Hazvishamise kuti kuita rudo kwakanyanya kuita zvebonde pane kungoita bonde. Iyo nhanho nyowani nyowani yehukama hwehukama hwekuti vazhinji vakaroorana vanoita kunge vanokanganwa nezve kana chikamu chehusiku hwapera. Kunyangwe imwe bonde repanyama inogona kuve inoshamisa inokwezva uye yakakosha, kuita rudo kunongopa chimwe chinhu icho bonde risingakwanise.
Iyo inoremerwa nemanzwiro uye nemanzwiro aripo uye anopa nzira kune zvakawanda kupfuura chiitiko chemuviri. Kana iwe wakaita bonde rakawandisa nemumwe wako pane kuita rudo, saka pane nzira dzekuchinja izvo kuitira kuti nguva inotevera pane rudo kwete bonde chete.
Ridzai mumhanzi
Kana iwe uchida kushandura bonde rako riite rudo, kuwedzera ruzha kunonyatso kubatsira. Gadzira runyorwa rwe rwiyo rwe rwiyo nenziyo dzinononoka dzinozokutora iwe munguva pfupi. Izvo zvakakosha kuti nziyo dziri mune yako yekutamba nziyo dzerudo, hapana nziyo dzebonde, saka dzivisa chero chinhu chakanyanya kuita bonde sezvo chichizokubvisa panhau.
Dzinononoka, acoustic-mhando dzerudo nziyo ndidzo dzakanakisa nekuti kana rudo ruri kutamba kumashure, unogona kunyatsopinda murudo urwo urwo rwekuita.
Vheneka mamwe makenduru
Iwe unogona kutaurira zvakawanda nezvemakenduru ari muimba yekurara. Chiedza chisina kujeka chinogona kuumba mamiriro erudo ayo akaoma kunzvenga, nokudaro tichigadzira chiitiko chekudyidzana. Makenduru akakukomberedza, pamwe neako runyorwa rwekunze kumashure, gadzira iyo chiitiko chechiitiko cherudo chausingazombokanganwa.
Mitambo yapfuura
Kutungamira kune bonde kazhinji kunopisa senge iyo bonde pachezvayo, saka kana iwe ukawedzera foreplay kuti uve nechokwadi chekuti urikuita rudo, zvinonyatsowedzera mikana yako yekuswedera ikoko. Tsvoda mumwe wako kubva kumusoro kusvika kutsoka, zvishoma nezvishoma ongorora masendimita ese emuviri wako uye ubvumire kuti iite zvakafanana.
Paunenge uchikwanisa kuve panjodzi nemumwe wako uye nekumutendera kuti ave zvakafanana newe, kubatana kwemanzwiro kuchawedzera kubvumira bonde kuti rive rudo. Makenduru achapisa akakukomberedza uye mumhanzi ucharidza kumashure, saka zvinoita sekunge iwe uye mumwe wako anga ari mune yako yerudo chiitiko akafuridzirwa neyekudanana bhaisikopo.
Kutarisana neziso
Simba rekutarisana nemeso rinowanzo kutarisirwa pasi. Kugona kutarisa zvakadzama mumaziso emudiwa wako uchiita rudo unokwanisa zvinoita kunge zvinotyisa kana usipo imo mupfungwa zvakadaro.
Nekudaro, chinhu icho chinogona kukubatsira kuti usvike padanho apo paunonyatsonzwa kushamwaridzana nemunhu wauri kuita rudo naye, uye kwete kwete panyama chete. Paunotarisana mumaziso emumwe nemumwe, unogona kuenda padanho idzva rehukama uye bonde rinoshanduka kuita rudo pasina nguva.
Uye rangarira… usamhanye! Kudzikama zvinhu zvinonyanya kunakidza munguva dzepedyo sevanhu vaviri.