Chii chinonzi rudo?. Vanhu vazhinji havazivi kuti vangapindura sei mubvunzo uyu nemazvo. Rudo hachisi chinhu kunze kwekuzvipa zvakakwana kune mumwe munhu asi uchiremekedza uye uchigamuchira mudiwa.
Zvose mune zvose, ndiye munhu asingawanzoiti ari murudo uye asingabvunzi mibvunzo ine chokuita nerudo pacharwo. Munyaya inotevera tichataura nezvechimwe chokwadi nezverudo.
Ngozi yekufungidzira rudo
Rudo harufanire kutariswa sezvo chokwadi chakasiyana zvachose. Zvinofanira kujekeswa kuti hakuna rudo rwemufirimu sezvo rwusina kukwana. Ukama hwevakaroorana huchava nemasimba uye utera hwahwo. Chinhu chakakosha kuwana imwe chiyero kuitira kuti ifambire mberi pasina dambudziko.
kutarisira rudo
Rudo rwakafanana nemuti, unofanirwa kuuchengeta nguva dzose kuti uwedzere kusimba uye tsungirira nekufamba kwenguva. Pakutanga kwehukama zvinhu zvese zvinofamba zvakanaka asi nekufamba kwenguva zvinowanzoitika kuti mamwe matambudziko anogona kuoneka. Zvakadai, vaviri ava vanofanira kutsvaga magadzirisiro pamwe chete kuti rudo rwuvepo uye rurege kupera nekuparara.
Zvidiki zvidiki zvinoita kuti rudo ruvepo
Kuti hukama hushande, hazvina kukwana kuva murudo. Kuti zvishande, unofanira kuchengetedza moto werudo. Izvo zvidiki zvakakosha kuti rudo rurambe ruri mupenyu uye hukama hwevaviri husaparare voguma varambana. Passivity haina kunaka kurudo sezvo chinonyanya kukosha ibasa kune vaviri ava.
Ukama huri pakati perudo neruvengo
Kunyange zvazvo zvingaita semanzwiro akasiyana zvachose uye anopesana, chokwadi ndechokuti pane ukama hwakati pakati porudo noruvengo. Kana rudo rukasachengetwa, zvinogona kuitika kuti pave nekusawirirana muhukama hwevaviri zvinopedzisira zvakonzera kuvenga mudiwa. Saka zvakakosha kuti usayambuka mimwe miganhu mukati mehukama uye tsigirai murudo nguva dzose.
Zvide iwe pachako
Kuti rudo rwuve rwechokwadi uye rwechokwadi Unofanira kutanga nekuzvida. Kuzvigamuchira pachako kwakakosha kuitira kuti manzwiro kune mumwe munhu ave echokwadi uye abatsire kugadzira hukama hwakanaka. Zvakakosha kukwanisa kugovera mufaro wemukati nemudiwa uye nokudaro kugadzira hukama umo rudo ndicho chinhu chikuru chezvose.
Muchidimbu, rudo chairwo harunei nechokuita nezvinoonekwa mumabhaisikopo. Pane chiverengero chakati chezvokwadi pamusoro porudo chinofanira kurangarirwa kunyanya kana iwe uchigovana hupenyu nemumwe munhu. Rudo kunzwa kunoda kushanda nesimba uye kutarisirwa kwakawanda kumativi ose. Kana mudiwa wacho akasaita hanya nazvo uye akasaipa tarisiro yainoda, zvinobvira zvikuru kuti inopera simba kusvikira yanyangarika zvachose.