Tsiku la Amayi: kwa azimayi omwe amatithandiza mitima yathu

Pakati pa Meyi 1 mpaka milungu iwiri yotsatira, Tsiku la Amayi limakondweretsedwa m'maiko ambiri. Ngakhale zili zowona kuti sitikusowa tsiku lapadera kuti tikumbukire zomwe kukhala mayi kumatanthauza komanso kukhala ndi munthu amene adatipatsa moyo pambali pathu, sizimapweteka kupereka tchuthi ichi kwa iye, kumukumbutsa zonse zomwe akutanthauza kwa Ife .

Amayi ndiye mizati yathu ndipo chithandizo chomwe chimapereka chilichonse pachabe, ndiye chitsogozo chomwe chimapitilirabe chofunikira kwa ife ngakhale tili okhwima, kudziyimira pawokha komanso kudziyimira pawokha. Timakonda kukhala naye pafupi, timakonda kumva kuti amatisamalira komanso kumva mawu omwe amatilimbikitsa munthawi yamdima. Mu «Bezzia» tikufuna kukupemphani kuti muganizire za mawonekedwe ake, komanso, chomwe umayi umatanthauzanso.

Tsiku la Amayi: munthawi zovuta komanso munthawi zabwino

Titha kunena molakwika kuti palibe amene wakonzekera, palibe amene amabwera padziko lapansi ndi buku lamalangizo lotsogolera amayi kapena abambo njira yabwino yolerera mwana. Koma ngakhale zili zonse, tili ndi chitsimikizo kuti adachita bwino, kuti zolakwazo zidalandiridwa, ndikuti tsopano, ndizowunikiranso zathu komanso chitsogozo chathu chokhazikika pophunzitsira ana athu.

Tsopano, titha kunenanso kuti kukhala mayi ndichinthu chovuta kwambiri komanso kuti munthu aliyense amachiwona m'njira. Kuphatikiza apo, pali milandu momwe timaganizira azimayi "amayi" omwe alibe chochita ndi chibadwa chathu, komanso kuti timakonda kwambiri ziwerengero omwe, ngakhale sanali ochokera kubanja lathu, adaganiza zotenga nawo mbali.

• Kuti mukhale mayi, simuyenera kukhala ndi pakati kapena kunyamula nthawi yapakati. Kukhala mayi ndikuchita kulera motengera chikondi chenicheni, kudzipereka, chisamaliro ndi chikondi chomwe chimatengera kubwererana komwe kumatipangitsa kukula m'njira zonse.
• Chifukwa chake, titha kuwona amayi omwe ali ndi ufulu kulandira "udindowu" chifukwa chokhala ndi mwana, kutisamalira pomwe mayi wathu weniweni sanatero komanso chifukwa chake, umayi sikuti umangodutsa pakungoyembekezera.

Kukhala mayi munthawi zovuta

Tiyeni tsopano tipereke chikumbukiro chathu kwa onse azimayi omwe amadzuka ngati omenya nkhondo tsiku lililonse ndi cholinga chimodzi; kulera ana ako. Kawirikawiri zimanenedwa kuti mkazi samapeza mphamvu zake zonse kufikira atakhala ndi mwana.

Ndipamene dziko lathu limasinthira, ndipamene zofooka zimasanduka mphamvu ndipo sitimataya mtima. Munthawi yamavuto iyi zikuwoneka kuti kukhala mayi sikophweka konse. Sikuti tikungonena za mavuto azachuma komanso azachuma pomwe mabanja onse sangapatse ana awo chilichonse chomwe angafune.

• Mwachitsanzo, taganizirani za amayi onse othawa kwawo omwe ali m'malire a Europe, omwe athawa nkhondo yoopsa ndipo ambiri a iwo ataya amuna awo, abale komanso mwana. Ambiri amanyamula zochepera msana wawo kuti atenge zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri: anawo kuti amenyere kuti awapatse mwayi wina. Tsogolo.
• Tiyenera kunena kuti mabungwe othandiza anzawo akutsutsa zovuta zomwe amayi ambiri othawa kwawo amakumana nazo, popeza ambiri mwa iwo amazunzidwa chifukwa chobedwa chifukwa chomwe sichimadziwika nthawi zonse.

Kuchokera pamalo athu timakumbukiranso azimayiwa, ndikuyembekeza kuti ndale zamphamvu zazikulu zisintha ndipo titha kuyankha kuti anthu onsewa akuyenera, omwe monga ife, amangolakalaka chinthu chimodzi: kuwona ana awo akusangalala.

Ufulu wa amayi

Tonsefe timadziwa tanthauzo la kukhala mayi:

• Pitani, kuwongolera, kulimbikitsa maphunziro atsopano, pangani mgwirizano wazachitetezo ndi chikondi
• Limbikitsani kukonda komwe ana amakhala otetezeka kuti awone ngati akukondedwa
• Apatseni njira kuti ana athe kusankha njira zawo ndi maloto awo kuti awamenyere.

Tsopano, ngati china chake chikumveka bwino kwa ife, ndi chomwe amayi amapereka, ndipo nthawi zonse amatero mochokera "kuchokera mkati mpaka kunja", kuchokera m'mitima yawo kwa ife.

Ino ndi nthawi yoti tilingalire ndikupanga mtundu wina wa mayendedwe "kuchokera kunja mpaka mkati", tiyeni tiyambe kubwezera zina mwazomwe zatichitira. Tsiku la Amayi ndi nthawi yabwino kuti angomupatsa zambiri zakuthupi, maluwa kapena foni yam'manja. Zomwe angayamikire kwambiri ndikukumbatira, "zikomo pazonse zomwe mumachita, simukudziwa momwe mumafunira kwa ine."

 

Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi, ndikupatsanso malo. Ngati tachoka kale kunyumba kuti tikonze mabanja athu omwe, njira yoyenera kwambiri yopewera zomwe zimadziwika kuti chisa chopanda kanthu ndikuwapangitsa kuti abwerere kuzinthu zina zomwe amakonda kusiya mwanjira ina kutilera. KUAlimbikitseni kuti alembetse kosi, makalasi ovina, zochitika zomwe akupitilizabe kukula, kupitiliza kuphunzira ndikusangalala.

Komanso, ngati ndinu mayi, musataye zochitika zanu zosangalatsa, zokonda zanu. Ndinu mayi, osati kapolo wa maudindo anu, choncho phatikizani zonse ziwiri kuti muwone momwe mungakhalire olemera. Kukhala mayi, kukhala mwana wamwamuna ndichinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe tiyenera kusamalira tsiku lililonse.

 

Zithunzi mwachilolezo cha Claudia Tremblay