Kunyange zvazvo vanhu vakawanda vachifunga kuti manzwiro maviri akafanana, kuda hakuna kufanana nekuda munhu. Kunyange zvazvo vari chikamu chechikamu chimwe chete kana zvasvika pakudanana nemunhu, kunzwa kwekuda kunotangira chokwadi chekuda mumwe munhu.
Munyaya inotevera tichataura newe nezvazvo kusiyana kwemanzwiro maviri uye maitiro emumwe nemumwe wavo.
Ndeupi musiyano pakati pekuda nekuda
Mazwi ekuda uye kuda anowanzo shandiswa kazhinji muhupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva.. Iri pamusoro pemanzwiro anoshandiswa pamberi pevaviri, pamberi pemhuri kana kushamwari. Munyaya yekuda, manzwiro anotangira nguva yerudo. Nekufamba kwenguva, manzwiro aya anoshanduka zvishoma kana zvishoma kusvika asvika murudo.
Kusada kupfuura kushuvira munhu zvakanyanya. Uku kunzwa kwakasimba uye kwakasimba kunogona kuve kwenguva pfupi kana kugara kwenguva refu. Panyaya yerudo, kunzwa kunoita mumwe munhu kubatana kana kusunga kune mumwe. Kukwanisa kushamwaridzana nomumwe munhu kunoita kuti kunzwa kworudo kwambotaurwa kuratidzike kwakasimba.
Dzimwe fungidziro pamusoro pekuda nerudo
- Manzwiro ekuda mumwe munhu kana chimwe chinhu anogara akabatana nechiito chekuda chimwe chinhu. Panyaya yerudo, hapana chishuwo chakadaro kana chero rudzi rwechido kubva munhu asvika parudzi rwekukura zvekuti kuda kunoshandurwa kana kushanduka kuita chiito cherudo.
- Rudo runoda nguva kana rwasvika pakurunzwa mukati, ukuwo pakuda, nguva haisi chinhu chinodiwa. Kazhinji unosvika parudo mushure mekudanana nemunhu anogona kunge ari mudiwa wako kana mhuri yako. Kuda kunogona kuitika chero nguva muhupenyu uye haufanire kuve wepedyo kana zvasvika pakuzvinzwa.
- Kunzwa rudo rwechokwadi kumunhu, zvinodikanwa kuti usvike pakukura kwechokwadi pamwero wemanzwiro. Panyaya yekuda mumwe munhu, haudi chero rudzi rwekukura uye unogona kuzvinzwa chero nguva muhukama.
- Rudo runogara rwakabatanidzwa kune chimwe chinhu icho chinowanzove nenhevedzano yezvirongwa zvehupenyu nemumwe munhu. Panyaya yekunzwa kuda, hapafanirwe kunge paine chinongedzo kana kubatana kwekubatana nemumwe munhu. Mapurojekiti akasiyana kana mazano aripo mune imwe hukama, anoitika nekuti unenge watotanga kuda mumwe munhu. Kuda hakuna kukwana kana uchitanga hukama hwakati.
Pakupedzisira, kuda munhu kwakasiyana zvachose nokumuda. Iwo mafungiro maviri akasiyana zvachose, kunyangwe ari echikamu chekudanana nemunhu. Kuda chimwe chinhu chakakomba kupfuura rudo uye chinoda nguva uye kukura kana zvasvika pakukwanisa kuzvinzwa.