Rudo mukuyaruka runokosha zvikuru kupfuura rungaratidzika pakutanga. Ukama hwakanaka kana, pane kudaro, chiitiko chakashata chinogona kukanganisa zvakananga chinhu chinobata chemunhu ari mubvunzo.
Hapana mubvunzo kuti rudo mukuyaruka haruna kutombofanana nerudo rwevakuru, ine maitiro ayo uye kukosha kwayo. Munyaya inotevera tinotaura nezvorudo mukuyaruka uye basa revabereki mariri.
Rudzi rwerudo mukuyaruka
Muhupenyu hwese munhu achasangana nemhando dzakawanda dzerudo, ingave yehama, yemwana, hushamwari kana rudo rwerudo. Nenzira iyi, rudo rwemwana ndirwo rudo urwo vana vanogamuchira pavanongozvarwa kubva kuvabereki vavo. Panyaya yerudo rwerudo, rwunotanga kana rwasvika padanho rekuyaruka.
Hunhu hwerudo rwevechiri kuyaruka
Rudo runowanikwa mukati mekuyaruka rucharatidzwa zvakanyanya nezvinhu zviviri zvakakosha:
- Irwo rudzi rworudo umo kukwezva pabonde kwakasimba uye kwakakosha. Mukomana kana kuti musikana anoda chaizvo kubata mudiwa wake uye kuita zvepabonde. Bonde saka ndicho chinhu chikuru chinopikisa kuda kana rudo pacharwo.
- Pane hukama hwakasimba hwepfungwa kune mudiwa. Vechiduku vose vari vaviri vanogoverana mirangariro yavo nemirangariro nenzira yakakomba zvikuru sezvo ruri rudo rwavo rwokutanga.
Vabereki vanofanira kuita sei pavanotarisana norudo runonzwa mwanakomana wavo ari kuyaruka
Kuuya kwerudo rwekutanga inguva yakakosha zvikuru kune chero munhu wechidiki. Panyaya yevabereki, ivo vanofanirwa kuita vachifunga nezve nhevedzano yenhungamiro uye maficha:
- Iwe unofanirwa kuremekedza kuvanzika kwemudiki uye kwete kupindira mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu. Mwana ari kuyaruka anofanira kuva norusununguko rwakakwana pakutaura nezvenyaya yacho nevabereki vake uye asinganzwi achimutadzisa.
- Vabereki havambofaniri kuseka manzwiro epwere. Inguva yakakosha muhupenyu kune akati jaya, naizvozvo vabereki vanofanira kuratidza ruremekedzo rwakati nokuda kwayo ndokuitsigira muchinhu chiri chose.
- Mwana ari kuyaruka anofanira kubvumirwa kutaura manzwiro ake akasununguka. uye iwe unogona kugovera chiitiko chako chakanaka nevabereki vako. Hazvikurudzirwi zvachose kudzvinyirira wechidiki kuitira kuti arege kuvhurika pamwero wepfungwa.
- Hazvina kunaka kutaura zvakaipa nezvevaviri ava, sezvo izvi zvichigona kuita kuti azvivhare uye usade kugovana zvaunosangana nazvo.
- Kubva pakudzikama uye runyararo zviri nyore kugara nevadiki uye taurai musinganyadziswi nezvepabonde. Nyaya yebonde yakakosha panguva yebonde, ndosaka zvakanaka kutaura nezvayo nemudiki.
- Kunyangwe kuve nemudiwa chirango chinofanira kuvapo nguva dzose mumhuri uye jaya rinofanira kuita mabasa aro nezvaanofanira kuita mukati memba.
Muchidimbu, hapana mubvunzo kuti rudo runowanwa mukati mokuyaruka kazhinji kazhinji runosiya chiratidzo muupenyu hwomunhu upi noupi. Irwo rudo rwakasiyana zvachose neruchaonekwa gare gare mumakore. Chero zvazvingava, zvakakosha kuti vabereki vazive maitiro ekuita nenzira yakanakisisa uye vatsigire wechidiki mune zvose zvinodiwa. Rudo rwevechiri kuyaruka kazhinji ndiyo imwe yenguva dzinoshamisa uye dzemashiripiti muhupenyu hwechero munhu.