Kudonha murudo idanho rinoshamisa rehupenyu iro vanhu vazhinji vanosangana naro pavanotanga imwe hukama. Panguva iyoyo, munhu wacho anogamuchira mhando dzese dzekunzwa nenzira yakasimba iyo nekufamba kwenguva inogadzikana uye simbisa hukama hwakadai nenzira yakadaro. Zvese izvi zvinobatsira vaviri vacho kuti vasimbe pamberi pemudiwa.
Muganho chirwere chinoratidzika kana munhu wacho ine chishuwo chekuda kudiwa uye kudzorerwa.
Chii chinonzi kugumira?
Kuganhurika idambudziko rekunyanyisa uye rekumanikidza iro munhu mumwe akafananidza newaanoda. Kuzvibata kwakadai nerudo kunozviratidza kuburikidza nekuremerwa kukuru kwemanzwiro uye dzimwe pfungwa dzakapusa dzisina hutano pahukama. Chinhu chimwe chete kuva murudo uye chimwe chakasiyana zvachose kuratidza hunhu uye hunomanikidza maitiro pamberi pechishuwo chekuda uye kudiwa.
Maitiro ekuona kuremerwa
Iko kune akateedzana ezviratidzo ayo anogona kuyambira kuti munhu anotambura nemuganho:
- Zvese zvinotenderera pane iye waunoda. Pfungwa dzinoshanduka kuita kushushikana nemumwe munhu ari muhukama.
- Iye munhu anotambura nedambudziko rakadai ane kutya kukuru kurambwa kubva kune iye waanoda. Izvi zvinounza kushushikana kukuru muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva.
- Akati kutya kuti haina kudzorerwa, inogadzira akateedzana maitiro ekumanikidza sekubvunza nguva dzese nezve manzwiro akagadzirwa muhukama.
- Kuganhurirwa kunogona kukonzeresa kuti munhu anotambura nedambudziko iri ave nepfungwa dzakamonyoroka dzechokwadi nenzira yekujairira. Izvi zvinoita kuti arasikirwe nekudzora manzwiro ake.
- Kufunga nguva dzese kuti mumwe munhu anogona kuzviramba, zvinokonzeresa kuti uve neruzhinji rwezvinhu zvisina kunaka pamusoro pemunhu waunoda.
- Kana munhu wacho achitambura nemimerance, anozogonesa iye anodiwa nguva dzese. Kufungidzira kwakanyanyisa zvekuti hakugone kufungidzirwa chero nguva kuti munhu ane zvimwe zvakashata kana kuti anogona kunge ari kukanganisa.
- Muzviitiko zvakanyanyisa uye zvakakomba, munhu ane chirwere funga kuti hupenyu hauna chinangwa kana asiri pamwe nemudiwa.
- Zvakajairika kuti kana ukatambura nemuganhu, munhu ane matambudziko akakura epfungwa senge kushushikana kana kushushikana. Kuzviremekedza uye chivimbo zvinodzikisirwawo nekuti zvinoenderana nezvinofungwa nechimwe chikamu chevaviri.
Muchidimbu, Muganhu kurira kwekumanikidza kusagadzikana kune chekuita nekudanana nemumwe munhu. Hukama kana vaviri vacho vanotora chigaro chekumashure, nekuti chakakosha chishuwo chekuda kungodiwa. Ihwo hukama hune chepfu sezvo munhu ane dambudziko rakadai asingakwanise kurarama hupenyu hwakajairika, achitenderera zvese zvakapoteredza mudiwa. Hukama hwakanaka hunofanirwa kuvakirwa pazvikamu zvakaenzana kuremekedza, kuvimba uye rudo. Rudo inyaya yevaviri uye haigone kuvakwa semhedzisiro yekunyanyisa uye nehunhu hunhu.