Nzira yekuita uye kutaura kwemanzwiro akasiyana Ivo vanozonyanya kuona rudzi rwekunamatira kuripo mune vaviri. Kusungirirwa kunotsamira zvakananga paunhu uhwo munhu ane uye nehuduku hwaaive nahwo.
Muchinyorwa chinotevera tinotaura nezve mhando dzakasiyana dzekunamatira dzinogona kuitika muhukama uye maitiro emumwe nemumwe wavo.
Chii chatinonzwisisa nekubatanidzwa
Kusungirirwa hachisi chimwe chinhu kunze kwechisungo chinobatika chichavapo nemumwe munhu. Kubatana kwambotaurwa kunogadzirwa kubva panguva iyo mwana anozvarwa uye inogara muhupenyu hwese, kungave neshamwari, mhuri, vana kana mudiwa. Kubatana kwaanoita kubva achiri mudiki ndiko kunosarudza hukama hwemangwana nemunhu wake.
Makirasi ekubatanidzwa mune vaviri vacho
- Rudzi rwekutanga rwekubatanidza haruna kuchengeteka uye anoratidza kusavimbika kuri pachena mumudiwa. Zvose izvi zvinotungamirira kune kutya uye kusachengeteka kusingabatsiri hukama zvachose. Pane kutsamira kwakakosha mupfungwa uye kushaikwa kwerusununguko kunoita kuti chisungo chiite zinyekenyeke nekufamba kwenguva. Pane kuenderera mberi kwekushandiswa kwekugadzirisa manzwiro kuitira kudzora mudiwa.
- Rudzi rwechipiri rwekunamatira rwuri kure kana kutonhora. Mumhando iyi yehukama mune kushaikwa kwerudo kuri pachena uye munhu wese anoda nzvimbo yake yega. Kutonhoresa pamwero werudo uye wepfungwa unoiswa zvachose muhukama hwevaviri.
- Rudzi rwechitatu rwekunamatira runogona kuitika mune vakaroorana inshuwarisi. Rudzi urwu rwekubatana runovimbisa kuenderera kwenguva refu kwevaviri. Bato rimwe nerimwe rine nzvimbo yavo yega uye hapana chekutonga. Pane kuvimbana kwakazara muvaviri uye izvi zvine mhedzisiro yakanaka pachisungo chakagadzirwa. Kukurukurirana kune mvura uye yakakwana, chimwe chinhu chakakosha kana zvasvika pakutsvaga mhinduro dzakanakisa dzemakakatanwa kana matambudziko angamuka mukati mevakaroorana
- Rudzi rwekupedzisira rwekunamatira rwunozivikanwa sekusarongeka uye musanganiswa wekusachengeteka uye kutonhora. Maitiro anowanzo putika uye anokurumidza, izvo zvinokanganisa zvakananga hukama. Positive emotions inotora chigaro chekumashure kune kukuvadza kwemanzwiro asina kunaka. Kuvhiringidzika kunowanikwa nguva dzose muukama, chimwe chinhu icho, sezvinotarisirwa, chisingabatsiri vaviri vacho pachavo.
Muchidimbu, maitiro ekunamatira anozoratidza hutano hwevaviri. Kusungirirwa kwakachengeteka hakuna kufanana neimwe isina kuchengeteka kana kutonhora. Emotional balance ndiyo yakakosha kana hukama hwakasimba uye vaviri vacho vasvika pane imwe nhanho yekugara zvakanaka kana mufaro. Rangarira kuti kubatanidzwa kunogona kugadziridzwa uye kugadzira hukama hune hutano sezvinobvira.