Rudo runogona kunzwiwa kune mumwe munhu pasina mubvunzo imwe yemanzwiro akanyanya uye akakosha ayo munhu anogona kusangana nawo. Chido cherudo chinodiwa chimwe chinhu chakasiyana chinokonzera kugutsikana kukuru kune vese munhu nemudiwa wavo. Zvinosuruvarisa, haasi munhu wose anokwanisa kuwana manzwiro akadaro erudo uye chido kune mumwe munhu.
Munyaya inotevera tichazotaura newe kwemavambo echido muhukama uye kuti ungawana sei zvakafanana mukati mevaviri.
Shungu dziri muvaviri
Kuti mune vamwe vakaroorana mune chido chikuru, Chinhu chinogutsa vanhu vese vari vaviri zvizere. Kuziva kugadzirisa manzwiro aya chinhu chinopa chikafu uye chinopfumisa munhu zvachose uye saka vaviri vacho pachavo. Zvisinei, zvinofanira kucherechedzwa kuti kana akati chido chinoitika chisingazivi, chinowanzokuvadza munhu uye hukama pachahwo.
Manzwiro ambotaurwa erudo rwerudo anogona kuita kuti munhu atende nenzira isina kururama uye isina kururama, izvo zvinongonzwika nenzira yakadai nekuda kwevaviri. Kureva kuti mufaro womunhu kana kuti womumwe munhu unobva kumudiwa anogoverana upenyu hwake naye. Uyu munondo unocheka kumativi maviri sezvo uchigona kupfumisa humwe hukama, unogonawo kuupedza.
Mavambo echido muhukama
Chido chinogadzirwa mune imwe hukama hachinei nemudikani asi nemaonere anoita munhu uye zvinotarisirwa zvinoiswa paari. Izvi zvinogona kuita kuti kumwe kutsamira kugadzirwe kune mumwe munhu kana kugumisa hukama hwambotaurwa kana munhu achinzwa kuti hapasisina chido.
Shungu dziri mukati memunhu uye iwe unofanirwa kuziva nezvekunzwa ikoko nguva dzese. Nenzira iyi chete iwe unogona kunakidzwa zvizere nehukama pasina kutambura chero rudzi rwekutya kana kutya.
Chii chekuita kuti chido chakadaro chirambe chichirarama muvaviri
Kuchengeta kamoto kechido chakadaro chiri mhenyu uye chichishanda zvinoreva, kune rumwe rutivi, kuziva uye kugamuchira zvinhu zvakanaka nezvakaipa zvomudiwa. Kuzivikanwa uku kunobvumira munhu kuzvizadzisa semunhu uye kunakidzwa nekunzwa kwakakosha uye kwakanyanya kwakaoma kutsanangura.
Hapafaniri kuva nekutya kuti hukama huchapera. Kune rimwe divi, tinofanira kunzwisisa kuti hukama hwese ndehwenguva pfupi sezvo huchave nemagumo. Asi kune rumwe rutivi, hukama huriwo husingaperi uye nekusingaperi sezvo vachipa nhevedzano yemanzwiro uye manzwiro ayo achava chikamu chemunhu kwehupenyu hwose.
Chinonyanya kukosha mune imwe hukama haisi nguva, asi kunaka kwechisungo chakasikwa uye kugona kwemapato maviri kusvika pakuzivana uye kudzidza kubva kune mumwe nemumwe. Chido chakagadzirwa muvanhu vese chichabatsira vaviri ava kushanduka uye kuwana hupenyu hwakamirirwa kwenguva refu hwevaviri.
Muchidimbu, hapana mubvunzo kuti chido chingamuka pakati pevanhu vaviri Icho chinhu chinobatsira zvikuru chisungo chakagadzirwa. Kuda uku kunoita kuti hukama huwedzere kusimba kunyangwe nekufamba kwemakore uye kuti mapato ese anoshanduka sevanhu mune zvese zvinogoneka.