo engqondweni, uMaría uya kwenza konke okusemandleni ukuphumeza oko, kodwa ngenkuthazo eninzi, ukuzincama nokunyamezela (ayisiyongqengqelo yeentyatyambo ngokucacileyo). Kodwa ukuba uMaria akazange azibekele usukelo olucacileyo noluzinzileyo, ngekhe ayifumane inkuthazo kwaye angabinalo olo phawu njengoxanduva.
Iingcebiso zokufezekisa iinjongo zakho imihla ngemihla
- Impazamo yokuqala edlalwa ngabantu kukulibala ezo njongo ziphakathi okanye zexesha elide. Ezo zimfutshane kulula ukuzikhumbula, kodwa ezo ziphakathi okanye ixesha elide kufuneka sizigcine engqondweni ukuzikhumbula imihla ngemihla. Yayo, Sincoma ukuba ubhale phantsi kwindawo ebonakalayo: incwadana yokubhala oyiphethe ebhegini yakho, kumnyango wefriji, kwikhokho kwigumbi lakho lokufundela okanye eofisini, njl. Yibhale phantsi, bhala phantsi umhla wokuqala kunye nomhla ngqo okanye oqikelelweyo ofuna ukuhlangana nawo. Ukugcina usukelo lwethu engqondweni kusinceda silufezekise.
- "Sukuyekela ingomso into onokuyenza namhlanje": Yintetho endala kakhulu kodwa hayi ngenxa yeso sizathu iyasilela enyanisweni. Bhala phantsi kwi-ajenda, kubusuku obudlulileyo, okanye kusasa, yonke imisebenzi ekufuneka uyenzile ngeeyure. Yenza ezona zibalulekileyo kuqala, emva koko ezingxamisekileyo kwaye ukhumbule ukushiya isithuba samathuba akho okuphumla kunye nokuzonwabisa, ... Ukuba injongo yakho iyaphunyezwa imihla ngemihla, uyakufuna i-ajenda yokuzilungiselela ungangeni kwisilingo Ukuphulukana nexesha elininzi lokuzonwabisa ixesha elide kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo, ukwenza ukuba izifundo ezininzi ziyekwe, njl.njl.).
- Ekuseni kakhulu: Umntu ngamnye wahlukile kwaye umntu ngamnye ufuna ixesha elahlukileyo lokuphumla. Ngokuqinisekileyo sele uyazi ngcono kunaye nabani na ukuba zingaphi iiyure ekufuneka uziphumlile ebusuku ukuze uvuke ukhuthazekile kwaye ugcwele amandla, akunjalo? Ewe, hamba uyolala ngobusuku obungaphambili ngexesha elifanelekileyo ukuze kusasa ufumane ixesha lokwenza yonke into oyifunayo kwaye uyayifuna emini.
- Rhoqo zibonise ezo njongo ukuba ngenye imini uziphawule kwaye ziyile kwakhona xa kukho imfuneko. Izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka ziyatshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye ezinye iinjongo ziyafezekiswa njengoko iintsuku zihamba. Ngesi sizathu, sicebisa ukuba amaxesha ngamaxesha uzibonise, uzihlalutye kwaye uzichaze ngokutsha. Ngale ndlela uza kubona ukuba wenza konke okusemandleni ukuzizalisekisa, ukuba yile nto uqhubeka ufuna ukuyiphumeza, njl.
Khumbula ukuba yonke into ofuna ukuyiphumeza ifuna umsebenzi wemihla ngemihla, iiyure zokuzincama, inkuthazo eninzi kunye nenkxaso kunye nokuqonda okuvela kubantu bethu. Zijikeleze nabantu abakongeza kuwe, abangakuthabathiyo, hlala rhoqo kwaye unyamezele kwaye uzame ukuba kwindawo elungileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Ithamsanqa liyanceda kancinci. Ngethamsanqa lamaphupha akho!